k2s Posted June 23, 2014 Report Posted June 23, 2014 I am professionally qualified 28 yrs old and been married since 4 yrs. My DH is the only child of his parents and we stay with my inlaws in the same house. Things were really rosy before marriage. Though we did not see each other and were usually in contact through phones and emails, I was fine with the fact that he will stay with his parents as he was their only child. As soon as I landed in their house, I could see what its like to marry an only child. The parents treat their kid as God and want their DIL to do the same. The son can never go wrong. I was not allowed a lot of freedon initially but I was adamant that I wanted to work so I could do whatever I wanted when I was out of the house. But every evening I dread going back to the house as I know it will be crowded and not much privacy until I go to my room. My inlaws are not cruel but are commanding and expect certain old rules to be followed. Even if I have to go to the mall, I have to ask their permission and not tell them that I am going. There have been a lot of tensions in the house as my MIL is kinda loud and is commanding and dominating. She has a certain way of life which is always the right thing to do and cannot see us leading it anyway else. My husband is not at all romantic and all he wants me to do is cook and serve his parents. He is of the type that even if I don’t serve him for days he is alright and wont complain but when it comes to his parents, I should not neglect anything.He does not like me to have friends even girls as he thinks his parents should approveof them He gets mad at me if sometime his Mom is alone working in the kitchen. I try to fulfil the duties in the house as much as I can and maintain my professional life too.Earlier we use to go on vacations with my inlaws and it was so hard to convince my husband that we need some time alone together too. In short he is a mama’s boy. I have never seen him supporting me in the last fours years when it comes to his parents and I am the only one who has to apologise at the end. My husband is as such caring and giving in his nature when we are not fighting. But in the past 4 yrs, I think 2.5 yrs were spent fighting on the issues of his parents. I don’t have kids and I have second thoughts if I should have any . Whenever his Mom has a problem with me , he too joins her . I hate to see that the love that we ever shared and vanished in thin air. I feel alone and helpless. I am recently thinking of getting out of this marriage so that I can live this life well. I cannot cope with being the wife of a person who is a mama’s boy. Am I being right? I would want to remarry a person who wants to work things out in a marriage. Here whenever we had a fight my husband made it clear that I can leave the house if I cannot abide by the rules. I feel I am the unwanted person in this marriage. Pl help me. Am not able to concentrate on anything lately.
rapchik Posted June 23, 2014 Report Posted June 23, 2014 Ee kalam lo out of marriage povadam easy ayipoyindhi...lekapothe.. koncham chepali koncham adjust avali...adu kuda allane unatu unadu... verey vadini chesukunte ee prob kakpothe inkoti vasthe adini vadhilesthadha ?
k2s Posted June 23, 2014 Author Report Posted June 23, 2014 Ee kalam lo out of marriage povadam easy ayipoyindhi...lekapothe.. koncham chepali koncham adjust avali...adu kuda allane unatu unadu... verey vadini chesukunte ee prob kakpothe inkoti vasthe adini vadhilesthadha ? its like switching jobs man
ipaddress0 Posted June 23, 2014 Report Posted June 23, 2014 gisontivi sadivithe bheja garam aithadi vaa
Aagadu Posted June 23, 2014 Report Posted June 23, 2014 Ask her to divorce him and then she can move to antartica.. Full privacy there
k2s Posted June 23, 2014 Author Report Posted June 23, 2014 gisontivi sadivithe bheja garam aithadi vaa read more man..... ppl want that athi estories
k2s Posted June 23, 2014 Author Report Posted June 23, 2014 Ask her to divorce him and then she can move to antartica.. Full privacy there where in antartica man ? give address to aunty man
ipaddress0 Posted June 23, 2014 Report Posted June 23, 2014 where in antartica man ? give address to aunty man
sameer1384 Posted June 23, 2014 Report Posted June 23, 2014 okka mato lo cheppali ante, aunty ki koncham balupu ekkuva. vadilesthey better atleast Husband ayna sukha paduthadu.....
rapchik Posted June 23, 2014 Report Posted June 23, 2014 baitiki ekkad potunnavo ani adagodda.... yes she is working man ...thats it
Johny Posted June 23, 2014 Report Posted June 23, 2014 evari probs vallaki untayi...dhani mo*dalo gola manakendhu??
Yuva Nataratna Posted June 23, 2014 Report Posted June 23, 2014 Waste fellow.... koncham aina time spend cheyyali kadha wife tho.... she is not just a working machine....
Barney_Stinson Posted June 23, 2014 Report Posted June 23, 2014 uncle aunty koorchoni discuss chesi decide cheskovali... kerala ki tickets book cheamanu man
mustang302 Posted June 23, 2014 Report Posted June 23, 2014 get a divorce and marry a 19 yr old boy...!!fuckidi fck...!!all day...!!
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