Estory - 2

[JANASENA]

Now adays we fight (or I should say I fight) for no issues. My DH has the habit of saying we will discuss the issue later if he senses that some argument is going to burst. But I want it to be sorted out then & there. So I say he is an escapist who would never be with me when am in agony. He says he wants to think about the issue & then respond. For eg: If am moody he asks me 2 or 3 times after that if I dont say he asks me general stuffs like eat properly etc etc & says me to go to sleep. Generally we talk for 2 hours in the night & at moody times it is only 10 mins & I get v angry. Normally he calls back in 15 mins but recently I called him & told if am in agony I expect you to pacify me, ask me, comfort me even if am not telling you the reason immediately. But you just run away. I feel v uncomfortable sharing my pain to somebody who doesnt put efforts to understand it..I could sense some helplessness in his voice when he told he doesnt know what to do..He talked minimal like am there for you etc etc . If am jovial he will talk like anything. Whereas I on the other hand will never cut the call till I pacify him..Even if i feel tired asking n number of times I dont give up..I see to that am with him in pain..

Though I use the word emotional support am really not able to visualise the meaning of it completely & how much liberty can we take while sharing our concerns especially with husband when he doesnt ask many times..Do you guys voluntarily tell DH or leave it & stress yourself??

Are all guys this way?? or am i wrong?? How should I deal with this?

[Spartan]

But I want it to be sorted out then & there. So I say he is an escapist

 

 

he is sensible person who thinks things resolve on their own emo...anduke later antad.. 

[idiBeZaWaDa]

But I want it to be sorted out then & there. So I say he is an escapist

 

 

he is sensible person who thinks things resolve on their own emo...anduke later antad.. 

dont tell cock n bull stories to aunty...NPR vl get hurt..