Kids Marriage Problems Bcz Parents Divorced

[donganaaK]

Don't be sorry....

it all depends whom we come across....and understanding one's journey..... if someone from stanford,,, one has to see her achievements and journey not her family...

Yuvraj is child of divorced parents,,, it won't affect him..

 

Vayasu >> vignanam >> andham >> family background >> money 

people arrange the above 5 ... based on their interests and needs.... 

 

you Dad's friend might have the same order i have in selecting daughter-in-law.....

 

the girls pics came through a matrimony and actually his son liked the girl very much  because she's very pretty and also holds a stanford MBA degree, My uncles son is Kelloggs school MBA grad   ... she was 25 back then and a very smart girl ... So he casually met her once and decided that he'll only marry that girl , my uncle did a little bit of BG check on both her parents and spoke to them personally ...after he made sure that everything was ok he told his son that he's ok with the marriage.... 

[jivvakoruchi_burrokobuddi]

the girls pics came through a matrimony and actually his son liked the girl very much  because she's very pretty and also holds a stanford MBA degree, My uncles son is Kelloggs school MBA grad   ... she was 25 back then and a very smart girl ... So he casually met her once and decided that he'll only marry that girl , my uncle did a little bit of BG check on both her parents and spoke to them personally ...after he made sure that everything was ok he told his son that he's ok with the marriage.... 

It happened as smooth as one wishes.....

i know a girl ,, tired of matrimony portals after experimenting for 3 years ....she just turned into her 30's this year....

life has its own turns and twists ... 

 

by the way iam an IITian... my qualification did not work for me ... what works for one,, may not work for all... 

[pulakesi]

It happened as smooth as one wishes.....

i know a girl ,, tired of matrimony portals after experimenting for 3 years ....she just turned into her 30's this year....

life has its own turns and twists ... 

 

by the way iam an IITian... my qualification did not work for me ... what works for one,, may not work for all... 

US lo born and grew up antunnav but IITian antunnav?! 

[Mahesh_Fan]

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[jivvakoruchi_burrokobuddi]

US lo born and grew up antunnav but IITian antunnav?! 

iam not born in US..... my grand father sibling came to US in 50's... my mother siblings came in 70's to 90's.... many cousins in the tech boom. my parents never been to US.

my opinion about westerners based on my relatives.... My cousin sister married an American,, paid for his med school,,, he left for another women,, now she is married to Iranian,,,, similar case with cousin brother...

[pulakesi]

IITian ante .. stanford lanti chote MS kuda emo kada

 

 

if u spoke with indian girls' parents from matrimony websites.. i'd think qualification would have done the magic... how abt finding someone settled in US itself after Masters like u... at least they would understand what you have gone through.. 

 

 

btw, compassion lanti words vadutunnav ante u must hv been into Buddhism, if i'm not mistaken..

[pulakesi]

sry for probing too much in public forum.. u can PM if it is too personal... or even better just ignore

[jivvakoruchi_burrokobuddi]

IITian ante .. stanford lanti chote MS kuda emo kada

 

 

if u spoke with indian girls' parents from matrimony websites.. i'd think qualification would have done the magic... how abt finding someone settled in US itself after Masters like u... at least they would understand what you have gone through.. 

 

 

btw, compassion lanti words vadutunnav ante u must hv been into Buddhism, if i'm not mistaken..

that's the plan,,, find someone in US... 

i left the house when i was 15. (disown father) ... life taught me many things,, how world treats a poor... i don't follow any religion....

my means of compassion ... love for each other,,, respecting each other's views ... encouraging each other's interests.... 

my belief is : first few years of marriage is driven by sex.... later years spending time for each other ...

 

something like : both partners are pulling the life cart.... most of the cases is one is pulling the cart the other  is following.... such journey is less lively...

[Krish]

that's the plan,,, find someone in US... 

i left the house when i was 15. (disown father) ... life taught me many things,, how world treats a poor... i don't follow any religion....

my means of compassion ... love for each other,,, respecting each other's views ... encouraging each other's interests.... 

my belief is : first few years of marriage is driven by sex.... later years spending time for each other ...

 

something like : both partners are pulling the life cart.... most of the cases is one is pulling the cart the other  is following.... such journey is less lively...

 

why u want to go to US my friend...are u fed up with India??..

[jivvakoruchi_burrokobuddi]

why u want to go to US my friend...are u fed up with India??..

iam in US... after school, i joined my sponsors company,,, which took me to Taiwan then to US.

work brought me here.... nothing bad with India... may its fate...

[Krish]

iam in US... after school, i joined my sponsors company,,, which took me to Taiwan then to US.

work brought me here.... nothing bad with India... may its fate...

 

 

Oh...I see...

[donganaaK]

that's the plan,,, find someone in US... 

i left the house when i was 15. (disown father) ... life taught me many things,, how world treats a poor... i don't follow any religion....

my means of compassion ... love for each other,,, respecting each other's views ... encouraging each other's interests.... 

my belief is : first few years of marriage is driven by sex.... later years spending time for each other ...

 

something like : both partners are pulling the life cart.... most of the cases is one is pulling the cart the other  is following.... such journey is less lively...

 

bro looks like uve got very insightful thoughts , which is very nice ..... hope u find a girl who matches with ur frequency ..

[Hyderabad_Nawab]

bro looks like uve got very insightful thoughts , which is very nice ..... hope u find a girl who matches with ur frequency ..

Yeah...chaala baaga cheppadu...Cheers...:)

[donganaaK]

Yeah...chaala baaga cheppadu...Cheers... :)

 

yh :)

[puli_keka]

oh okok ... i'm s0rry if i hurt u but thats wt i feel personally ... one of my dads closest and child hood friends son got married to a daughter of divorced parents , the guys family is pretty well off and the girls family is pretty normal but both the parents r well settled ( though seperated ) ... the girl did her MBA from stanford .... my dads friend did not object to marriage ..... everything is going great so far , no issues whatsoever .... thats y i was arguing against u ..

 

   ..  towns villages lo scenarios different ga untayi kada bro