Aunty Totally Fed Up Anta ...... Need Help

[JANASENA]

Hello,

I am a working woman, 29 years old blessed with a beautiful baby girl 1.5 years old,living with my husband. We have a nanny who stays with us to take care of the kid.
Hubby is a very good man,he speaks to everyone very freely,very good in managing house finances etc.Here comes the root problem:
He is a very short tempered guy. For small things, he gets angry and ends up talking things which make me feel totally worthless. He always blames me that I do not have any sense, do not know how to manage,multitask. He even ends up in calling me worthless ..not even worth of 5 paise.

After his anger settles down, he is fine and behaves as if nothing has happened. This has been going on strong for the last 1 year.I try talking to him to control his anger and stuff. he never listens, it ends up in another fight.

H expects me to behave and think in his manner. I admit I am not that good in managing house/finances and I do not try hard because deep down I know whatever I do , I will eventually be criticized.I have kept my laws and my parents out of this because I do not want them to know( I prefer keeping problems within).I have shortcomings but I feel I am only highlighted and criticized for everything.

I am totally fed up and now I feel whatever love I had for him is dwindling down. I sometimes wish he would go abroad for 1 month or so, so that I can be @ peace.
I am afraid my daughter will see this and also behave with me like her dad.

I can act and think like him...I do not want to do that..because then I will lose my identity..it will be like living for someone else.pls advise if my thinking is wrong

My professional and personal life is affecting because of this..pls helpppppppp

[Mama77]

Lolli cheyakunda Adu cheppinattu vinu

[Chakram12]

[Spartan]

why will u behave like a worth less person then...

 

learn to keep things proper..or do things as expected...maintain tidiness...etc...

[Spartan]

sakkaga udnu mante..Identity loose aita ani cutting...madichi pettuko manu identity ni...

[ManOnFire]

replies anni ammayini boothulu tittadadame,, deen thalli

[agora]

[Posaani]

Baasu,, ammayilu chance iste mogudini inta kante daarunam gaa treat chestaaru..

[mustang302]

kurrodu Bi-polar,for sure..kaani nee aesaloooo...antae nuvvu em chaesina okka maata anakoodadhu annamaata...!!neeku em chayallo..aela cheyalo..aevaru chappakoodadhu annamaata..ok..ok..!!

 

lose identity aaa...nee sardham...mogudu kosam aa matram maraleva...!!

[Nellore Pedda reddy]

Uncle needs anger management