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[Appaji]

donga munda 

[Chitti_Robo_Rebuilt]

vadileysi migilina life aina vadini happy ga unchu nee picchakuntla lanj@

[k2s]

Hi,

I have a serious issue for which I need some opinions.

I have been married for 3 years(Arranged marriage). We thought of having kids after 3 years and when I raised this topic with my husband recently, he said that he is not interested in having kids with me. He says that ours is not a healthy relationship and he is in this marriage for his parents and out of sympathy for me and nothing more. He refuses to have kids and he feels it is not fair for kids when either of the parents is not inclided to do so. This is the reason for his behaviour:

I lied to my husband about my past relationship. Before marriage when the topic of affairs came, I told him that I do not have any relationships. He did not have any and has a mindset where he believes it's OK to love someone but wrong to have physical relationships before marriage. I was still in relationship with my BF when the marriage was getting fixed and did not want to get married to my current husband. But my ex-BF's parents wanted us to wait until my ex's elder brother gets married and my parents were in no mood to wait any longer(They waited for 1 year)

After marriage, my husband came to know about the affair through some other sources. There was no fight but he was upset. At that time, I did one more mistake and told him that I & my ex-BF never got physical. I told him that we just held hands and nothing else happened. But later, he found out with proof about our intimate physical relationship and found out that I was still in contact through emails, chats during our courtship period after engagement and even after marriage. Contact was through mails only. This time he was really upset and he went into depression for couple of months. But he didn't tell anyone about this. Finally, he became normal with occasional mood swings but overall life was really happy and I felt really lucky.

Before marriage itself, he said that we will plan kids 3 years after marriage. But now, he is saying that he does not want to have kids as he lost all love not just on me but on human relations and it is not healthy for a  kid to have a father like him. He said I'm open to divorce him but there is no way he will have kids. He says he is married to me just for his parents sake and out of concern for me and nothing else. He says he tried really hard all these years to forget my past and did put up a fake happy face but inside he never forgot what I did to his life. He is saying that if I chose to leave him or tell this to our parents, then I should be prepared to tell the actual reason for it. He says I can do whatever I want in this marriage other than having kids.

I shared this my best friend and she is saying that my husband is taking revenge in this way. She is asking me to give him ultimatum and if he still does not listen, leave him as I have atleast some hope to re-marry and settle. But if I delay for couple of more years, I will have no options.

Please friends, what do you think that I should do ?

more proofs in terms of HD print pls/// 

[jaffa]

nee yavva...red handed ga dorakapoi untey continue chesedey..........pilladni lover tho kani,mogudi acct loki transfer chesedhi....brashtulara.....

[sattipandu]

vadileysi migilina life aina vadini happy ga unchu nee picchakuntla lanj@

vammo antha maata anesaav enti bhayyaa

[k2s]

he did a good job.... baboi.. dani frnd ki entha brain ooooo...revenge aa  :3D_Smiles:

 

 

Revenga aah .... em matladthundi adi...

 

Asala dhanamma ...vadi life ki biscuit esaru kada ....

is that friend from IL too 

[Jaffating]

Yehey picchha lite....Take a break and watch bahubali

[uncertainty]

nee yavva...red handed ga dorakapoi untey continue chesedey..........pilladni lover tho kani,mogudi acct loki transfer chesedhi....brashtulara.....

 

vah point cheppav 

[sattipandu]

You fooled him once -- Joke's on him

You fooled him twice -- Joke's on you Bi@tch

 

Now pay for your mistakes and ask him for his wholehearted forgiveness

 

You Want Divorce for what?, Not wanting to have kids? stomping on him twice and him treating you well even though he's heartbroken and dead inside

 

 

[baga_aindhi]

Try swinging... Idhi chaala help avuddhi....

Google lo choodu couple swinging gurinchi....

Hi,

I have a serious issue for which I need some opinions.

I have been married for 3 years(Arranged marriage). We thought of having kids after 3 years and when I raised this topic with my husband recently, he said that he is not interested in having kids with me. He says that ours is not a healthy relationship and he is in this marriage for his parents and out of sympathy for me and nothing more. He refuses to have kids and he feels it is not fair for kids when either of the parents is not inclided to do so. This is the reason for his behaviour:

I lied to my husband about my past relationship. Before marriage when the topic of affairs came, I told him that I do not have any relationships. He did not have any and has a mindset where he believes it's OK to love someone but wrong to have physical relationships before marriage. I was still in relationship with my BF when the marriage was getting fixed and did not want to get married to my current husband. But my ex-BF's parents wanted us to wait until my ex's elder brother gets married and my parents were in no mood to wait any longer(They waited for 1 year)

After marriage, my husband came to know about the affair through some other sources. There was no fight but he was upset. At that time, I did one more mistake and told him that I & my ex-BF never got physical. I told him that we just held hands and nothing else happened. But later, he found out with proof about our intimate physical relationship and found out that I was still in contact through emails, chats during our courtship period after engagement and even after marriage. Contact was through mails only. This time he was really upset and he went into depression for couple of months. But he didn't tell anyone about this. Finally, he became normal with occasional mood swings but overall life was really happy and I felt really lucky.

Before marriage itself, he said that we will plan kids 3 years after marriage. But now, he is saying that he does not want to have kids as he lost all love not just on me but on human relations and it is not healthy for a kid to have a father like him. He said I'm open to divorce him but there is no way he will have kids. He says he is married to me just for his parents sake and out of concern for me and nothing else. He says he tried really hard all these years to forget my past and did put up a fake happy face but inside he never forgot what I did to his life. He is saying that if I chose to leave him or tell this to our parents, then I should be prepared to tell the actual reason for it. He says I can do whatever I want in this marriage other than having kids.

I shared this my best friend and she is saying that my husband is taking revenge in this way. She is asking me to give him ultimatum and if he still does not listen, leave him as I have atleast some hope to re-marry and settle. But if I delay for couple of more years, I will have no options.

Please friends, what do you think that I should do ?

[adwitiya_original]

same ilantidhe story evaro abhayi posted in db from husbands perspective... saying he is hubbys fren 

[adwitiya_original]

Yehey picchha lite....Take a break and watch bahubali

[jpnarayan1]

Steal ur hubby sperm and have kids

[missionxp]

are these real stories.. or db hits kosam vesthara akakda 

[SeelamleniAunty]

L@nja, tiriginnani rokulu, tirigi ULtimatam istadi anta 


naaku telsina ammayi okati vunid UK Lo , office lo colegaue tho 1 year baaga 10ginchukoni 
Iipudu, Pativratha laaga, naaku ee qualities vunna abbyile kavali, no bad habits ani lecture istunte, neu manud vesi 10ga, one fine day with boothulu, aa debba ki fafa jump