k2s Posted May 6, 2015 Report Posted May 6, 2015 Hi Friends, Iam divorcee on hunt to get remarried as u all know. I got this divorce match last week. I liked the guy as far as looks are concerned and Job as well. He is working in US. Last week his mom told that his son will call me on saturday, i agreed. on Friday his mother replied with a message stating that he son is busy with work and can not talk that weekend. I replied her back saying that I am fine to talk on any day , weekday as well if he is free. He did not call me. Again on last friday, his mother called and said that they will come and see me. They have seen me and liked me. She told that her son will call me/message me via whats app. He did not call me or messaged me on saturday and sunday. on Monday morning he messaged me saying he is busy and he will call on Tuesday asking me the convenient time. Now today he again messaged me saying that he is busy and will call me tomorrow. I feel he is not interested in proceeding or just messaged me on his moms force because he has postponed talks thrice. He is doing IT job and i am sure most of them in US do not over work. Please advice what shall I do?
k2s Posted May 6, 2015 Author Report Posted May 6, 2015 Women 1 : Hi poster I'm sorry,but this guy seems quite dodge. Why is his mum arranging everything? If a man wants to do something he will. There is no such thing as being too busy to call or text. It seems like his mum is forcing him, he might just have lover his mum doesn't know about, and is entertaining his mums idea of finding a woman for him to keep her happy. Darling, be strong, don't run after a man. If he can behave so badly know, imagine what a relationship with him will be like ?
k2s Posted May 6, 2015 Author Report Posted May 6, 2015 Women 2 : My Guts feeling says...you should stay away from this guy....what it appears from your post is... Like typical indian story which we see... MIL is happy that X-DIL is now no more part of her son's life. Son has still not moved on in Life but peer pressure from parents to get married again. If that is not the case , I think his being busy might have caused trouble in his married life earlier....not sure...but if a man cannot take out time for the most important decisions of his life what will he do in future? Send him a very straightforward msg stating 'If you are genuinely interested to get married again, if you really like to have talk with me...go ahead and msg me without making me wait' if not please interested , kindly dont care to reply. its all fine...Am having my busy schedule too , to look after , I dont like ppl who cannot manage their time...missing out on call me once is ok but repeating same every time am not On for this.... Hope you understand what am trying to say.....I'll like to go for some one who has time for relationship and not the one who runs away from it. All the best with your search
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Yuvatha Posted May 6, 2015 Report Posted May 6, 2015 Hi Friends, Iam divorcee on hunt to get remarried as u all know. I got this divorce match last week. I liked the guy as far as looks are concerned and Job as well. He is working in US. Last week his mom told that his son will call me on saturday, i agreed. on Friday his mother replied with a message stating that he son is busy with work and can not talk that weekend. I replied her back saying that I am fine to talk on any day , weekday as well if he is free. He did not call me. Again on last friday, his mother called and said that they will come and see me. They have seen me and liked me. She told that her son will call me/message me via whats app. He did not call me or messaged me on saturday and sunday. on Monday morning he messaged me saying he is busy and he will call on Tuesday asking me the convenient time. Now today he again messaged me saying that he is busy and will call me tomorrow. I feel he is not interested in proceeding or just messaged me on his moms force because he has postponed talks thrice. He is doing IT job and i am sure most of them in US do not over work. Please advice what shall I do?
zustrelaax Posted May 6, 2015 Report Posted May 6, 2015 Hi Friends, Iam divorcee on hunt to get remarried as u all know. I got this divorce match last week. I liked the guy as far as looks are concerned and Job as well. He is working in US. Last week his mom told that his son will call me on saturday, i agreed. on Friday his mother replied with a message stating that he son is busy with work and can not talk that weekend. I replied her back saying that I am fine to talk on any day , weekday as well if he is free. He did not call me. Again on last friday, his mother called and said that they will come and see me. They have seen me and liked me. She told that her son will call me/message me via whats app. He did not call me or messaged me on saturday and sunday. on Monday morning he messaged me saying he is busy and he will call on Tuesday asking me the convenient time. Now today he again messaged me saying that he is busy and will call me tomorrow. I feel he is not interested in proceeding or just messaged me on his moms force because he has postponed talks thrice. He is doing IT job and i am sure most of them in US do not over work. Please advice what shall I do?
SeemaLekka Posted May 6, 2015 Report Posted May 6, 2015 Women 2 : My Guts feeling says...you should stay away from this guy....what it appears from your post is... Like typical indian story which we see... MIL is happy that X-DIL is now no more part of her son's life. Son has still not moved on in Life but peer pressure from parents to get married again. If that is not the case , I think his being busy might have caused trouble in his married life earlier....not sure...but if a man cannot take out time for the most important decisions of his life what will he do in future? Send him a very straightforward msg stating 'If you are genuinely interested to get married again, if you really like to have talk with me...go ahead and msg me without making me wait' if not please interested , kindly dont care to reply. its all fine...Am having my busy schedule too , to look after , I dont like ppl who cannot manage their time...missing out on call me once is ok but repeating same every time am not On for this.... Hope you understand what am trying to say.....I'll like to go for some one who has time for relationship and not the one who runs away from it. All the best with your search Post kanna reply peddaga undi
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