Estory 1: Fafa Ki Ms Cheyyalani Undi Anta

[k2s]

HI all,

 

 

I am a married woman now on a verge of start of divorce process.

i ll be turning 30 and i am worried about my age now...i almost am having a failed marriage of 5 and half yrs and now it ended in divorce where i thought it would end in reconciliation.......I am good looking,worked in a MNC b4 marriage then resigned to join him in US...but i feel i cant work now ..i have lost all my technical skills......Now i have to start a career altogether, a new life,i have to come out of the fact tht i have no husband and he is not with me anymore, i am not sure if i can get anyone at this age to remarry...saying this i am not sure if i can find love again and am i ready for another relationship,i am afraid wht if all guys are the same...and will they just try to take advantage of my situation and get closer to me and then flee away...i am not knowing taking a divorce at this point is a right decision or not...i have seen so much during these yrs,that i think only about these things all the time,doesnt feel like doing anything else.

My parents are asking me to do MS in US or try for job in US since i ll get to see a change...they r very supportive but am so much worried how my life is going to be...my mil says tht agreeing to her son's decision of divorce,i have made a mistake since divorced woman life is not easy and tht i ll remain alone and all....i am so worried...i have tried so hard and this time my husband doesnt want to stay anymore for all petty reasons,he clearly said he doesnt like me and has got some soft corner and thats the reason why he gave so many chances to me even though he wanted to separate....and now its over...my in laws are saying tht i only have to change ,have to reduce my weight and change my mindset..i mean the same old things again and wait for their son...but no commitment from their side...i mean why is god testing me so much...my parents are saying already i have lost so much time and there is no point in waiting more and getting tested by him....even i am broken and disheartened completely but myinner feelings for him are not going off...i get angry easily same time it goes away soon,i dont keep anything on anyone...i gues this is the reason why i am able to forgive him...he is good person with no habits but complete package of a bad egoistic husband...,a perfect mama's boy and a mil who wants to control her son and me....i feel all the reasons he said are just reasons but not things tht lead to a divorce,but i couldnt do anything in this matter since i am completely saturated and though i feel for him ,i feel so optionless..The cycle of me begging for reconciliation and he saying okay then again ,divorce siting i didnt change,i mean all this has taken a serious toll on me...

Now at this stage,i am worried what to do...is it right to take a divorce...still haing some feelings for him.....coming to reality, i know adjusting with him and his mother is a herculean task and that i ll be having no role in the family except from being a spectator.....

 

sometimes i feel and sense there can be good future ahead...one painful relationship is not all,but again immediately i get afraid of the same future...i am not knowing what to do ..plz help..

 

[dappusubhani]

pity situation.. $s@d

[mukunda1]

ponile vuncle MS seyannivvu...veelu ayithe aame ni marriage sesukoni life ivvu.

 

[Cleopatra]

$s@d source pls

 

may be i can suggest her something

[Spartan]

[ARYA]

[k2s]

pity situation.. $s@d

 

 

ponile vuncle MS seyannivvu...veelu ayithe aame ni marriage sesukoni life ivvu.

 

 

 

$s@d

 

 

atha sad situation ... nenu sadavaledu.. baaga pindesinda ? 

[puli_keka]

$s@d source pls

 

may be i can suggest her something

 

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[TOM_BHAYYA]

Ye college ki velthundhi aunty :(

[arshad]

Mari Personal enduku ikkada sharing bhayya... evado okadu comedy chestadu  

[Cleopatra]

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ok

[k2s]

Mari Personal enduku ikkada sharing bhayya... evado okadu comedy chestadu  

[psycopk]

from your post it appears to me that your husband is having an affair..  he is trying to get rid of you.. to move on with her..  don't waste your time further.. he will come back to you later.. just move on.. you deserve better.. ...

[mukunda1]

$s@d source pls

 

may be i can suggest her something

 

aadade aadaniki sathruvu ani vinnava eppudanna...

 

[mukunda1]

Mari Personal enduku ikkada sharing bhayya... evado okadu comedy chestadu  

 

antha ayipoyinaka inka personal emundi...she is single now. if u want you can giver her a life.