k2s Posted June 5, 2014 Report Posted June 5, 2014 Hi Everyone, Basically I got married at the age of 24 about 1.5 years ago and my husband has an obsession about a relationship I had with a guy a few years before I met my husband. he contacted that guy before we got married and although that guy said to him that he didnt want to talk to him for no reason...my husband kept saying that i said this and that about him to provoke him...and then the guy said some messed up things which are not true. Then no matter how much I have explained to him and tried to make him understand I barely saw the guy and it was nothing serious he can not get over it and is basically is like I have no idea what you did with him etc etc and does not trust me at all! All this hatred of his had led me to behave badly in the past too with him and has created more and more hate in him towards me. (and me towards him but I let it go as he is my husband - he contantly takes his hate out on me!)We have had the worst year and half of our marriage..:( I am so unhappy and have left him several times and then come back my self (he has never contacted me in that time or asked me to come back) but I have come back as when I leave I get this sickening feeling in my stomach that maybe i should have just put up with all this and stayed...its better than being alone and with no husband and being a divorcee. This fear of mine is not going away...my parents keep telling me to take a few months to make up my mind and leave but i dont know why I am unable to make up my mind to leave him :(Basically..I had problems with my inlaws last year but I have apologised even for things that were not my fault an now things r completely fine with them. They also understand and try to make my husband realise that he is wasting precious years of our life on this..but no1 can get inside his head and fix him. He thinks the only way to fix anything is contact that guy again which no1 agrees is a solution at all.I dont know why i feel like i love him so much and i feel like i will die without him but he doesnt even show one bit of care towards me and it sucks so bad. He instead throws himself even more and more into his hobbies...like playing cricket ALL weekend in summer and a lot in winter too (indoor). He never wants to do anything with me.....at home he just wants to sit alone...never wants to sit with me and watch a movie. if I say lets watch a movie he will..but he will act like he is doing me a favor! Man it really sucks because i really love him and i would do anything in the world for him to love me back....but nothing i do is working. Is there anything you guys think I can do to win his love, make him get over the past, and get him to want ot spend time with me and enjoy it? i am soo heartbroken right now.....when i hear the smallest sad thing about anything...even a random stranger i get tears in my eyes because my heart is aching so much all the time. I know i sound so depressed....at work i enjoy only because i block him out of my mind completely and i try to enjoy with my workmates as they r good friends. I dont know what I did in life to deserve this....I don't know what I can do to fix it....if anyone has any suggestions please hep me :(
psycopk Posted June 5, 2014 Report Posted June 5, 2014 need more explination here "All this hatred of his had led me to behave badly in the past too with him and has created more and more hate in him towards me" mee intlo parents set cheyalsindi poi.. vidipo antunaru ante.. koncham think cheyalsinde.. nuvve poi nuvve vachav ante.. you lack self respect... and you know you did something wrong... nee last para chuste you already made up your mind to leave.. but to make sure you are not the villan you are trying to impress the public and gain their sympathy... final ga enti ante.. nee over action api.. sakkaga undu..
k2s Posted June 5, 2014 Author Report Posted June 5, 2014 need more explination here "All this hatred of his had led me to behave badly in the past too with him and has created more and more hate in him towards me" mee intlo parents set cheyalsindi poi.. vidipo antunaru ante.. koncham think cheyalsinde.. nuvve poi nuvve vachav ante.. you lack self respect... and you know you did something wrong... nee last para chuste you already made up your mind to leave.. but to make sure you are not the villan you are trying to impress the public and gain their sympathy... final ga enti ante.. nee over action api.. sakkaga undu..
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Nellore Pedda reddy Posted June 5, 2014 Report Posted June 5, 2014 need more explination here "All this hatred of his had led me to behave badly in the past too with him and has created more and more hate in him towards me" mee intlo parents set cheyalsindi poi.. vidipo antunaru ante.. koncham think cheyalsinde.. nuvve poi nuvve vachav ante.. you lack self respect... and you know you did something wrong... nee last para chuste you already made up your mind to leave.. but to make sure you are not the villan you are trying to impress the public and gain their sympathy... final ga enti ante.. nee over action api.. sakkaga undu.. uncle antha cheap ga behave chesthunna aunty de thappu antavaa
Nellore Pedda reddy Posted June 5, 2014 Report Posted June 5, 2014 Post this reply on Indus ladies with your account Scrooge uncle: Ilanti attitude unna abbayilu mararu...they can't accept the fact that having affairs before marriage is a normal thing....they want to be the first one to have sex with their wife entha tvaraga divorce teeskunte antha better....there's no reason to be clingy....no matter what, he will not show any affection/love
vadapav Posted June 5, 2014 Report Posted June 5, 2014 anthaa sadive opikaledu... evadithono affair unte ee bakaragadni enduku chesukundhata?
Nellore Pedda reddy Posted June 5, 2014 Report Posted June 5, 2014 anthaa sadive opikaledu... evadithono affair unte ee bakaragadni enduku chesukundhata? anni affair lu pelli varaku vellavu...adi telsukovali meeru :d
vadapav Posted June 5, 2014 Report Posted June 5, 2014 anni affair lu pelli varaku vellavu...adi telsukovali meeru :D alantappudu ee anumanalu tappavu... ee vishayam aa fafa garu telusukovali :P US culture lo dating common... oka aada okaditho tirigi nachaka vadilesthe next guy ki anumanalu undav.. idi US culture.. adhi chusi manam try cheddamani modaledithe manaki workout avvadhu endukante manadhi aa culture kaadu kada.. clash vastundhi..
Nellore Pedda reddy Posted June 5, 2014 Report Posted June 5, 2014 alantappudu ee anumanalu tappavu... ee vishayam aa fafa garu telusukovali :P US culture lo dating common... oka aada okaditho tirigi nachaka vadilesthe next guy ki anumanalu undav.. idi US culture.. adhi chusi manam try cheddamani modaledithe manaki workout avvadhu endukante manadhi aa culture kaadu kada.. clash vastundhi.. It's not about culture, it's about the guy's attitude :d mari aameki affair undi ani telsi enduku pelli cheskunnadu? aame move on aipoyina vadenduku past bf ni gurthu chesi maree himsisthunnadu? Ikkada problem vadi lo undi....affair lu unna vallu inka janma lo evarni pelli chesukokudadaa? relation work avvakapoyina society kosam pelli cheskuni jeevithantham badha paduthu undalaa??
vadapav Posted June 5, 2014 Report Posted June 5, 2014 It's not about culture, it's about the guy's attitude :D mari aameki affair undi ani telsi enduku pelli cheskunnadu? aame move on aipoyina vadenduku past bf ni gurthu chesi maree himsisthunnadu? Ikkada problem vadi lo undi....affair lu unna vallu inka janma lo evarni pelli chesukokudadaa? relation work avvakapoyina society kosam pelli cheskuni jeevithantham badha paduthu undalaa?? bold - mana culture, perigina vidhanam meedane mana attitude depend ai untundhi... adhi right question... affair undani pelli enduku cheskunnadu ani aa fafa adagali atanni.. but affair undhi ani telisinappudu anumanam ravatam lo tappu ledu.. human nature adhi... affair unnavallu pelli cheskokudadha ante... abbai ki peeeeedda manasu undi lite teeskune type aithe cheskovachu... ee abbai type aithe cheskokudadhu
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Nellore Pedda reddy Posted June 5, 2014 Report Posted June 5, 2014 bold - mana culture, perigina vidhanam meedane mana attitude depend ai untundhi... adhi right question... affair undani pelli enduku cheskunnadu ani aa fafa adagali atanni.. but affair undhi ani telisinappudu anumanam ravatam lo tappu ledu.. human nature adhi... affair unnavallu pelli cheskokudadha ante... abbai ki peeeeedda manasu undi lite teeskune type aithe cheskovachu... ee abbai type aithe cheskokudadhu mostly adigina vadu maradu antha anumanam unna vadu either matladi clarify cheskovali...lekapothe aame ni pelle cheskokudadu...ila sagadeesi andariki chiraku teppinche badulu that's my point...veedi attitude ade....inka vadi anumanam podu
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