TOM_BHAYYA Posted August 18, 2015 Report Posted August 18, 2015 ne posts ante oka idea undataanike old or new emundi bhayya.. db follow ayyithe saripoddi kadaa..ohh alaa antavaaa sodharaa.. Aithe naa abhipraayam lo.. Dheniki undaalsina prayojanalu anukulathalu dhaaniki untaii Prema pellilllo ammai ni maathrame chusthaam Peddalu kudhirche dhaanilo kutumbaanni chustharu... Inka vidaakula sankya dhenilo ekkuvundho telsu kadha .. Peddalu kudhirchina vaatilo chin a chin a samasyalochina sardhadaniki prayathninchukutam ledha vaallaina chestharu aa pani
sahasam Posted August 18, 2015 Author Report Posted August 18, 2015 u wrong one thing...mana parents time lo matrimony websites lu leevu...only pellilla perayyalu and they used to do lot of validations and verification on both sides......whether can he support a family, family back ground and many things.... nenu koda naa manager ki explain chesaa....he american too...he compared to match.com and other dating websites....difference is american or other will do dating couple of time...but you know how it is in india..... lol.. yeah.. this difference makes lot of difference in marriages.. yh.. pellilla perayyalu ippudu kooda unnaru kaani, but I am not really sure whether they do any validations now a days.
sahasam Posted August 18, 2015 Author Report Posted August 18, 2015 love marriage aina arrangeed aina conditions satisfy avvali both sides no one is ready to compromise in life enti bhayya aaa conditions.. or compromises.. ammayilakai = abbayi salary entha... aasthi entha undi... abbayilaki... = ammayi looks ela unnay.. H1/F1 aa... dowry entha.. conditions ante... ivena?
maximummax Posted August 18, 2015 Report Posted August 18, 2015 enti bhayya aaa conditions.. or compromises.. you already quoted above ...avve if you have lots of money...you can get any girl for marriage ...period.
eedukondalu Posted August 18, 2015 Report Posted August 18, 2015 lol.. yeah.. this difference makes lot of difference in marriages.. yh.. pellilla perayyalu ippudu kooda unnaru kaani, but I am not really sure whether they do any validations now a days. nv cheppina mata about matrimony marriages is true....u r not getting married immediate after looking at them.....u have option to meet her and talk ......since situations are not favorable to many ppl they are not meeting in-person and doing skype call and phone calls.... these website are medium of communication.....you and your family should be responsible for doing all the V&V..... edo pill abagundi kada...naaku time leedu edi vasthe ade....ante...inka anthe.....
bussuboy Posted August 18, 2015 Report Posted August 18, 2015 Older Indian Generation had high level of adjustment nature, more on women as they were not financially independent and majority were Home makers. So the adjustment was natural to them and hence marriage was on paper success. The newer desi/indian geenration doe not have that "Adjustment" thing orr they dont'e have to adjust i.e. its not natural anymore. Women too are financially indipendent. So the sucess of marriages is reducing..... So, use these when you talk to whites about marriage system in india..it is slowly changing.
dappusubhani Posted August 18, 2015 Report Posted August 18, 2015 em pellillo emo.. TS bro.. al d best
rikki Posted August 18, 2015 Report Posted August 18, 2015 without any deep thought...western culture lo they will date(whihc includes having s in the first day) and living in for at least 2-3 yrs then marriage and after a year divorce...look at the percentage of divorce dude i am not supporting indian marraige or anything ..all i am saying is our's is better than this date sh!t ...no 1 know who their partner is...its all in the understanding and helping were you ever in a situation to explain about our (arranged) Indian marriage system to your american colleague(s)? If so, me explanation vinnaka vaalla reaction enti... Lunch hour lo I had this discussion with my colleagues.. and felt kind of awkward. U.S. vachi edo cutting kodatannam ani kaadu kaani, konchem deep ga alochiste, mana marriage system pedda joke la anipisthadi saami. Adedo market lo shopping la.. matrimony site lo good looking candidate ni select cheyyatam.. one or two times phone/skype call... then, marriage. endo idi. I mean it might have worked well with our parent generation which is totally different than ours, but mana generation lo kooda idi work out avudda asalu... abbayilatho normal ga maatladataanike muppai-aaru vanakarlu tirige mana ammayilu, asalu mukku moham teleeni vaaditho life long commitment ela chesesukuntaaru...
SeemaLekka Posted August 18, 2015 Report Posted August 18, 2015 ekkada dating sites kuda anthe kada sodhara
sahasam Posted August 18, 2015 Author Report Posted August 18, 2015 Older Indian Generation had high level of adjustment nature, more on women as they were not financially independent and majority were Home makers. So the adjustment was natural to them and hence marriage was on paper success. The newer desi/indian geenration doe not have that "Adjustment" thing orr they dont'e have to adjust i.e. its not natural anymore. Women too are financially indipendent. So the sucess of marriages is reducing..... So, use these when you talk to whites about marriage system in india..it is slowly changing. what u said is true.. but i dont want to get into the success ratio of marriages. its a whole big hole. it is just about our generation matrimony marriages..
sahasam Posted August 18, 2015 Author Report Posted August 18, 2015 without any deep thought...western culture lo they will date(whihc includes having s in the first day) and living in for at least 2-3 yrs then marriage and after a year divorce...look at the percentage of divorce dude i am not supporting indian marraige or anything ..all i am saying is our's is better than this date sh!t ...no 1 know who their partner is...its all in the understanding and helping I disagree bhayya.. who said without any deep thought? they have more priorities in life than us; they are more independent than us. Educated families nundi vachina americans ki and non-educated people ki chaala dfrnce untundi US lo whether they are white or black. I am not really sure on whether all americans will encourage sex on their first data. But just because they are having sex on their first date does not mean their system is wrong and ours is better. Just because we are not seeing divorce rates in India does not mean ours' is a happy marriage system. It's just we are still too afraid to seek for a divorce in our community. ekkada dating sites kuda anthe kada sodhara dating sites lo choosina 'looks bagunna ammayini' next month lo pelli chesukoru kada sodhara..
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