sahasam Posted August 18, 2015 Report Posted August 18, 2015 were you ever in a situation to explain about our (arranged) Indian marriage system to your american colleague(s)? If so, me explanation vinnaka vaalla reaction enti... Lunch hour lo I had this discussion with my colleagues.. and felt kind of awkward. U.S. vachi edo cutting kodatannam ani kaadu kaani, konchem deep ga alochiste, mana marriage system pedda joke la anipisthadi saami. Adedo market lo shopping la.. matrimony site lo good looking candidate ni select cheyyatam.. one or two times phone/skype call... then, marriage. endo idi. I mean it might have worked well with our parent generation which is totally different than ours, but mana generation lo kooda idi work out avudda asalu... abbayilatho normal ga maatladataanike muppai-aaru vanakarlu tirige mana ammayilu, asalu mukku moham teleeni vaaditho life long commitment ela chesesukuntaaru...
TOM_BHAYYA Posted August 18, 2015 Report Posted August 18, 2015 Neevente nenunta sodharaa Naaku alaa istam ledu .. Monne cheppesa.. Prema Pelli cheskunta peddalu kudhirchindhi assalu cheskonu ani
maximummax Posted August 18, 2015 Report Posted August 18, 2015 were you ever in a situation to explain about our (arranged) Indian marriage system to your american colleague(s)? If so, me explanation vinnaka vaalla reaction enti... Lunch hour lo I had this discussion with my colleagues.. and felt kind of awkward. U.S. vachi edo cutting kodatannam ani kaadu kaani, konchem deep ga alochiste, mana marriage system pedda joke la anipisthadi saami. Adedo market lo shopping la.. matrimony site lo good looking candidate ni select cheyyatam.. one or two times phone/skype call... then, marriage. endo idi. I mean it might have worked well with our parent generation which is totally different than ours, but mana generation lo kooda idi work out avudda asalu... abbayilatho normal ga maatladataanike muppai-aaru vanakarlu tirige mana ammayilu, asalu mukku moham teleeni vaaditho life long commitment ela chesesukuntaaru... conditions meet avuthe marriage aithadi same goes with whites too
sahasam Posted August 18, 2015 Author Report Posted August 18, 2015 Neevente nenunta sodharaa Naaku alaa istam ledu .. Monne cheppesa.. Prema Pelli cheskunta peddalu kudhirchindhi assalu cheskonu ani bhayya... nuvvu inka asalu normal ga maatladava... eppudu ee vetakarapu posts ye na.... chirak dobbutundi...
sattipandu Posted August 18, 2015 Report Posted August 18, 2015 Cant say about Matrimony marriages, never was in that situation Arranged marriages ki em ayyindhi ippudu. okariki nachinattu okaru naduchukovatam aney concept ledhu ee western societies lo (at least among large % of West ppl)
sahasam Posted August 18, 2015 Author Report Posted August 18, 2015 conditions meet avuthe marriage aithadi same goes with whites too ammayilakai = abbayi salary entha... aasthi entha undi... abbayilaki... = ammayi looks ela unnay.. H1/F1 aa... dowry entha.. conditions ante... ivena?
TOM_BHAYYA Posted August 18, 2015 Report Posted August 18, 2015 bhayya... nuvvu inka asalu normal ga maatladava... eppudu ee vetakarapu posts ye na.... chirak dobbutundi...nuvvu kothha anukunna sodharaa db ki :o
sahasam Posted August 18, 2015 Author Report Posted August 18, 2015 Cant say about Matrimony marriages, never was in that situation Arranged marriages ki em ayyindhi ippudu. okariki nachinattu okaru naduchukovatam aney concept ledhu ee western societies lo (at least among large % of West ppl) parents or family freinds lo mundu nundi telisina vallu... is exception, I agree. I was just talking abt matrimony arranged mrgs..
Sambadu Posted August 18, 2015 Report Posted August 18, 2015 love marriage ante..intlo emotional backmails utnai.. ika parents ni bada etaka chesukuntaru andaru anthe.. more over love marriages lo ne divorce ekkuva anipistundhi naku ithe
sahasam Posted August 18, 2015 Author Report Posted August 18, 2015 nuvvu kothha anukunna sodharaa db ki :o ne posts ante oka idea undataanike old or new emundi bhayya.. db follow ayyithe saripoddi kadaa..
Amala Posted August 18, 2015 Report Posted August 18, 2015 Neevente nenunta sodharaa Naaku alaa istam ledu .. Monne cheppesa.. Prema Pelli cheskunta peddalu kudhirchindhi assalu cheskonu animee aavida kaa?
chicagosubbu Posted August 18, 2015 Report Posted August 18, 2015 were you ever in a situation to explain about our (arranged) Indian marriage system to your american colleague(s)? If so, me explanation vinnaka vaalla reaction enti... Lunch hour lo I had this discussion with my colleagues.. and felt kind of awkward. U.S. vachi edo cutting kodatannam ani kaadu kaani, konchem deep ga alochiste, mana marriage system pedda joke la anipisthadi saami. Adedo market lo shopping la.. matrimony site lo good looking candidate ni select cheyyatam.. one or two times phone/skype call... then, marriage. endo idi. I mean it might have worked well with our parent generation which is totally different than ours, but mana generation lo kooda idi work out avudda asalu... abbayilatho normal ga maatladataanike muppai-aaru vanakarlu tirige mana ammayilu, asalu mukku moham teleeni vaaditho life long commitment ela chesesukuntaaru... Well said...
eedukondalu Posted August 18, 2015 Report Posted August 18, 2015 were you ever in a situation to explain about our (arranged) Indian marriage system to your american colleague(s)? If so, me explanation vinnaka vaalla reaction enti... Lunch hour lo I had this discussion with my colleagues.. and felt kind of awkward. U.S. vachi edo cutting kodatannam ani kaadu kaani, konchem deep ga alochiste, mana marriage system pedda joke la anipisthadi saami. Adedo market lo shopping la.. matrimony site lo good looking candidate ni select cheyyatam.. one or two times phone/skype call... then, marriage. endo idi. I mean it might have worked well with our parent generation which is totally different than ours, but mana generation lo kooda idi work out avudda asalu... abbayilatho normal ga maatladataanike muppai-aaru vanakarlu tirige mana ammayilu, asalu mukku moham teleeni vaaditho life long commitment ela chesesukuntaaru... u wrong one thing...mana parents time lo matrimony websites lu leevu...only pellilla perayyalu and they used to do lot of validations and verification on both sides......whether can he support a family, family back ground and many things.... nenu koda naa manager ki explain chesaa....he american too...he compared to match.com and other dating websites....difference is american or other will do dating couple of time...but you know how it is in india.....
Raja123 Posted August 18, 2015 Report Posted August 18, 2015 bhayya... nuvvu inka asalu normal ga maatladava... eppudu ee vetakarapu posts ye na.... chirak dobbutundi...
maximummax Posted August 18, 2015 Report Posted August 18, 2015 parents or family freinds lo mundu nundi telisina vallu... is exception, I agree. I was just talking abt matrimony arranged mrgs.. love marriage aina arrangeed aina conditions satisfy avvali both sides no one is ready to compromise in life
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