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Do You Treat People Fairly?
 
A friend of mine is CEO of a medium size company, he says that in order to have deep understanding of the work at all levels of the company he tries to work in all domains in the company. This gives him insight of the tasks being done, associated complications, challenges and wisdom to resolve issues and optimize processes. He was telling that the job of their receptionist is tough as it involves a lot of patience. Some weeks back he sat at the reception and received the calls from their clients. Assuming that their call is being attended by the receptionist the customers talked as if they were talking to their servant. They were using harsh, rude or indecent words because of the faults related to the company products. However as soon as he introduced that he is the CEO of the company, the tone of the caller changed immediately.
 
While I listened to this story, I pondered that we all do the same thing in life. Our speaking tone is based on the social, professional or economical status of the person we are talking to. Which simply means that we don't treat people fairly and equally. We have a different way of communication for different people.
 
This reminds me of another story: Once a protocol officer asked a lady on how she would greet the Queen of Holland when the Queen visits their city; she said that she has only one set of manner and she uses it all the time and does not want to learn a special protocol to meet and greet the Queen.
 
So the bottom line is that we should have one set of ethical manners for all. We should be kind, humble and loving equally regardless of the social and educational background, regardless of the current economical and professional post. Humanity deserves equality and all of us should endeavor for the same.
 
I wrote a similar article earlier about judging people fairly. I believe that if we avoid being judgmental, we will start behaving fairly with all people. Remember, Judging people is the theoretical thing and won't make an external effect until you start showing this to others by treating them unfairly. That means Judging is more of an observatory and thought process stuff whereas treating people is the behavioral and practical thing. Judging wrongly pollutes your brain and treating wrongly pollutes the society hence both should be avoided.
 
So treat the rich and the poor, the attractive and the unattractive, educated, non-educated and less educated all the same, because each one is the creation of God Himself. Each soul requires fairness. How you treat them, is a reflection of what kind of a person you are!

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So the bottom line is that we should have one set of ethical manners for all. We should be kind, humble and loving equally regardless of the social and educational background, regardless of the current economical and professional post. Humanity deserves equality and all of us should endeavor for the same.
 

So treat the rich and the poor, the attractive and the unattractive, educated, non-educated and less educated all the same, because each one is the creation of God Himself. Each soul requires fairness. How you treat them, is a reflection of what kind of a person you are!

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Do you allow your maid to sleep on your bed if she z sick ? Do you call your drivers family alone for dinner  on a festival day?  Do you take your watchman along with you to Watch a movie to a Mall? Do you speak in same style with father/mother/brother/sister?

 

Your like/love/lust/anger/feelings for each and every person vary.

 

But if you are same with everybody...then there is some thing wrong with you or you are not being yourself !!!! 

 

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Do you allow your maid to sleep on your bed if she z sick ? Do you call your drivers family alone for dinner  on a festival day?  Do you take your watchman along with you to Watch a movie to a Mall? Do you speak in same style with father/mother/brother/sister?

 

Your like/love/lust/anger/feelings for each and every person vary.

 

But if you are same with everybody...then there is some thing wrong with you or you are not being yourself !!!! 

 

Do you allow your maid to sleep on your bed if she z sick ? - I am not sure if you would treat your maid that way, but if at all there comes a time a maid needs some sort of help yes I might allow him to sleep on my bed.

 

Do you call your drivers family alone for dinner  on a festival day? - I'd for sure at least wish them and share some food.

 

Do you take your watchman along with you to Watch a movie to a Mall? - This is something I might think of.

 

Do you speak in same style with father/mother/brother/sister? - I'll treat them as per their relation with me.

 

Your like/love/lust/anger/feelings for each and every person vary. - So true

 

But if you are same with everybody...then there is some thing wrong with you or you are not being yourself !!!! - Totally deniable

 

you are only asked to show some empathy towards people, you are neither slave to anyone nor a king to let your emotions over the fellow humans.

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kind, humble and good seppadam easy ne seyyadame kashtam, seppadanik bane vuntayi, seyyadaniki evar munduku raru, sesina kuda betrayal chese vallu chala mandi vuntaru, anduke DTA ( DONT TRUST ANYONE)

 

evad meedaina blind ga trust seste maname M gudisipotam, every man is for himself thats what i believe in

 

 

 

 

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kind, humble and good seppadam easy ne seyyadame kashtam, seppadanik bane vuntayi, seyyadaniki evar munduku raru, sesina kuda betrayal chese vallu chala mandi vuntaru, anduke DTA ( DONT TRUST ANYONE)

 

evad meedaina blind ga trust seste maname M gudisipotam, every man is for himself thats what i believe in

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