kalisha Posted August 26, 2014 Report Posted August 26, 2014 Dear frens, I am a mother of two and loves my husband very much...Am 6 kilos more than my ideal weight...How ever i have quite a lot of tummy and sagging ****(post delivery and breastfeeding) , due to which i feel lot of inferiority complex infront of my husband(fortunately, with the rest of the world i dont have that issue ). My husband never leaves a chance to remind me how i need to exercise(i hate exercising) and can sense the digusting look on his face when we do you-know-what when he sees my tummy.... About my hubby - He has fallen for my looks (arranged marriage) and we love each othr very much(or so i believe), but he really expects me to look exactly same as we got married. I'm still very good looking, except some parts of my body...Some times when i get angry , i tell him to take a good look of himself at the mirror(am much much better looking than him) - for that he argues back saying that you liked my character/capabilities and it's still the same/even better...He often points to some of his frens wife who take care of their body(they exercise regularly) and ask me why i cant be like them - i hate that to the core...Now our relationship has come to the point that physical intimacy is the most scary thing for me.. .i feel very sad/depressed about this.. I feel there is nothing much you could do to please your husband other than joining some fitness program and lose the flab.Trust me it is for your good as well, join some yoga or zumba classes.Look for group in your are and go to group classes. They r fun and at the same time you loose the flab and u will feel better ,i am telling from my personal experience,i had a big belly and weighed 200 lbs , my gf broke up with me and instead of getting depressed i joined a gym went for group classes, hired a personal trainer and lost 30 lbs in 6 months and became super fit,many ppl were surprised and i felt very confident and social person that many girls started hitting on me and my ex gf became super jealous ( well that was not my point) .Just give it a try and u wont regret it ,trust me also ur hubby will b always after u ;)
puli_keka Posted August 26, 2014 Report Posted August 26, 2014 I feel there is nothing much you could do to please your husband other than joining some fitness program and lose the flab.Trust me it is for your good as well, join some yoga or zumba classes.Look for group in your are and go to group classes. They r fun and at the same time you loose the flab and u will feel better ,i am telling from my personal experience,i had a big belly and weighed 200 lbs , my gf broke up with me and instead of getting depressed i joined a gym went for group classes, hired a personal trainer and lost 30 lbs in 6 months and became super fit,many ppl were surprised and i felt very confident and social person that many girls started hitting on me and my ex gf became super jealous ( well that was not my point) .Just give it a try and u wont regret it ,trust me also ur hubby will b always after u ;) super bro _-_ _-_
digitalmink Posted August 26, 2014 Report Posted August 26, 2014 Ikkada Edse Badhulu...Poyi GYM/Walking Cheyocchu Kadha.... [PS: Not Supporting Husband..>Em Cheyyalem...Kontha Mandhi Falthu Gallu Anthe... :(] agree she should work out. adn agree tht husband should also change..once again andam koruku tintaniki kaadu.minimum unte chaalu.
Mahesh_Fan Posted August 26, 2014 Report Posted August 26, 2014 This material world is very troublesome... Realize avvandi ippatikainaa
ManOnFire Posted August 26, 2014 Report Posted August 26, 2014 pehhhhhh.. replies anni adhurs boks andaru eedaney sacharu
Nellore Pedda reddy Posted August 26, 2014 Report Posted August 26, 2014 aunty do this $exercise Uncle post this gif video :d
gundubabu Posted August 26, 2014 Report Posted August 26, 2014 La*ja ki G baddakamenduku vay anth aavesham
Simple123 Posted August 26, 2014 Report Posted August 26, 2014 This is a common problem for most of the desi Aunties. Vallu exercise/gym cheyyaru ...malla husb sarigga s e x cheyyatle godava . vaniki matram etla lestadi atla unte .
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