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HI All,
 
I will try to shorten my story as much as I can. 
 
I was in 10th std and he was in college. We met first time at my home. Slowly we started to meet frequently and after 2 years when I was going Bangalore for my further study I cried and he felt something and we both felt love for each other. On the 11 the day (from the day I left my native), he was in Bangalore just to see me. We both were madly in love. He started working there. Some odd jobs and later he got good jobs. I finished my education. After 3 years we talk to our parents.They denied. We ran away and got married. We went to his home. Everybody was very warm. They welcomed me like angel. I was very special to them. After 2 days, we went Bangalore as we decided to settle in Bangalore. 
 
We both started working. Gradually we improved our financial position. After 6 years, we managed to save some 6 lakh rupees. He wanted to start a business. We spend all money in to this business. 
 
You must be wondering than where the problem comes?
 
In this 7 years, many things happened which should have not been happen. Many of my mistakes, many of his mistakes. Like, I had a bad habit of spending money on unnecessary things like...extra clothes, watches, chapples and many more. He had bad habit of sharing all our internal things to my family and his family. He always used to blame my parents for my nature of spending money. He used speak very rude to my parents. Sometimes in anger he shouted on my mom and told you take your daughter back. I started avoiding. I thought he is just because of financial crisis but no. It was something which is in his blood. 
 
One day we seat and we promises each other that we whatever happen between us will not speak anything about family. We also explain each other's problems. I promised about not spending money and in next one year I also proved it. I didn't buy a single cloth or any other thing which is expensive. I always followed what he wanted me to do. He never used to like my boys friend. I stopped talking to my college friends. He never used to like one of my relative (jijaji). I also stopped talking to him. ONE IN FIGHTING, HE TOLD ME YOU CUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP with your parents and ask me to leave. I tried my best to explain him that ....please be mature. This is not the way to live the life. We can not compare our relationship with parents. He didnt understand. We just calm down and back to work. After few days, he asked me with very much love that....you visit your parents house ....you will feel much free. I thought he is so caring. Unfortunately after reaching at my native..15 days later he called my dad and told ...he doesnt want me back in his life. And my dad was also very angry man. He also shouted. But i loved him a lot. I went back just thinking that how will he mange food? I went. He laughed at me. He asked me...why your parents couldnt bare you? I felt very bad. The man who i loved ..he is abusing me. Still I wanted to be with him. After few hours he cried front of me. He said..I know i am rude ..but dont leave me. I am scared.
I didnt know what to do. Everything was back to normal. After 6 months again same thing happen. And again I came back, After few months same thing happens and I came back. 3 times I cam back just for him. The fourth time he slapped me first time. He abused me, my parents, my brother. I could bare. I left my home. After 3 months he called and told.....when you are coming back? I told please dont do this again. Leave me alone. Let me start my life from the beginning. I stop taking to him. Even parents were very supportive. Now, after 8 months I got job and trying to come out from that trauma. Yes.....still I love him because he loves me. He still try to be in touch with me by SMS or Internet ......Another thing.....I tried to cross verify on facebook by fake ID. By different girl name i started chatting with him. And surprisingly he told....he is happily married man but unfortunately marriage is not facing some problems and not at all interested in any other girl. I cried a lot on that day. Since than, I love him more. But only the problem is he very abusive in language. He always try to lose my confidence. He is not ready to take any commitments. What to do? We love each other but he want me to to stay as a Girl Friend. 
 
Presently, we are in touch (once in a week) by WhtsApp. We share all our feelings but cant stay together. I am living my life. He is living his life. 
I dont know what is next? What will be our future. But I know that....I do not want a person which whom I dont feel secure. Who can leave me any time wherever he feels. So its better to stay alone at least without a fear.
 
Hope many of women may get positive vibrant from my story.
 
Cheers
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appudu intlo nundi lechipoyav.. ippudu mogudu dagara nundi velli poyav... ala veltu undu.. inko edava okadu tagultadu..

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appudu intlo nundi lechipoyav.. ippudu mogudu dagara nundi velli poyav... ala veltu undu.. inko edava okadu tagultadu..

 

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appudu intlo nundi lechipoyav.. ippudu mogudu dagara nundi velli poyav... ala veltu undu.. inko edava okadu tagultadu..

 

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aadu yerri papa anukuntundi man.. vadiki clear ga telusu.. idi ani.. vadi ata vadu adadu man.. ragada8.gif

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That is the interesting part kada... aa Chat evadaina paste cheste baguntundi... 4s086h.gif

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That is the interesting part kada... aa Chat evadaina paste cheste baguntundi... 4s086h.gif

y u interested in that chat man ? r u planning to goku fafa in FB ?

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y u interested in that chat man ? r u planning to goku fafa in FB ?

 

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y u interested in that chat man ? r u planning to goku fafa in FB ?

 

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he want to compare this chat to citi's conversation man.. .4s086h.gif

 

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