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Estory - 5. Scared Of Husband's Anger.


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hi
i got married 4-5 months back. we really loved each other and after facing a lot of problems of convincing parents we got married happily with support and love from everyone.

i've always been an introvert, mostly out of fear of the other person's reaction or what they would think of me. i have always been a little scared of my husband but its getting now.

he's short tempered and gets angry over pity things, when used i stay calm he used to get fine in sometime n come to me, say sorry or show love to show that he's apologetic. and when i used to get irritated it used to get really worse, which i always try not to. i've always been protected by my parents and never much faced anger like this so anything small used to effect me a lot too.

but its getting really worse not. it's like i'm scared all the time. we live with his parents and he's really possessive for them, he loves me as much as well and they love me too and never scold me or say anything to me. he gets angry at times when my mother-in-law is doing some work and i stay ignorant, that's fine and acceptable but like last weekend, it happened both days that i didnt hadn't come out of the room yet n my mother-in-law started working in the kitchen since the maid was late who cooks food, i didnt really think of that, got up lazily with my husband who was all fine at that time, he went out of the room before me and when i got dressed n came out he had already planned going out for some work, didnt tell me anything and left. whole day i kept wondering and was scared that's he would be angry at me and couldn't concentrate of anything. he was ok when he came back but since then i have been more scared of him getting angry. even if my mother-in-law steps into the kitchen to just get something, i get scared that what if she's gone to do some work n he might get angry why are you sitting, even if it isn't that way, even he realized that and told me why r u so scared all the time,there's no need. but i am clueless, anytime he's suddenly upset about something and i get tensed, "is it me??" even if i know the reason for it and i know its not me still i stay scared thinking what if he flips out if i say something normal to him and get angry at me. then another day my mother-in-law probably discussed about some relative of her's where the daughter-in-law was disrespectful, he came to me later and started asking why do girls do this,what do you think, why are girls so dumb,stupid and disrespectful(i have never said or done anything even a little disrespectful to my in-laws), dunno what they think of themselves..as if trying to make sure or warn me of doing any such thing(where i have no intention of).

it has started effecting my health, i stay depressed and lost. he sometimes is concerned and sometimes get angry that why do i stay like this, guys are like this, there's stress of work and taking care of everyone, my father is also like that, so many times he scolds my mother for nothing bcoz he is stressed, it happens, every husband does.

sorry for the long message but needed to write it all.

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