k2s Posted January 27, 2014 Report Posted January 27, 2014 The thing that i have been dreading his soon hitting my life...the divorce.. huge fight between dh & me.for every small reason he fights and says" get out of my house,get out of my house." I am tired..tired of his antics....i am not able to tolerate his v v v v stubborn arguments... my parents,his uncle,my uncle & aunt..everybody intervened..explained him,convinced him still he didn't budge.. My dad out of frustration of being a father & was pretty pissed of , shouted at him saying, " when spent so much many on this marriage & you just want to throw it away for the sake of small arguments?? Why are you so stubborn?? that he took as a chance..he stated shouted on him ..(all the elders were on Skype) i didn't know what to do..i threatened him that,this is abuse..may be u didn't know the laws of this country....i can file a case on you..when he was constantly pestering..that it's my house,..i said it's my house too..you cannot just say that..i too signed on it.. for all these above statements..he made a twist & complained to his family members in india..they called me back & said so many things.." My son is god..you are cheap...asking for share in the house.." morons they are.. i have been very patient..i tried to talk to him today..i told, we still have a chance to work on this marriage..i need support from you..u don't be so stubborn.. he didn't listen..he was shouting....he is saying" u said you will file a case on me..i lost respect for you..how can a woman get such a thought about her husband..i always forgive you for all your mistakes..(which absolutely is not true..every single time..he shouts,puts up a big fight, says " get out of my house,i don't want to live with you blah blah blah...i have to beg him to pacify..) ..now he is saying these words..how mean & untrustworthy..shameless idiot...i hate him... still i want to work on this marriage..because 1) for my parents sake..they have become old,i cannot see them suffer any more..2) i still like somethings about him.. 3)for the sake of future 4) insecurity- i donno..whether i can take the aftermath of D...to speak about it, & think about it is easy, but it's very difficult.... I don't think i can take it..4) societal pressure..my dh ' ils are such nasty nasty nasty people that they can, are capable of spreading all wrong things about me & my family.. my head is bursting...i am not able to understand what to do.. dh is not at all listening to me..my mind is fluttering with fleeting thoughts..1 moment i think ..i will stay & work on it..1 moment..i think ..enough..i can't stay anymore.. life is crazy..marriage is hell..
TOM_BHAYYA Posted January 27, 2014 Report Posted January 27, 2014 Ankul.. Give her life maan.. That's it
ahimsavaadhi1 Posted January 27, 2014 Report Posted January 27, 2014 yes marriage will be hell.... :3D_Smiles_216:
Spartan Posted January 27, 2014 Report Posted January 27, 2014 .2) i still like somethings about him.. need clarity man
psycopk Posted January 27, 2014 Report Posted January 27, 2014 she didnt mention what the small reasons are..
Spartan Posted January 27, 2014 Report Posted January 27, 2014 still i want to work on this marriage..because 1) for my parents sake..they have become old,i cannot see them suffer any more..2) i still like somethings about him.. 3)for the sake of future 4) insecurity- i donno..whether i can take the aftermath of D...to speak about it, & think about it is easy, but it's very difficult.... I don't think i can take it.. 4) societal pressure..my dh ' ils are such nasty nasty nasty people that they can, are capable of spreading all wrong things about me & my family.. Something Fishy man......No Smoke without Weed man...
moviefan Posted January 27, 2014 Report Posted January 27, 2014 ravalamma... a stubborn candidate bayatiki ravali... e DB lone untadu ani na strong feeling
loveindia Posted January 27, 2014 Report Posted January 27, 2014 same story happened with ppl I know... they also north indians man... some connection smell is coming??
psycopk Posted January 27, 2014 Report Posted January 27, 2014 still i want to work on this marriage..because 1) for my parents sake..they have become old,i cannot see them suffer any more..2) i still like somethings about him.. 3)for the sake of future 4) insecurity- i donno..whether i can take the aftermath of D...to speak about it, & think about it is easy, but it's very difficult.... I don't think i can take it.. 4) societal pressure..my dh ' ils are such nasty nasty nasty people that they can, are capable of spreading all wrong things about me & my family.. Something Fishy man......No Smoke without Weed man... she is hiding lot of things man.. i think she should be thrown out of his house..
kajal Posted January 28, 2014 Report Posted January 28, 2014 she is hiding lot of things man.. i think she should be thrown out of his house.. adhi nuvvena bhayya
loveindia Posted January 28, 2014 Report Posted January 28, 2014 she is hiding lot of things man.. i think she should be thrown out of his house.. enduku aada jaathini anichi vestunnav psyco man??
sigsegv Posted January 28, 2014 Report Posted January 28, 2014 uncle ekkadnunchi uncle ilantivi pattukosthaav?
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