Love/trust, Advice Needed

[tara]

This guy I love, who also loves me had an ex previously, but broke up with her due to problems with his family. She's married and happy but they both keep in contact as friends. I was not comfortable with the friendship because she used to call saying she's not happy with her marriage. I informed him that I would be okay as long as he stopped his contact with her. He agreed and said he wouldn't talk with her in the start of our relationship. 

 

Shockingly a few months ago I discovered his email id which he used to secretly still maintain contact with her wherein she asked him to send her a laptop, etc. When I encountered him about the email id, he promised that it was nothing personal and it was used to communicate and he meant to tell me but was afraid I would judge him wrong. I made terms with his idea and informed him, this time more clearly that I would rather he didn't maintain contact with her and to be honest if anything happens. I told him to call her that evening to inform the same, and end it here. He called but I discovered a few days later that he already called her in advance to warn her he would call her that evening to tell the same in my presence. I still adjusted thinking he's probably concerned about his ex's feelings, I was hurt that he cared more for her feelings and not much for mine. 

 

But I still adjusted and moved on, this time a few weeks later I found in his facebook that he was still secretly looking at her profile. I asked him about it and was definitely much hurt that he cared more for his attitude to still see her but couldn't care about how I felt. He said he was doing that in order to make sure she's happy with her husband as her husband apparently doesn't care for her. I asked him to tell me if he intends to continue talking with her, he mentioned he doesn't need to and he's happy with not talking with her. 

 

But after a couple of months, today I found that he still has her listed as his name on his phone. At this point, I'm lost. I don't know if I should think something is going on or whether nothing is happening. Moreover when asked about it he mentioned that when he went to india last year, he used his old sim card wherein the contacts submerged into this phone and forgot to delete this number. I dont know what to trust and what not to. We both are of different castes, yet our families agreed for our marriage, I was truly happy that we were finally going to be together and this happened. I'm lost about this, your advice to tackle would help with my situation. Thanks

[riashli]

Leave him
U seem to doubt him a lot

[Yuva Nataratna]

Both of you have to just talk clearly and decide.... 

[Rebel890]

Open his whatsapp..u will get a clear idea .lol

[tara]

Thanks

[riashli]

Thanks

See if he is maintaining healthy fship, then nothing wrong I guess..ayina aa ammayi married antunnaru..inka meku threat enti

[KillChillPandey]

I too am in touch with all my ex-gf's that doesn't mean i'm going to marry all of them although they are married and may or may not be happy with their marriage..

 

 

[KillChillPandey]

See if he is maintaining healthy fship, then nothing wrong I guess..ayina aa ammayi married antunnaru..inka meku threat enti

 

 

Anumanam is the real threat kada.. Relationship Smooth ga sagipotey kontha mandi ki istam undadu.. edo oka atabomma kavali..ivvaltiki Anumanam atabomma..

[koncham2]

yes, leave 

[KillChillPandey]

yes, leave 

 

all leave .. ni fost lo andar cheffindi adey kada.. comman lets njoy.. 

[mtkr]

vuuuu

[KillChillPandey]

vuuuu

 

 

   repu petkundam manam frogram 

[mtkr]

shukravaaram e gaa.. taagudu shuru cheyyale inkaa!!!!

   repu petkundam manam frogram 

 

[Idly Vishwanatham]

Adedo cinema lo hero heroine ni ame lover ki ichi Malli Pelli chesi tyaga murthi ga migilipothadu.. U too follow the same

[mtkr]

Adedo cinema lo hero heroine ni ame lover ki ichi Malli Pelli chesi tyaga murthi ga migilipothadu.. I too follow the same

 

 

I aaa!! U aa!!!