Things You Realise When You Hit 28

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not 28 yet but these are the things i realized so far ....

 

1) helping people is nice , but dont go out of ur way to help them , the moment u do that the'll start taking u for granted , there are very few people who will be really thankful for what u've done for them , most of them feel fuckn privileged and behave as if u owe them a favor once their work is done....

 

2) there are only 2 things that can create differences between close friends ( Guys) ... those are girls and money , if u are clear about these two things friendships last forever..

 

3) if you decide to lend some one money out of good faith , dont expect to get it back so soon ..... only lend it if that money doesn't make a significant change to ur lifestyle .... 

 

4) dont ever disclose any one how much money u r really making , most of the people just get jealous of u if they know that u r making more money than them ...

 

5) u may have a thousand friends but end of the day you will have less than 5 people who will really stand up for you during tough times ... know who ur true friends really are ...

 

6 ) life is like a give and take policy .. if you've done a favor to someone don't hesitate to ask for a return favor ... this is not u being selfish , its just how the world works ..

 

7) dont think twice when u r spending on urself , u can always earn the money that u spend on it ,  but u can never earn the satisfaction that u get from buying urself what u love at the right time ...

 

8) ur parents are the only people who love u without expecting anything in return , let them know that u love them too by doing small gestures for them ( like surprising them with gifts or taking them out       for dinner once in a while )

 

9 ) be a good listener , always listen to what the other person says , never interrupt them especially when they are talking about themselves .

 

10 )  never compare urself to people that are inferior to u ( socially or economically) .. and never settle for less ...

 

11 ) Own your mistakes , apologize to every one that u've hurt and move on .... there is no point in hanging on to ur past .

 

12 ) If u find urself in the company of people that have negative thoughts , abandon them as soon as possible , negativity is the most contagious disease 

 

13 ) my favorite - be an asshole , assholes are the most successful people in the world 

 

14 ) Live life king size .

 

there are a lot of other things , i'll update as i recollect