Estory Vinundri...... Getting Suffocated..no Support From Dh

[JANASENA]

Hi.. please advice me if anyone can
Am Married from 5 years and mother of 1.3 yr old, and working.
1. Problem with DH: Most of the time will be with his friends, when at home will be either watching TV or sleeping. Does not pay satisfactory attention towards our little son. Thinks his mother is best.
2. Promlem with SIL& MIL : SIL is good in nature. She knows that her brother should give sufficient time to wife and kid. She have also provided her maid to us and she is taking care of her family without maid. She made this adjustment for her mother.since its provision for my baby I am thankful to her. Now the issue is my MIL thinks its a big sacrifice. My SIL visits our place almost every weekend, so my weekend goes in cooking, cleaning, serving food and tea. No any special plans for weekends. Some days that maid will goes to SILs house some days she will be with us. But when MIL decides it, I am getting taken for granted. MIL does not take care of baby as good as our maid. When maid is not available, I can not leave home easily and can not cincentrate on my work. MIL does not feed baby patiently..if he is not eating food, she does not try anything else and immediately offers him milk. I get worried about my baby.
MIL won't make any juice or special food for him. Just rice or chapati .
I discussed this with DH, as per his opinion my mindset is wrong. Says I have problem with everyone.. I think in negative way. I gave him example also but lost the argument. No support from him. Due to this our relation is also getting hampered. I am writing this post but he is sleeping peacefully now.
I tried to figure out solution as I should leave the job and take care of baby. But then this will make me affect my career, my financial independence. Will have to face MIL for 24 hrs.Again we won't be having any maid to help in household work. So I will be unpaid maid also.
Confused how to sort it out and be relax.
I am not getting much strength to handle work pressure and family matters.

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