Sentiosys Posted April 25, 2014 Report Posted April 25, 2014 YOu dont know.. how to say "No" in a proper way.... In day to day life we come across many situations where we have to make instant decisions....we have to choose either YES or NO... suppose .. Frnd : rey movie ki vasthava... Sometimes evethough u dont want to go.. u just say YES and spoil u r day Another FRND : rey ee help chesthava.. U know u cant sort it out and say YES.. later get stressed out... Because of our conservative brought up... we always try to please people and stress ourselves... I am just wondering.. I am the Only one feeling this way... Did you ever come across similar situations... If so.. share in your free time... thanks, :police:
mutyam Posted April 25, 2014 Report Posted April 25, 2014 I used to .. i have learned to say No ..No more pleasing ppl ..
maximummax Posted April 25, 2014 Report Posted April 25, 2014 every one gets in this kind one or the other time. so people many times thats why you keep your self busy with your activities, when people ask you to do favor say i will get back to you in an hour or so. if they ask you a favour while you are with them in person, say the same thing
chandra916 Posted April 25, 2014 Report Posted April 25, 2014 same situation in aapice man....ee pani ichhina chesethunna...... manager ni edirinchaleka pothunna.....company vadileddam ante manaka emi raadhu....
Sentiosys Posted April 25, 2014 Author Report Posted April 25, 2014 every one gets in this kind one or the other time. so people many times thats why you keep your self busy with your activities, when people ask you to do favor say i will get back to you in an hour or so. if they ask you a favour while you are with them in person, say the same thing Here you go... What i am trying to say is.. If you tell him to check back in so and so time... he ll ping u u get stress out.. Instead we have to say :No I cant sorry about it.....
mutyam Posted April 25, 2014 Report Posted April 25, 2014 same situation in aapice man....ee pani ichhina chesethunna...... manager ni edirinchaleka pothunna.....company vadileddam ante manaka emi raadhu.... ilantivi to some extent ok ..atleast andulo edoka learning undela chuskuni ..satisfy avadame temporary ga.. shopping lu,company ivvadam ,pick up lu ...ilanti chinna matters ki kuda NO cheppalekunda undentha mohamatam unte matram kashtam ..
chandra916 Posted April 25, 2014 Report Posted April 25, 2014 ilantivi to some extent ok ..atleast andulo edoka learning undela chuskuni ..satisfy avadame temporary ga.. shopping lu,company ivvadam ,pick up lu ...ilanti chinna matters ki kuda NO cheppalekunda undentha mohamatam unte matram kashtam .. ee work valla overwiew vasthundi kani indepth knowledge ravadam ledhu..... shopping, pickup ille.....nannu evaru adagaru.....
maximummax Posted April 25, 2014 Report Posted April 25, 2014 Here you go... What i am trying to say is.. If you tell him to check back in so and so time... he ll ping u u get stress out.. Instead we have to say :No I cant sorry about it..... he will ping you for sure, if he needs help- than you will say sorry. case closed. but you can call them before and tell them my parents want me to go to a certain place(just to avoid the situation)
sitaraZahir Posted April 25, 2014 Report Posted April 25, 2014 YOu dont know.. how to say "No" in a proper way.... In day to day life we come across many situations where we have to make instant decisions....we have to choose either YES or NO... suppose .. Frnd : rey movie ki vasthava... Sometimes evethough u dont want to go.. u just say YES and spoil u r day Another FRND : rey ee help chesthava.. U know u cant sort it out and say YES.. later get stressed out... Because of our conservative brought up... we always try to please people and stress ourselves... I am just wondering.. I am the Only one feeling this way... Did you ever come across similar situations... If so.. share in your free time... thanks, :police: Janalu pakkolani vaadukuni vadhilese pani lo vunnaru.. Max people. Just imagine... Nuvvu valla Kosam chesthundhi nee Kosam vallu chesthara ?? If yes, go ahead... Else escape nicely
mutyam Posted April 25, 2014 Report Posted April 25, 2014 ee work valla overwiew vasthundi kani indepth knowledge ravadam ledhu..... shopping, pickup ille.....nannu evaru adagaru..... time to speak up thn ..:) Formal meeting set up cheskuni manager tho matladeyandi
sandie Posted April 25, 2014 Report Posted April 25, 2014 It happens to everyone I guess. People are nice and try to help others and gets into stress.. when our friends ask something we cant say NO.
mutyam Posted April 25, 2014 Report Posted April 25, 2014 Janalu pakkolani vaadukuni vadhilese pani lo vunnaru.. Max people. Just imagine... Nuvvu valla Kosam chesthundhi nee Kosam vallu chesthara ?? If yes, go ahead... Else escape nicely very well said :police:
kiladi bullodu Posted April 25, 2014 Report Posted April 25, 2014 Yes first manamu strip club veldamu then movie ki veldamu ani cheappu Vaadu naaku gf undhi nenu ranu antadu Nuvvu Neal veltanu ani cheppi intlo kurchoni fb chesukoo Vaadu ok ra vasthanu ani chepta motham time strip club lo thagaletey after sc cinema ante vaadey lite mama antadu
chandra916 Posted April 25, 2014 Report Posted April 25, 2014 time to speak up thn .. :) Formal meeting set up cheskuni manager tho matladeyandi yeah ee month apprisal meeting lo ma manager ni kadigestha.....
kane99 Posted April 25, 2014 Report Posted April 25, 2014 naaaku epppudu avthundhii... frnds kadha ani with out saying NO, help chesthe tirigi naaake punch lu... Ex: dubbing calls kosam help chesthe I ended up cheated ( chaaala sarlu ayyyanaaau...) ippudu ala kaaaadhu I decided one thing before helping out
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