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Dear All,

While posting this thread, I am clueless as to what to do..

I am married for last 8 years... All seems perfectly well in my marriage for outsiders. A loving husband who tolerates his wife even though she's not still been able to bear his child... As my parents and all known to me put it: U r very lucky..

Yes I agree I am really lucky in this context. But the fact is I have borne a lot for the sake of this marriage. My husband has been a very reserved kind right from beginning.. And in bed he has been always dull. No interest in sex unless I initiate. Initial 2 yrs I thought things will get rectified once we start understanding each other well.. Then pressure mounted from my In-laws side for a child. Visited many docs and treatment started. I openly discussed this issue with my gynec who counselled him.. The reason he told the doc was I feel tired after days work.. I was working at that time.. Nice job near my place of stay. Things continued the same way in bed.

In 2010 things started getting a little worse. He was diagnosed with high BP and my MIL started blaming me for his health woes. saying my son is ill since he is mentally sad since all other friends his age are already a father and only my son is not.
I told all this to my husband who remained quiet and instead told me to adjust and ignore all that my MIL said. Then my parents and IL's chalked out another reason why I cudnt conceive. Maybe its my job.. As per my MIL's words: my son comes at 6 and you come at 7-7.30 in the evening. Loneliness is eating him from within adding to his health woes. Only if he had a child..
Thus all topics finished at this blame only. Thus finally fed up. I quit my job in 2012.

Its been 2 yrs now since I quit. Still not able to conceive. Fighting my loneliness.. no one to talk to.. no active sex life ( sex just for sake of baby making..day 10 to day 14 every mth ONLY). Sex has just become a baby making exercise. only 3-4 days a mth.. after that not at all until the so-called Ovulation period. My husband comes home in evening glued to his phone, whatsapp, FB and all. In case I try to reason with him whats the issue why he is not interested in spending some quality time with me, his answer I get bored. There is no activity at all.

I am sick now...there is nothing left in my marriage. No romance, no intimacy. Just baby making exercise.
I don't know what to do.. 

JANASENA LEGEND

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neku scrooge pattinda man 23afb.gif

 

 

scoorge mama busy bro so 23afb.gif

SamosaChai LEGEND

SamosaChai

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scoorge mama busy bro so 23afb.gif

 

na doubt bore kotti sallabadi vuntadu ankul la...23afb.gif

Silver_mani LEGEND

Silver_mani

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nuvvendi mayya scrooze unkul la ee post lu

Spartan PRODUCER

Spartan

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age aipoina tarvata job quit chesi em labham aunty....

 

pelli aina first years are more romantic..than the later ones....

 

adi teliyakunda first 6 yrs job chesi..interest chupinchadam ledani job vadilesina no interest ante..e thinking mundu undali woman..

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