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Hi i am married 2 year back.Before marriage i had been in a situation like things happen normaly.Like i goto college study etc...Before i got engaged my husband spoke to me.He'sandsome guy(much better that me) ,he is my distant relative.But he is a good guy,he said me that i consider that i should cosider certain things before marrying him.He said that he''s a bit unlucky and things get into trouble most times even if he tries hard.He also said that i can reject him from marrying him.I didn't beleive evrything he said ,but i knew he is a hard worker (my parents said that).Also my other relatives have praised him a lot for helping others.He loves me a lot and cares more for me.I am lucky to have him.
But after marriage i found things to freak me out.Like he said he has lots of hurdles before achieving anthing.i will tell some examples.Likke we have to wait,,face hurdles a lot 
When i travel from my native i usually never wait for bus,because they are frequent.But after marriage we both wait a lot at times for the same bus for the same place at my native .I used to laugh myself thinkig that as i am a silly girl thinking about silly things.Things again began to happen like this a lot more frequently.That's problem.When it happens too much it hurts.Wen we first planned for honey moon i had fever.when planned second he got leave (in advace ) but cancelled as he was asked to join for work for an important meeting.when we planned for third time (please don't laugh) the bus got break down in between ooty andconoor but myhusband said we wil somehow got ooty.Got another bus went to ooty.I thought thakk god we made it.But it was raining ther for three days after we go there.(It was summer- May).But we still enjoyed 2 days.Like i think you will understant what i am tyring to say.If I gon typing everything it will take a month to complete.
Alost everything happens like this.Now i don't know why this happens .Is it due to horoscopes or what ??? My husband is really optimistic he always says he tries to do things .If it happes it is good ,if not still good , and he goes on. But i feel injustice for us.
We have applied for ration card ,they said it will come after 3 months,Now they are saying that the proof is not there(But I saw all the proof correctly given).They are saying to apply again for fresh.I said to my husband ,I don’t’t want to apply for ration card at all.Is ration card necessary. Even in his job he gets to go for jobs in holidays at times.I got pregant earlier but miscarried at 2 months.Later when we tried i had hormone imbalance,Now when we tried doctor said i am having PCOS.His count is average.Both are under treatment.I am mentally drained.It’s only because of my husband caring and love that I am withstanding these all.
Don’t know why things are happening like this to us????Eveything we do is without fault but result doesn’t happen as we expect???Had anyone been in this kind of situation before???Have I done anything wrong???
When some people get these things as easy as possible , why we face such situations???
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enti ivi kooda big issues ena... IL forum undhi kadha ani aunties sollu posts.....pelli ayyina vallu ee IL forum block cheyyandi man intlo..... :giggle: :giggle:

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gudi ki velli anjanaeyudi thaayethu vesukomanu . \

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masth stories unnay vayya in that forum of aunties

forum names please  S%Hi

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Idhi kadhu vayya aa unromantic thread chudu masthu mandhi dippam gallu untaru naku aithe navbu agaledhu okko post chaduvuthunte

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forum names please  S%Hi

googled.. the post.. indusladies

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Hi i am married 2 year back.Before marriage i had been in a situation like things happen normaly.Like i goto college study etc...Before i got engaged my husband spoke to me.He'sandsome guy(much better that me) ,he is my distant relative.But he is a good guy,he said me that i consider that i should cosider certain things before marrying him.He said that he''s a bit unlucky and things get into trouble most times even if he tries hard.He also said that i can reject him from marrying him.I didn't beleive evrything he said ,but i knew he is a hard worker (my parents said that).Also my other relatives have praised him a lot for helping others.He loves me a lot and cares more for me.I am lucky to have him.
But after marriage i found things to freak me out.Like he said he has lots of hurdles before achieving anthing.i will tell some examples.Likke we have to wait,,face hurdles a lot
When i travel from my native i usually never wait for bus,because they are frequent.But after marriage we both wait a lot at times for the same bus for the same place at my native .I used to laugh myself thinkig that as i am a silly girl thinking about silly things.Things again began to happen like this a lot more frequently.That's problem.When it happens too much it hurts.Wen we first planned for honey moon i had fever.when planned second he got leave (in advace ) but cancelled as he was asked to join for work for an important meeting.when we planned for third time (please don't laugh) the bus got break down in between ooty andconoor but myhusband said we wil somehow got ooty.Got another bus went to ooty.I thought thakk god we made it.But it was raining ther for three days after we go there.(It was summer- May).But we still enjoyed 2 days.Like i think you will understant what i am tyring to say.If I gon typing everything it will take a month to complete.
Alost everything happens like this.Now i don't know why this happens .Is it due to horoscopes or what ??? My husband is really optimistic he always says he tries to do things .If it happes it is good ,if not still good , and he goes on. But i feel injustice for us.
We have applied for ration card ,they said it will come after 3 months,Now they are saying that the proof is not there(But I saw all the proof correctly given).They are saying to apply again for fresh.I said to my husband ,I don’t’t want to apply for ration card at all.Is ration card necessary. Even in his job he gets to go for jobs in holidays at times.I got pregant earlier but miscarried at 2 months.Later when we tried i had hormone imbalance,Now when we tried doctor said i am having PCOS.His count is average.Both are under treatment.I am mentally drained.It’s only because of my husband caring and love that I am withstanding these all.
Don’t know why things are happening like this to us????Eveything we do is without fault but result doesn’t happen as we expect???Had anyone been in this kind of situation before???Have I done anything wrong???
When some people get these things as easy as possible , why we face such situations???

Poor girl :(
Divorce him asap
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