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Well when you ready for marriage, you will go online find a matrimonial website and done, a profile will be up in the next 15 min.

 

Struggle start now. Where are all the girls? You will not have expected the harsh reality that in fact you will not be approached by a girl or their parents for days or weeks to follow. Is your profile so bad? Do you look bad? Is your family poor? What factored into this abandonment? These will be sure questions you will struggle with.

 

Nenu naa pelli ki ala avtundi because naa caste population chala takkuva ap lo (which is a fact) anukunna.. kaani you will see every guy from every caste facing this situation these days.. manam us ki ocham mana requirements baga perigipoyay anukuntam first.. (idi kooda fact ee).. then konchem konchem taggi taggi oka situation ostundi.. when the profiles you rejected start looking better than the ones you getting.

 

Recently, I have come across another post like this here and started to look at the issue in a different angle:

 

SEX-SELECTIVE ABORTIONS..!!!

 

One of the major factors why we are facing this effect now, has a reason introduced to india in the mid 80s.

 

Our economy sure was fluctuating that time. Dowry system was in its peaks with a government employee was demanding as hell. Ultrasound system ani introduce chesaru india ki.. exactly the time around when you were born!

 

Bros, appudu mana parents/ neighbors lo enta mandi unna vallu, chaduvukunna vallu unnaru?

 

so katnam gurinchi alochinche scene ee ledu. Most uneducated or poor people opted to kill the girl child. Of this subset, people who feared that killing a baby is a sin, are the one who saved few for this guys in the market now.

 

Everyones lifestyle has improved in india, inti pakkana boondi amme vallu kooda crorepatis ippudu.. but i know valla kodalu had two abortions.

 

So basically, chadukunna andamaina manchi family background unna ammailu were supposed to be available in same numbers as same category guys, but just got killed as a fetus.

 

I read articles of villages in india now with no women.. Im glad ap is not in such a bad situation. But, in fact the situation has greatly improved around late 90s when more jobs entered the state, and families were able to afford a girl child.

 

Guys from 80-90 are the unfortunate lot. sad but this lot is denied in some cases of a suitable match because many parents contributed to killings.

 

Mee tappu kaadu bros, kaani meeru emi cheyaleru.

 

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Posted

Well when you ready for marriage, you will go online find a matrimonial website and done, a profile will be up in the next 15 min.

 

Struggle start now. Where are all the girls? You will not have expected the harsh reality that in fact you will not be approached by a girl or their parents for days or weeks to follow. Is your profile so bad? Do you look bad? Is your family poor? What factored into this abandonment? These will be sure questions you will struggle with.

 

Nenu naa pelli ki ala avtundi because naa caste population chala takkuva ap lo (which is a fact) anukunna.. kaani you will see every guy from every caste facing this situation these days.. manam us ki ocham mana requirements baga perigipoyay anukuntam first.. (idi kooda fact ee).. then konchem konchem taggi taggi oka situation ostundi.. when the profiles you rejected start looking better than the ones you getting.

 

Recently, I have come across another post like this here and started to look at the issue in a different angle:

 

SEX-SELECTIVE ABORTIONS..!!!

 

One of the major factors why we are facing this effect now, has a reason introduced to india in the mid 80s.

 

Our economy sure was fluctuating that time. Dowry system was in its peaks with a government employee was demanding as hell. Ultrasound system ani introduce chesaru india ki.. exactly the time around when you were born!

 

Bros, appudu mana parents/ neighbors lo enta mandi unna vallu, chaduvukunna vallu unnaru?

 

so katnam gurinchi alochinche scene ee ledu. Most uneducated or poor people opted to kill the girl child. Of this subset, people who feared that killing a baby is a sin, are the one who saved few for this guys in the market now.

 

Everyones lifestyle has improved in india, inti pakkana boondi amme vallu kooda crorepatis ippudu.. but i know valla kodalu had two abortions.

 

So basically, chadukunna andamaina manchi family background unna ammailu were supposed to be available in same numbers as same category guys, but just got killed as a fetus.

 

I read articles of villages in india now with no women.. Im glad ap is not in such a bad situation. But, in fact the situation has greatly improved around late 90s when more jobs entered the state, and families were able to afford a girl child.

 

Guys from 80-90 are the unfortunate lot. sad but this lot is denied in some cases of a suitable match because many parents contributed to killings.

 

Mee tappu kaadu bros, kaani meeru emi cheyaleru.

 

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I live in the city ..I think I m gonna Marry someone who is not from India ..I hate that marriage crap traditions in India anyways.too much stress n too much BS.

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That is one option bro.. if you want some girl who is culturally a lil similar, nepalese bro.. good luck.

 

one of the additional perks entante one year lo green card.. just saying.. :D

I live in the city ..I think I m gonna Marry someone who is not from India ..I hate that marriage crap traditions in India anyways.too much stress n too much BS.

 

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ipdu generation change ayndi gani ..mana parents generation inka worst thinking …dowry etc …vallu yedavalu ayte vaalla kids mind set kuda paduchestunnaru…i think aa previous generation laziness, greediness valle mana country kuda padaipoindi ani na feeling

Posted

I cannot agree more, as the kids are not given freedom of thought. They become what they have trained to.

 

Personally, as I read somewhere, 'where youre born cannot be blamed for what you have become'

ipdu generation change ayndi gani ..mana parents generation inka worst thinking …dowry etc …vallu yedavalu ayte vaalla kids mind set kuda paduchestunnaru…i think aa previous generation laziness, greediness valle mana country kuda padaipoindi ani na feeling

 

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aadaleka maddela oodu annatta.. ala undhi ee article..

 

SEX-SELECTIVE ABORTIONS valla ee kalam ammailaki options ekkuva avtunai past gen kante.. 

 

still male:female ratio koncham taggi undachemo kani it didnt become 10:1.. or that bad..

 

picha panullo involve kakunda right age lo vethikithe subaranga avtundhi pelli..this is purely my opinion Brahmi-17.gif?1403646236

Posted

yup get married before 28…..u will find right one

Posted

Idi cause-effect analysis lo okati. one reason anthe, there will be lot of reasons why one does not get a suitable match.

aadaleka maddela oodu annatta.. ala undhi ee article..

 

SEX-SELECTIVE ABORTIONS valla ee kalam ammailaki options ekkuva avtunai past gen kante.. 

 

still male:female ratio koncham taggi undachemo kani it didnt become 10:1.. or that bad..

 

picha panullo involve kakunda right age lo vethikithe subaranga avtundhi pelli..this is purely my opinion Brahmi-17.gif?1403646236

 

Posted

Ratio is more of 7/8:10 Bhayya, problem enti ante Maniollu transition phase lo unnaru from broker to complete online so don't expect immediate or replies at all on matrimony...
Oka example nenu matrimony lo request pampisthava no reply but as Ammayi ma Fnd valla Fnd na details ivvagane reply vachindi then anukunna even though matrimony lo register ayina inka Chaala varaku broker mida depend avtunnaru ani...

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