Married Family Valla Nundi Suggestion Please

[UNITED99]

Congrats!!! Bro

 

"Maa parents one month back vellaru india and not sure whether they can come now and maa wife valla parents ki visa ledu and unna kuda possibility ledu due to health issues"

 

Your parents can come back, if there is gap of 4-6 months atleast. 8th month lo vasthey will be huge help.

 

" - Should i send my wife to India ? if yes, do i have to send her right away for the next 8 months or shall i wait for couple of months and then send ....kani ikkada docter visits ayyi ayyipothayi kada soo will it be a problem again?"

Better you take care of her, mi in-laws health issue antunnav kada, and it's always better you staying with her

Mood swings vuntayi, you have to handle the situations with care, ippudu chala sensitve ga vuntaru, keep her in good mood (good for baby and mother too)

 

"- Baby US lo born ayyithe apart from Citizenship inka em ayyina benifits unnaya? india best antara?"

50-50 but you can always get Indian Citizenship later too

 

"- Ippudu india ki pampesi 7th month lo ikkadiki rapinchukonaa along with my parents or india lone birth isthe better aa??"

Strongly NO, ikkada doc's will advice that they can travel before 6 months or so, but mana diet ekkadi valla diet chala different, so better stay back..

 

Ask doc about 'Down syndrome test'. DO NOT take any mercury content food (effects baby brain ), avoid chinease food

 

Intlo help cheyu, as much as you can. DO NOT argue on any topic, your attitude should like 'Yes Boss' your are correct -untill delivery.

 

Send me DM, if you have questions. Good Luck

 

 

adhi 10-12 weeks appdu chesthaaaaru...not before 10 weeeks... TS ki news monnane thelisindhii annadu so probably less than 3-4 weeks baby..inka heart beat kuda raaadhu apppudu...

 

Yes, USA lo eee test pakka chesthaaaru  between 10-12 weeks to rule out down syndrome

[Vali]

adhi 10-12 weeks appdu chesthaaaaru...not before 10 weeeks... TS ki news monnane thelisindhii annadu so probably less than 3-4 weeks baby..inka heart beat kuda raaadhu apppudu...

 

Yes, USA lo eee test pakka chesthaaaru  between 10-12 weeks to rule out down syndrome

 

Yup - just headsup anthey.

'USA lo eee test pakka chesthaaaru  between 10-12 weeks to rule out down syndrome' not necessarily in all states (for sure not in MN)

[UNITED99]

Yup - just headsup anthey.

'USA lo eee test pakka chesthaaaru  between 10-12 weeks to rule out down syndrome' not necessarily in all states (for sure not in MN)

 

 

state batti undaaaadhu bhayyaaa nenu ippude google sesaaa...it depends on the hospital but mostly 99.5% they will test this..

 

if cheyyakapothe we have to ask them to do...insurance cover kuda chesthundhiii....   State batti test cheyyadam cheyyakapovadam I dont think so... esp USA lanti countries children ki ekkuva value kadha

[Krish]

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[suryausa]

pain killers veskovaddu. tylenol is only safest anukunta
okasaro doctor ni adugu

[pawan_kalyan]

Congrats!!! Bro

 

"Maa parents one month back vellaru india and not sure whether they can come now and maa wife valla parents ki visa ledu and unna kuda possibility ledu due to health issues"

 

Your parents can come back, if there is gap of 4-6 months atleast. 8th month lo vasthey will be huge help.

 

" - Should i send my wife to India ? if yes, do i have to send her right away for the next 8 months or shall i wait for couple of months and then send ....kani ikkada docter visits ayyi ayyipothayi kada soo will it be a problem again?"

Better you take care of her, mi in-laws health issue antunnav kada, and it's always better you staying with her

Mood swings vuntayi, you have to handle the situations with care, ippudu chala sensitve ga vuntaru, keep her in good mood (good for baby and mother too)

 

"- Baby US lo born ayyithe apart from Citizenship inka em ayyina benifits unnaya? india best antara?"

50-50 but you can always get Indian Citizenship later too

 

"- Ippudu india ki pampesi 7th month lo ikkadiki rapinchukonaa along with my parents or india lone birth isthe better aa??"

Strongly NO, ikkada doc's will advice that they can travel before 6 months or so, but mana diet ekkadi valla diet chala different, so better stay back..

 

Ask doc about 'Down syndrome test'. DO NOT take any mercury content food (effects baby brain ), avoid chinease food

 

Intlo help cheyu, as much as you can. DO NOT argue on any topic, your attitude should like 'Yes Boss' your are correct -untill delivery.

 

Send me DM, if you have questions. Good Luck

Thanks a ton bayya...I will follow

[Vali]

state batti undaaaadhu bhayyaaa nenu ippude google sesaaa...it depends on the hospital but mostly 99.5% they will test this..

 

if cheyyakapothe we have to ask them to do...insurance cover kuda chesthundhiii....   State batti test cheyyadam cheyyakapovadam I dont think so... esp USA lanti countries children ki ekkuva value kadha

 

oh ok, memu specific ga aduguthey kani cheyaledhu DS test (in MN)

[pawan_kalyan]

Each one of you andhariki thanks a ton ...ippudu nijam ga swear i got lot of confidence to handle my situation............Ivvala walgreens ki velli prenatal tablets konukoni, walmart, sams, indian store lo anniiiiiiiii groceries konestha....andharu cheppina info antha rasukunna thanks andhariki :)

[UNITED99]

oh ok, memu specific ga aduguthey kani cheyaledhu DS test (in MN)

 

 

Yea, mostly U/S scan  vaaalu chesthaaaaru...  Blood test or aminioc fluid

[Krish]

Each one of you andhariki thanks a ton ...ippudu nijam ga swear i got lot of confidence to handle my situation............Ivvala walgreens ki velli prenatal tablets konukoni, walmart, sams, indian store lo anniiiiiiiii groceries konestha....andharu cheppina info antha rasukunna thanks andhariki :)

 

meat, vegetables, fruits, nuts, gud fats also bone broth...baaga tinamanu....chapati..edo 1 or 2 with meal tinamanu.....diet baaga care teesko bro!!

[Avataar]

6-7 months varaku...try to take care of her..n thn..see..proper diet ...every day leafy vegetables intake...n fruits n nuts...

 

n regular check up n all...

.elders r family members evariana unte...8th n 9th month use untundhi...

 

they knw better thn us...before the delivery....good luck

 

 

 

[Spartan]

finally got time to give my input...most of them cover aipoinai emo...but just listing them out again.. 

 

1st 3 months:

 

Ur wife needs lots of support form your side...

 

vallaki nausea, vomiting sensation, morning sickenss ekkuva untayi e three months lo...

 

so you need to bear with her..and try to be more friendly and emotionally bonded...talk more +ve things..which she likes

 

spend most of ur home time with her...

 

Foods: Lots of fluids not only water, but Citrus Juices, etc....

 

Pre-natal tablets dorkutai Costco or Walgreens lo...u can have them..daily multi-vitamin supplement..its good for babies growth and Mom too..

 

Iron content ekkuva untadi a tablets lo..so better try to take more fiber rich foods like wheat and grains...endukante constipation and Hemorrage vache chances untai..

 

avoid heavy Sugar ry foods...encukante Preganancy time lo Diabates vache chances ekkuva...adi vellipotadi post pregnancy..but good to avoid

 

rather than taking insulin and monitoring it for 9 months ..its pain full..

 

ask her not to do heavy exercises ..but lite side walking is good...weather chali ga undi ani..anukunte ask her to walk in room itself for 30min or so..

 

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2nd: 4-7 months..

 

this period is more fun for both of you...chala important tests avanni untia during these months...wrt to baby..

 

so follow the appointments properly...

 

e period lo ..ladies will be more active and feel better compared to earlier 3 months...

 

lucky ga neeku Summer time lo vastundi kabatti..actually u can plan a long trip..just to spend some quality time before Baby..

 

( endukante I bet after baby 2yrs you cannot even go to a movie together...so this time is the perfect nfo both of you)

 

Your wife will feel like eating more..which is normal...coz she needs to eat for content of two bodies now...

 

e time lo its better to take more Calcium and Walnuts..coz Brain growth and Nerves System devleop avutadi baby lo..

 

so it will help the baby... continue the tablets which are good % in folic acid mainly..it helps for brain development...

 

3rd: 8th and 9th months..

 

e period lo...you will be knowing the gender of the baby if u nneed to...

 

but your wife will feel tired soon, as baby gets heavier...so try to weekend shopping for the baby..and make sure u get all the required stuff for the first three months of the baby...

 

( a list kavalante nenu vesta tarvata....)

 

 

Wife ki Walking continue cheyamanu...because now is the right time for her Muscle Felxibility...which will help for smooth labour..

 

Fluids continue cheyamanu..even if she feel peeing frequently...whcih is cumbersome for them..

 

kaani baby heavy avvadam to..only less fluid will be stored...anduke fluids intake cointiue cheyali at good rate...as earlier...

 

keep all the Hospital numbers, directions handy...

 

try out a driving teest for the hospital to home once or twice....traffic ela untadi ani to keep an eye...

 

Baby will react to your feel on the womb...its a awesome feeling....

 

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regarding calling your parents...i would suggest to bring them just a week or 2 before the due date..endukante..valla avasram will be more after the baby...rather than coming before..

 

 

they can spend more time with the baby later times...and adi chala useful kuda for both u parents to have some rest period..

 

[Spartan]

finally atb..keep calm..and enjoy the time...

 

u will be gaining weight along with ur wife for sure... LOL....

[Spartan]

Also Kegel Exercises ani untai..Youtube lo Month wise...

 

ask ur wife to try them out...they help a lot..

[aakpak_karepak007]

CVS vadivi vuntai gummies lantivi(Ovr the counter evi aynaa parledhu ) ..My wife prefers those..she hates taking pilss.

Gummies lo no iron uncle.. Chk it