Estory -1 :past Affair

[rapchik]

I have been engaged for a while now and everything was going great until now. One of the common contacts that I have has informed me about a past affair of my fiancee and it has been troubling me since then. I asked her and she said its true.

I have come from a very uptight bringing family and I never had a GF or anything.I'm not sure why but I never was interested in any relationship I guess. I'm not saying that I expect the same thing from my future wife. I'm not that narrow-minded. I understand that but I expected at least some honesty from her. 

She once asked me about my past relationships. I did not ask her about her past but she never came clean and told. She has many times spoken sweetly and said that this is the first relationship for her, how she is lucky etc.
I know girls would not risk about telling their husbands/fiancee about their past but why create an alternate story. She could have just kept quiet. I fell like I have been made a fool here.

Looks like she had some sort of physical relationship too.Not sure up to what level(She did not deny but I stopped myself from asking details as I could not bear listening to it). Honestly, I would not have cared about it if she would have told me about it or just kept silent. But, again false stories here and went to the extent of asking if I have been to call girls. I was pissed of when she asked me this but decided to ignore. She had the nerves to ask me such a question when she herself was hiding her past from me.

I'm angry and doubtful now and wonder if anything that she shared has any truth to it or all of it was just acting, pretending. I would have understood if she would have kept quiet and not said anything but instead she acted like she is this innocent girl who knows nothing and done nothing.

There's one more thing that is eating me.About her ex-BF, she said that the reason they couldn't take it forward was their parents were dead against it. I'm not sure why but this is what is troubling me most. The fact that she liked him but could not take it forward due to parents pressure is killing me. I would have at least been at peace if the reason for breakup was her BF being a bad guy or an idiot.

Adding to this, there is a chance that ppl in my social circle would eventually know about her past and I don't know if I can handle it in future if this spreads out and comes out in open. As I said, we are an uptight orthodox family.

I feel like i'm acting all crazy and paranoid but this is how I feel right now. I really like this girl but can't get myself to overlook these things. I want to give ourselves a chance but worried how many skeletons she has been hiding or will hide in future.

sorry guys for bothering you but I had to spit it out somewhere.

[Silver_mani]

vuncle neeku pelli aipoyaka kuda affairs meeda enduku antha interest ?

[bokuboy]

uncle enti mak e siksha 

[Anta Assamey]

[ahimsavaadhi1]

bhayya.. ee story evaridi......??

 

 

[KaskaMiska]

best thing to accept "he has been made Bakra"

[Rebel890]

directly ask her if she got screwed or not ..?

[bokuboy]

 

brahmmi i hate u 

[rapchik]

vuncle neeku pelli aipoyaka kuda affairs meeda enduku antha interest ?

nekosame bhayya....nuvu ee padu chethilo padvadhu ani...

 

ayina naku inka pelli kaledhu ....just got confirmation Joining date rale

[rapchik]

brahmmi i hate u 

abayivi abayini hate cheydamu endhi ra ayya 

[Silver_mani]

nekosame bhayya....nuvu ee padu chethilo padvadhu ani...

 

ayina naku inmka pelli kaledhu ....just got confirmation Joining date rale

 mayya voddu ...pelli cheskoku bye1  bye1  bye1

[Anta Assamey]

abayivi abayini hate cheydamu endhi ra ayya 

 

Vadu Hate cheyatame better... Love seste worst ga vuntundi kada Reddy 

[bokuboy]

abayivi abayini hate cheydamu endhi ra ayya 

 

u musali reddy pakkaki poyi aaduko 

[Anta Assamey]

brahmmi i hate u 

 

Edisav le kaani.... Holidays vaste intiki pokunda... Hyd lo ne evarthini gokutu tirugutunavu...  

[macha]

Better not to marry this girl u will not live peaceful lyrics with her...