maximummax Posted May 26, 2015 Report Posted May 26, 2015 Idi inko forum lo post chesaru...i am just copying it here. might be useful for some guys My boyfriend and I are all in our late 20s and been a couple for 2 years. When I started dating, him I knew he was inexperienced when it came to sex. He always was embarassed and tried to cover it up, but I could tell so I never really pushed him to be honest. With what I enjoy with sex, after being sexually active for over a decade, I pretty much knew what I liked in bed. In the past, I was promiscuous, even though I wanted a boyfriend so I would often do stuff I wasn't necessarily comfortable with to try to make the guys stick around. As I grew older, I became more mature and now have limits on what I won't do. My boyfriend has asked me to try certain things with him, and I lied to him and told him that I won't do it and never have. I know it was shitty, but I didn't want him to get the wrong impression that I was trying to withhold things from him. However, due to some slip ups of mine, he has figured out the truth about my past sex life and he is deeply hurt. I don't think if he was so inexperienced he would have taken these things to heart, but I think because he is inexperienced it hurts him more knowing he never got to try it. My boyfriend is a person that really doesn't show much emotion, so he didn't yell at me or anything. It's just that he doesn't view me the same way anymore. Before, when we go around he would always be grabbing my butt and boobs, now he is pretty much hands off. When I ask to talk to him about it, he says he doesn't care and doesn't want to talk about it, that it was the past and it was before he knew me. We still have sex time to time, but I can tell he lost a lot of his passion towards me. And just to be clear, we don't have a boring sex life in any way it's just certain things I don't do anymore, most women don't do either (besides in porn). What can I do to recover this? Do you guys have any idea? tl;dr- boyfriend found out I had kinkier sex in the past, now he is upset.
maximummax Posted May 26, 2015 Author Report Posted May 26, 2015 y lol man When I started dating, him I knew he was inexperienced when it came to sex With what I enjoy with sex, after being sexually active for over a decade My boyfriend has asked me to try certain things with him, and I lied to him and told him that I won't do it and never have you got the point
k2s Posted May 26, 2015 Report Posted May 26, 2015 When I started dating, him I knew he was inexperienced when it came to sex With what I enjoy with sex, after being sexually active for over a decade My boyfriend has asked me to try certain things with him, and I lied to him and told him that I won't do it and never have you got the point emo
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