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Hello Ladies,

I am here after a long time.I am really very confused about my married life.Would really appreciate your valuable advise.Sorry for the long post .

Just to give you an idea of my past.I got married two and half years ago.It was a love marriage and long distance relationship while in love.We did get married in temple and registered marriage because my husband said his family didn`t get agree for ourmarriage.But after our marriage I got to know everything was lie.I know I was naïve enough to trust him.His parents contacted me and now we don`t have any issue with his family.Youcan check my previous post to have a better idea

We started living together since last July because of my work issue.Last July(2014)I joined him here in USA.Because of his previous lies ,I somehow lost trust in him.He is a very good husband otherwise.He pampers me,cares for me,sometimes cooks food,hang out with me,apart from the office ours,he stays with me.I am not working at this moment.


But what bothers me is he does not update his marital status or my pictures in facebook.HEdoesn`t add me on facebook. He doesn`t share any of his online password with me.Hedoesn`t share his mobile password with me.If I ask him he says these are his personalstuff.He doesn`t wanna see my stuffs.Why do I want to see his? Although now a days I sometimes check his mobile as I saw the password one day.There is nothing suspicious in the mobile.But he never keep his facebook open in mobile.

He did not share his financial details also with me until last month.He added me in his bank account and made me a joint account holder.

Now my problem is I am not yet sure if I can live my whole life with him as I lost trust in him.I told him to keep everything open and help me to gain the trust again.But he says he didn`t do anything wrong.I really want to trust him,but I don`t know how to do that when he hides all these things from me.I believe in transparency in marriage.

I am already 32 years old.My parents has started pushing me for kids,even I wanna have kids,but I am scared about having kids in this marriage.I feel this is not a healthy marriage and kids will suffer.

I will start working soon and as soon as I start working I want to make a decision to settle in this marriage or to move on.I somehow still love him and want to be with him when I see his loving nature ,but I can`t accept his nature of keeping things hidden from me.He does help me financially.I am happy otherwise,but his nature of hiding mobile,emails,facebook from me makes me think twice before making a decision to stay with him or leave him.

Please advise what do you think?

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Vaaammmoooo

Nen b Ekkada post cheya maa pics not on fb Whatsapp .. Asalu status b update cheyale.. Endhi rachhhaaa.. Maa aavida ni Ee IL side chudakunda cheyaalk

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Vaaammmoooo

Nen b Ekkada post cheya maa pics not on fb Whatsapp .. Asalu status b update cheyale.. Endhi rachhhaaa.. Maa aavida ni Ee IL side chudakunda cheyaalk

 

 

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Hello Ladies,

I am here after a long time.I am really very confused about my married life.Would really appreciate your valuable advise. sorry for the long post .

Just to give you an idea of my past.I got married two and half years ago.It was a love marriage and long distance relationship while in love.We did get married in temple and registered marriage because my husband said his family didn`t get agree for ourmarriage.But after our marriage I got to know everything was lie.I know I was naïve enough to trust him.His parents contacted me and now we don`t have any issue with his family.Youcan check my previous post to have a better idea

We started living together since last July because of my work issue.Last July(2014)I joined him here in USA.Because of his previous lies ,I somehow lost trust in him.He is a very good husband otherwise.He pampers me,cares for me,sometimes cooks food,hang out with me,apart from the office ours,he stays with me.I am not working at this moment.


But what bothers me is he does not update his marital status or my pictures in facebook.HEdoesn`t add me on facebook. He doesn`t share any of his online password with me.Hedoesn`t share his mobile password with me.If I ask him he says these are his personalstuff.He doesn`t wanna see my stuffs.Why do I want to see his? Although now a days I sometimes check his mobile as I saw the password one day.There is nothing suspicious in the mobile.But he never keep his facebook open in mobile.

He did not share his financial details also with me until last month.He added me in his bank account and made me a joint account holder.

Now my problem is I am not yet sure if I can live my whole life with him as I lost trust in him.I told him to keep everything open and help me to gain the trust again.But he says he didn`t do anything wrong.I really want to trust him,but I don`t know how to do that when he hides all these things from me.I believe in transparency in marriage.

I am already 32 years old.My parents has started pushing me for kids,even I wanna have kids,but I am scared about having kids in this marriage.I feel this is not a healthy marriage and kids will suffer.

I will start working soon and as soon as I start working I want to make a decision to settle in this marriage or to move on.I somehow still love him and want to be with him when I see his loving nature ,but I can`t accept his nature of keeping things hidden from me.He does help me financially.I am happy otherwise,but his nature of hiding mobile,emails,facebook from me makes me think twice before making a decision to stay with him or leave him.

Please advise what do you think?

 

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Vaaammmoooo

Nen b Ekkada post cheya maa pics not on fb Whatsapp .. Asalu status b update cheyale.. Endhi rachhhaaa.. Maa aavida ni Ee IL side chudakunda cheyaalk

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