k2s Posted May 4, 2015 Report Posted May 4, 2015 Having consummated our marriage (after almost 1.5 years with great difficulty), today we have come back to square one. Last night I had a major tiff with my DH. I said why don't you shut the common door between our bedroom and your mother's room at night when you know we have had fight over this issue several times in the past. He said it dint just cross his mind. This was enough to blow me. I said that means you never really think seriously about having sex if shutting the common door doesn't figure in your mind. I said that I need sex and I feel very deprived of it. I asked him when was the last time we had sex to which he asked when was the last time you initiated? I was dumbfounded by his question because in the past, I have been to multiple gynecs and counselors just to sort this problem. I have been on pills, gels, lubricants then how on earth a lack of initiative is displayed from my end. My DH very conveniently said that it is not solely his responsibility to initiate sex. I am extremely frustrated with this man. He is attributing his total lack of interest to my not taking the initiative? When shamefully I have told him umpteen times that I need this thing badly. I am at loggerheads and have absolutely no idea how to sort this thing.
lbs Posted May 4, 2015 Report Posted May 4, 2015 ganni pills, gels, lubricants vadithe inkem mood vastadi mood off aithadi :) but avi vadani rojulu cheyohcu kada maybe vadu katraj emo :)
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