JANASENA Posted July 5, 2014 Report Posted July 5, 2014 Sorry for the long post. I don't know if this is correct group to post my thread because I have problem with my husband and his family. I am living in USA and full time mom for 3 months baby boy. I am married for 5 years. I thought my husband will understand me and my parents family one day until few months back.but now, I lost all the hopes. He is the eldest son in his family. His parents, brother and sister are enjoying the luxuries because of him. He did not buy a single property until I interfered and tried to the max even though he is doing job in USA from 11 years. My in laws are very bad and they always want my husband to to give them whatever they ask and he does that. But when it comes to me and my son, my husband and in laws say that is waste of money. My mil blamed me saying don't your mother have gold when I bought gold. My in laws even today also they blame my parents for not putting so many valuable items during marriage. When I was pregnant my husband thought to leave me alone here in 9th month and attend his brother marriage in india. But my parents told him to stay with me as I am pregnant. My husband is angry with that and when my mom came for my delivery he shouted at her very bad I front of his parents.the reasons for him are my mom is not doing much work and he only did everything, my mom told his mom about arranging items in the kitchen after my delivery( I did not go into kitchen as I had a csec so have to take complete rest and my mom looked after everything until my inlaws are here). My mom told him she is not giving work to his mom ,she is telling her and she came only for my delivery and he should not behave like that. My husband became angry with my mom for these reasons and he and his mom shouted at her really bad and irrespectively.he is saying my remote control is in my mother hand. Their parents came 1 week after my delivery and from the first onwards is he started sleeping with them in another room and going out with them everyday after his office for walking and sight seeing. Even in the temple, I walked slowly because of surgery and my mom accompanied me but he followed his parents with baby leaving me. And afterwards he is talking that my mom is telling me bad words and and I am trying to stay with my mom at that time. After my mom left to india I told him I cannot stay alone with baby and I will come but first two days he tried to left me alone at house and take his parents. Please tell me ladies what is wrong with me and my parents. My parents told him to buy some property as it is too late and plan to come back to india as early as possible. Is there anything wrong in that? His mom stopped us from. Buying property all these days and she is good one in his mind. I told him my parents and in laws should come for my delivery but he tried to stop my mom and bring his parents alone.please tell me how to deal with this person who even don't understand what I and my parents are telling and showing interest only in his parents. I cannot go for divorce. Please help me.
andhracrazystar Posted July 5, 2014 Report Posted July 5, 2014 Helo This is part of life .. Just be strong ..
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