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First Time Dabbulu Borrowing From My Bava ( Own Sisters Husband )


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ilanti gamblings pettukoku vayya.

 

teekunte.. cheppina time frame lo ivvu..

 

me wife and sis ki cheppu.. nothing wrong

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Hello Friends,

 

Nenu US lo untanu and Life lo first time after 4 years lo maa own bava ( chelli husband ) ki call chesi mohamatam tho naku dabbulu kavali oka 5 lakhs unnaya bava ani adiganu and he is just 1 year elder to me ( 29 years ) and nenu kuda married person ne and  andhulo em undi teesuko pampistha bank deposit chestha ani annadu....Nenu maa intlo cheppale and also maa chelliki kuda cheppaledu kani ekkado mohamatam and chala insecured feeling vasthundi nenu nijam ga thappu chesthunnana Bava dhaggara dabbulu adigi and told him that oka 5 months lo isthanu ani and this is all because of real frustrating financial problems . I need suggestions from all of you...

 

- Did i really do any mistake asking my very own bava and em anna issues vasthaya future lo? 

- He did not ask for any interest nor i said I will give you interest ani. What do you guys think? Nenu voluntary ga adagala 5 months ki interest isthanu ani

- Eavariki cheppaledu and is this good? ala cheppakapothe thappa? also cheppanu, nenu intlo kuda eavariki cheppale bava mimalni adiga ani cheppi

- Ila borrow chesthe em ayyina real problems vache chance unda future lo between both the families sister and maa family madya?

- 100% 5 months lope ichesthanu kani ekkado insecure.

- Naku oka image ante great touph ani kaduuu just oka paddathi and India lo family values and respect ani undi....  

- Evaryna na laga teesukunnara and em ayyina issues lantivi vachaya????

 

Friends me time teesukoni me suggestions really matter naku please.. Thanks in advance!

 

dont think too much , family members borrowing money from each other is a common thing ( i suppose ) ,  it shouldnt be a problem as long as u give it back ... but ichey appudu give it back with interest added to it ...

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Have you gave a  thought /discussed of filing for bankruptcy or debt consolidation and starting life again ?

If you have huge unsecured loans,this may be the best option..

 

I am really scared of that bro....What if i have to change my work location and due to this if I cannot even find an accommodation then how? This will be there in my Credit history for years and I cant even get an apartment for lease/ utilities as first they do a credit check.

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Avasaram ute tappu ledu... Lucky fellow  mee baava istunnadu kooda.

 

First Priority--- Entha Tvaraga ayite antha tvaraga teercheyyi... Cheppina time ki munde teercheste nee value/respect peruguddi.

 

 

Personal ayina Suggest cheyaka tappatledu... Married antunnav... Intlo telikunda appu antunnav... Sampadana ki minchi kharchu enti brother??

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nijam dude, nuvu US lo vunte, ninu adagakunda vunte chalu.

india lo andharu ikada money tree vundi anukuntaru.
prathodu dabulu kavali antaru

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how do u think you can return that much amount in 6 months??  antha avsaram em ochindi?? 

veetiki answers telikunda ikkada enni sahalu cheppina avi neeku suitable ga undakapovachu

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There is nothing wrong in taking man. But make you sure you return it on time. Also do lend him some money when he is in need. My baavamaridi borrowed money from me multiple times but when I asked him one time(first n last time) he was saying he had to ask his father-in-law, wife etc..naaku maatram baaga kaalindi but its ok no problem ani cheppa..sice my wife will feel bad, I never told her that I have asked her bro for money. Now and then my wife will ask me to ask her bro for help when I am in need but I softly say no.
my point is lending shojld be two ways..if u r close to your bava there is nothing wrong in it.

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work ur ass off and pay back precisely at agreed time....give 2 rupees interest in the end....ekkuva aalochinchi tension padaku....

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Andharu manchi salahalu icharu.. Nenu first ye post chudagane naaku okate ani pinchindi.. nuvvu tappa kunda isthavu ani.. 

 

Kaani ekkada adhi kaadu matter.. eppudu mee bhava garu help chesina vidanam eppatiki marchi povadhu and nuvvu eppudu mohamatam koddi mee sister ki chepina cheppaka poyina money return ichina taruvathaina cheppu ela bhava garu help chesarani..

 

And enko salaha naa degara nundi.. interest vishayam lo alochinchaku.. better pay him the interest (dharama vaddi 2%).. or mee bhava garu tesuko pothey mee sister ki rakhi panaga roju or eppudaina kaani oka jewelery chesi present ga ivvu..

 

gurthu pettuko: Tandri taruvatha thandri lanti vadu pedda koduku or intiki vachina alludu.. vella degara mohamatam padakodadhu and vallaku iche maryadha eppatiki taggakodadhu..

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how do u think you can return that much amount in 6 months??  antha avsaram em ochindi?? 

veetiki answers telikunda ikkada enni sahalu cheppina avi neeku suitable ga undakapovachu

manodu laast 5 years save chesina 120K mottam.. oka 3 months lo stocks meeda petti pogottadu man... adi story

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money valla relations spoil avtai... time ki return cheyakapothe issues avtai for sure

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There is nothing wrong in taking man. But make you sure you return it on time. Also do lend him some money when he is in need. My baavamaridi borrowed money from me multiple times but when I asked him one time(first n last time) he was saying he had to ask his father-in-law, wife etc..naaku maatram baaga kaalindi but its ok no problem ani cheppa..sice my wife will feel bad, I never told her that I have asked her bro for money. Now and then my wife will ask me to ask her bro for help when I am in need but I softly say no.
my point is lending shojld be two ways..if u r close to your bava there is nothing wrong in it.

it also depends on howmuch ur bava asked u.. and u asked him.... ninnu ayana 500 lu adigi... nuvvu laksha adginav anuko.. then equation changes

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NP Man.. It depends on ur Synch wid ur Bava - baaga close ayithe Piccha lite..Chelliki chepthe better emo..Thanu feel kakunda...but make sure tym ki Return Ivvu

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