Estory: Intlo Mogudu Veedilo Bf.... Em Cheyyali?

[sid_22]

I'm a married woman in my 30s. I have a nice life - a decent husband, kids, job...of course there are are shortcomings, but from my own perspective I have a lot to thank for now.

In the past year however, my husband has become very quiet. I can feel that the spark and that intense love that existed between us is not present anymore. He is always engrossed in his phone and tablet. Whatever I try to say, sets him off and irritates him. So I have learned to be quiet too. Its not easy all the time because by nature I'm a very talkative person and I speak, he becomes angry , and a fight begins. I somehow feel he doesn't care for me anymore as he used to earlier. Its almost 8 years of marriage. Of course, when it comes to kids we are together. But as a couple, we are not the same anymore.

Ideally, one should go to a marriage counselor for such cases. But something else happened to me. Couple of months ago I met someone at an office event. There was a spark and we started talking. He called me for coffee a week later, for a film a month later, and two months later, I slept with him. We are not like teenage lovers. We share same interests in many aspects of life, we talk about things which we cannot discuss with spouses, friends, coworkers, we discuss films and books. There is some unspoken love. We exchange emails few times a week and talk on phone maybe once in two weeks. Both of us want to believe that we are giving to each other what is missing in our marriages (he's married with kids too).

I love my husband. I want to live with him till i grow old. There is no question of separating from him. This new friend, I don't know what to call him. Results of wanderings of a stray mind? I don't know.

Is anyone able to identify with me? I would like to know.

 

 

 

 

Moral of the story....... meeku interest lekapoyina........ mee wifes or husbands ni santhoshapettandi......lekapothe ilane tagaladatayi kaapuralu...... intaki ee aunty ni em cheyyamantaru...... db uncles share ur opinions.......

 

 

 

 

[Mama77]

2 months paricheyam ke affair aa?

[ChampakDas]

spark aa ante magadheera lo vachinata?? nee bonda job cheyadam manesi intlo kurcho konni months

[Tadika]

[ChampakDas]

ahhaa after how many days I am seeing this one of my fav gifs tadika tadika tadika...nuvu terichinave gifu chilaka

 

[Tadika]

ahhaa after how many days I am seeing this one of my fav gifs tadika tadika tadika...nuvu terichinave gifu chilaka

ee thread enti baa ila vundhi 

[Yuva Nataratna]

LM........ 

[bio]

expectation r growin up these days, cant help... :5_2_108:

[cheguveera]

@~`

[ChampakDas]

lakam maripoyindi tadika..

ee thread enti baa ila vundhi 

 

[gb_bharat]

[k2s]

I'm a married woman in my 30s. I have a nice life - a decent husband, kids, job...of course there are are shortcomings, but from my own perspective I have a lot to thank for now.

In the past year however, my husband has become very quiet. I can feel that the spark and that intense love that existed between us is not present anymore. He is always engrossed in his phone and tablet. Whatever I try to say, sets him off and irritates him. So I have learned to be quiet too. Its not easy all the time because by nature I'm a very talkative person and I speak, he becomes angry , and a fight begins. I somehow feel he doesn't care for me anymore as he used to earlier. Its almost 8 years of marriage. Of course, when it comes to kids we are together. But as a couple, we are not the same anymore.

Ideally, one should go to a marriage counselor for such cases. But something else happened to me. Couple of months ago I met someone at an office event. There was a spark and we started talking. He called me for coffee a week later, for a film a month later, and two months later, I slept with him. We are not like teenage lovers. We share same interests in many aspects of life, we talk about things which we cannot discuss with spouses, friends, coworkers, we discuss films and books. There is some unspoken love. We exchange emails few times a week and talk on phone maybe once in two weeks. Both of us want to believe that we are giving to each other what is missing in our marriages (he's married with kids too).

I love my husband. I want to live with him till i grow old. There is no question of separating from him. This new friend, I don't know what to call him. Results of wanderings of a stray mind? I don't know.

Is anyone able to identify with me? I would like to know.

 

 

 

 

Moral of the story....... meeku interest lekapoyina........ mee wifes or husbands ni santhoshapettandi......lekapothe ilane tagaladatayi kaapuralu...... intaki ee aunty ni em cheyyamantaru...... db uncles share ur opinions.......

she needs more love man........thats it

[rebeI]

+1

 

 

LM........ 

 

[maximummax]

:surprised-038:

[Yuvatha]