Whole Indian Marriage System

[biscuitRAJA000]

Next yr F%G_@ ..... Feb lo vasthunna ind ki ))(<

[mustang302]

That's the way it is man...!!

[Seshu_]

[dotnetrockz]

i guess u answered ur question.........ikkada mee friend ki aa ammayi nachi..he accepted.......nuvvu adagchu half and hour conversation lo em nachindhi ani.....same thing if a boy and girl are in courtship for certain amount of time and daani tarvatha diufferences vachi vidipotharu........alage a relation stand on trust.....adhi half hour converstaion tho build avchu or else 5 years unna tryust lekunte break avvachu....

 

andaru pelli ki mundhu love chesi marriage chesukovala nte mana indians more than 50% mandhiki(ippudu pellaiana vallaki) evarrki pellilu ayyevi kavu

[Ruler4Dmasses]

Arranged marriages endi saamy.. Ademanna market lo shoppingaa.. requirements match aite konukkovataaniki.. You should know the person, like him or her and should be interested in spending the rest of the life with them..

Friend gaadu net lo profile choosi skype chatting chesi marriage fix cheskunnadu.. I can't imagine doing that.. Can't marry some one without knowing them at least for an year.. Migataavanni parents maatladukunnaru anta..

Chaala complex gaa anipinchinaa.. The tradition has its own benefits and downside..
Okati aalochinchualsindentante.. Failure/ dissatisfaction within arranged couple is high only after the modern era when joint families started to divide and move into remote urban places.. Call it for education or work or whatsoever ?

Apparitions varaku India lo it's very highly stable baa.. Oka 30-50 nunche. After exploring new habits/ discoveries of fields and globalization .. The percent decreased ..

Love cheskuntollallo ledaaa parichayasthulatho Pelli llalo percentage is quite significant due to various other reasons that come after marriage.. Happy gaa vunnollu unnaaru..

Parents indeed are understanding the latest choice trend and are much liberal baaa than 2or 3 generations ..

I don't think its fd up .. It's just immature planning or spontaneous momentary decisions that are screwing things big time ..

Villages lo majority arrangedee.. Akkada dissatisfaction very less .. Urban tho compare chesthe.. Cities lo kooda there are lots of people whose parents and in laws are happy with the latest concept of knowing each other ...

Evvaru individual choice baa adhi ..

[sid_22]

maa friend gaadu ayyithe..... valla parents tho..... meeku nachithe naaku nachinatte amma annadu........ last ki match fix ayyipoindi eediki........ He didn't even go to India to see her or even talk to her on phone............parents meeda entha affection unna.......... asala lifepartner tho phone lo kooda matladaledu ante thats too much.........

[Ruler4Dmasses]

maa friend gaadu ayyithe..... valla parents tho..... meeku nachithe naaku nachinatte amma annadu........ last ki match fix ayyipoindi eediki........ He didn't even go to India to see her or even talk to her on phone............parents meeda entha affection unna.......... asala lifepartner tho phone lo kooda matladaledu ante thats too much.........

Ante ikkada ammayi tho maatladaledante .. Babu ki parents meedha aa level rapport undundaaali.. Vallakkodaaa Veedi tastelu already fine tuned gaa thelsundaali..

[jojo]

entha plan chesina ni fate lo emunte adhe avudhi.

1 yr , 2 yrs or 5 yrs dating chesi vidipoyevarunnaru, ala okati flop avuthe em chesthavu inko ammayini 1 year thelusukunta antava? 

long term friends ga undi or relation lo undi pelli chesukuni tharvata divorce thisukune valu unnaru. 

Ninnane naku oka friend matter thelisindhi, almost 6-7 yrs relation lo undi break up ayyaru.

So don't assume anything and don't be judgemental, take life as it comes.

All the best.

[Ruler4Dmasses]

entha plan chesina ni fate lo emunte adhe avudhi.
1 yr , 2 yrs or 5 yrs dating chesi vidipoyevarunnaru, ala okati flop avuthe em chesthavu inko ammayini 1 year thelusukunta antava?
long term friends ga undi or relation lo undi pelli chesukuni tharvata divorce thisukune valu unnaru.
Ninnane naku oka friend matter thelisindhi, almost 6-7 yrs relation lo undi break up ayyaru.
So don't assume anything and don't be judgemental, take life as it comes.
All the best.

Ni think its a good way of seeing things

[galiraju]

Nothing is perfect man!

[ramu]

maa friend gaadu ayyithe..... valla parents tho..... meeku nachithe naaku nachinatte amma annadu........ last ki match fix ayyipoindi eediki........ He didn't even go to India to see her or even talk to her on phone............parents meeda entha affection unna.......... asala lifepartner tho phone lo kooda matladaledu ante thats too much.........

ilanti vallu

[k2s]

Arranged marriages endi saamy.. Ademanna market lo shoppingaa.. requirements match aite konukkovataaniki.. You should know the person, like him or her and should be interested in spending the rest of the life with them..

Friend gaadu net lo profile choosi skype chatting chesi marriage fix cheskunnadu.. I can't imagine doing that.. Can't marry some one without knowing them at least for an year.. Migataavanni parents maatladukunnaru anta..

introduce contract marriages man

[RajSarkar1]

Arranged marriages endi saamy.. Ademanna market lo shoppingaa.. requirements match aite konukkovataaniki.. You should know the person, like him or her and should be interested in spending the rest of the life with them..

 

Friend gaadu net lo profile choosi skype chatting chesi marriage fix cheskunnadu.. I can't imagine doing that.. Can't marry some one without knowing them at least for an year.. Migataavanni parents maatladukunnaru anta..

 

agreed 100%

[faf]

ala 1 or 2 yrs verevaditho undi,, tastes match avvaka vidipoyina ammayitho inko 1 yr nuvvu kalisundi aa tarvatha pelli cheskunta ante, no problem manchide kada alane follow ayipo

[Ruler4Dmasses]

Pelli ante innesi chilkumudulaa.. Ayya baaboy..