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naa pellam nenu cheppina vinakunda na koduku ni india lo vadhilesi ikkada dbing chesthundhi... somebody please help me  bye1

 

 

nee badha pagavadiki kuda vaddhu lol

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I pity ur situation bro

alane vundhi vayya naa paristhithi... lailu ki koncham cheppu  bye1

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ala em ledhu...u can book..  mast mandhi ni chooosa 

not recommendable sir

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ledhu bro ... separate thread lo complete gaa discussion chesi  ... oka solution alochiddam antunna  bye1

na badhani panchukotam kuda thapena  bye1

 

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nizamaa?????  :3D_Smiles:  :3D_Smiles:

alane vundhi vayya naa paristhithi... lailu ki koncham cheppu  bye1

 

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alane vundhi vayya naa paristhithi... lailu ki koncham cheppu bye1


Aa penta lo nenu raayi veyyalenu bro.. Sorry
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nee badha pagavadiki kuda vaddhu lol

cheppu lailu ki... db vallu chepthe vintundhi  bye1

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nizamaa?????  :3D_Smiles:  :3D_Smiles:

 

 

Aa penta lo nenu raayi veyyalenu bro.. sorry

andharu ilane ante nenemaipovali  bye1

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Malli oka thread start chesthunna. Nenu and naa wife US lo untunnam and we are on single family income, wife is H4 visa dependent.

 

My Wife is 2 months pregnant now and due to personal and health issues, maa parents and maa wife valla parents US ki rakapovachu so nenu na wife some how 9 months manage cheyyagalugutham and problem enti ante this is our first time baby so experience nill do u guys( all experienced people with kids) just idharame undi new born baby ni idharame choosukogaluguthama??? My family and my wifes family ki em cheppaleduuuu as of now, india pampistha 6th month lo India pamputha and nenu 9th month vastha ani cheppanu...below are the problems:

 

- Na H1 visa sep 2015 varake undi and sme with my wife as she is on H4 dependent

- Incase force chesi chesi valla mom ni US thepinchukunte, last min lo nadhi contracting and na project contract ayyipothe ela?

- Maa wife ni india pampichesthe delivery ki and baby akkada delivery ayyithe malli should i apply for passport and visa kada sooo aa process cheppara?

- nenu 9th month lo velthe immediate ki 1 month lo back ralenu kada because baby ki 1 month ea untundi and is it safe to fly ?

- Visa ki ela apply cheyyali baby ki???? entha time paduthadi?

 

meeru iddaru with the help of friends can manage... you should be ready to take atleast onemonth leave to get things straight... baby ni shifts teskondi... work from home options explore cheyi...meeku kastam ga unte.. baby ki 3months vachaka india ki pampinchu papa and mee wife ni...

 

india vadu ikkada aaite ne baguntundi baby ki...

 

nuvvu nee visa extension meda focus petu... baby putagane..birth certificate.. passport ventane aaipotai within a month.. aa POI (person of india origin) card ki time padutundi.. adi vaste baby is good for travel..

 

baby ki PIO instructions and US passport apply cheyataniki instructions nenu forward chesta.. PM me your email

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US lo manage avvadame easy….ikda hospitals lo anta care proper ga untundi…hospital varku em pani undadu…delivery aina next day intiki pampinchestaru

 

miru oka 1 week leave petti chuskondi mee wife ni then next nundi tane chuskuntundi….

 

 

Agreed...

 

My personal experience... it is easy in Here hospital will send you guys to home in 2 days if it is normal delivery....

without in-laws.  

Do not think of travelling with 1 or 2 month Kid... it is dangerous for her/his brain cells. 

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you are saying texas , nanys untaru , baby ki bath even you can maanage with  that

 

maa parents and inlaws raaledhu , maa papa ni nenu maa wife manage chesam irvng tx lo las colinas medical center lo nee

 

and india lo for sure ippudu antha c section paisal kosam, ikkada 99 percent cheyaaru, 

 

india ki dabbulu pampadam maaneyi , so nee dabbu untundhi , nee job poyinaa , '

 

 

maa manager 1 month wfh icchadu , memu sunday morning 3 ki vellam , tuesday after 3 ki pamparu , correct ga 2 1/2 days

 

maa wife satuday kalla set ayindhi , i can manage ani cheppindhi 

 

no worries, dabbu pettuko , if you have you will get courage and you encourage your wife 

 

mamalni pakka vallu suti poti matlatho chala mandi annaru, meeru ela chestharu an

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risk ee but avoid cheyalenappudu .... if u inform in hospital about travel ... they will take care about all vaccinations bro .... 

 

 

 

 

Agreed...

 

My personal experience... it is easy in Here hospital will send you guys to home in 2 days if it is normal delivery....

without in-laws.  

Do not think of travelling with 1 or 2 month Kid... it is dangerous for her/his brain cells. 

 

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you are saying texas , nanys untaru , baby ki bath even you can maanage with  that

 

maa parents and inlaws raaledhu , maa papa ni nenu maa wife manage chesam irvng tx lo las colinas medical center lo nee

 

and india lo for sure ippudu antha c section paisal kosam, ikkada 99 percent cheyaaru, 

 

india ki dabbulu pampadam maaneyi , so nee dabbu untundhi , nee job poyinaa , '

 

 

maa manager 1 month wfh icchadu , memu sunday morning 3 ki vellam , tuesday after 3 ki pamparu , correct ga 2 1/2 days

 

maa wife satuday kalla set ayindhi , i can manage ani cheppindhi 

 

no worries, dabbu pettuko , if you have you will get courage and you encourage your wife 

 

mamalni pakka vallu suti poti matlatho chala mandi annaru, meeru ela chestharu an

great uncle...

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US lo manage avvadame easy….ikda hospitals lo anta care proper ga untundi…hospital varku em pani undadu…delivery aina next day intiki pampinchestaru

 

miru oka 1 week leave petti chuskondi mee wife ni then next nundi tane chuskuntundi….

 

ela misguide cheyaku, kids are the  most pretiest and also stress things you will ever enounter in your life time. 

 

to OP,

 

na personal experince lo, each baby is different man, first 3 months narkamu, no sleep, feed them every three hours and diaper change etc, my 99% of friends went through same - some babies don't sleep, some don't feed, some have reflux or some problem. It is more stressful for your wife beucase of harmonal changes and she can easily slip in to Postpartum depression if she doesn't get enough support, she will not be in a position to feed your baby, take care of the baby and do household chores.

 

na suggestion is get someone from India atleast for the first 3 months that is very important otherwise 90% chances you are doomed (nee life lo malli anta narakamu choodavu). This is very important because I went through it and I know the pain. FYI..na mother inlaw was here for 2.5 months only because of some family issues back home and my parents had visa issues luckliy in my case I had FT job with WFH option and my baby was rather healthy but she was hyper active.

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