Why You Should Sext More?

[kiladi bullodu]

Sexting boosts sexual satisfaction for men and women in committed relationships, according to a new study.

 

 

 

On one hand, sexting can tear apart your career and vaporize your credibility. (Not naming names, but you can probably think of a few politicians…) And on the other, sexting can seriously amplify the sexual satisfaction in your relationship—at least that’s what researchers from the American Psychological Association say. 

Sexting, for the purpose of their recently published study, was defined as sending or receiving sexually explicit or suggestive content via text messaging. Researchers asked 870 men and women between the ages of 18 and 82 to assess their sexting behaviors, motives, and relationship and sexual satisfaction via an online survey. 

Why Dirty Texting Is Worse Than Physical Cheating >>>

Turns out, 88 percent of participants reported having sexted (!), and 82 percent admitted to sexting in the past year. About 75 percent of these men and women said they sent these messages while in a committed relationship.

Perhaps even more surprising than the sheer number of sexters these days is how it impacts the releationship between sexter and "sextee". While the level of sexual satisfaction reported by those in relationships was higher, the 26 percent of participants who identified themselves as “single” had significantly lower overall scores of gratification. 

What's more, the men and women who sexted more saw the somewhat taboo behavior as being “fun” and “carefree,” and were more likely to believe that sexting was expected in their relationship. Just exercise some common sense. If you’re in a high profile position, keep your private thoughts private. Some things are better left unsaid—or, rather, unsent.

 

[LordOfMud]

A steamy sex session in the morning can keep you in good health

 

Sex increases the production of testosterone that provides stronger bones and muscles thus helping to stave off osteoporosis.

 

A good morning session can make the hair shine and skin glow by raising the output of oestrogen and other hormones which are associated with it.

 

Having morning sex can aid in averting endometriosis, a condition where the tissue that normally lines the uterus, grows in other parts of the pelvis.

 

[LordOfMud]

ACRONYMS

 

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http://www.cnn.com/2014/12/08/living/internet-acronyms-every-parent-should-know/

 

53X          Sex

?^              Want to Hook Up?

ASLP       (What is your) Age/Sex/Location/Picture? (Also ASL)

CU46         See You For Sex

DYHAB/G    Do You Have A Boyfriend/Girlfriend?

DTH          Down To Hang (I’m up for getting together)

FWB           Friends With Benefits

GNOC         Get Naked on Camera

I&I              Intercourse & Inebriation

IPN            I’m Posting Naked

LH6           Let’s Have Sex

LJBF        Let’s just be friends

LMIRL    Let’s Meet In Real Life

LYLAB/S Love You Like A Brother/Sister

NSA        No Strings Attached

RU/18      Are You Over 18?

WTTP      Want To Trade Pictures?

 

TEXTING ACRONYMS ABOUT THOSE PESKY PARENTS

AITR       Adult in the Room

303          Mom

M/POS    Mom/Parents over shoulder

PIR          Parent in Room

PAL         Parents are Listening

PAW       Parents are Watching

CD9         Parents around/Code 9

PA / PA911    Parent Alert

9                Parent Watching

99             Parent Gone

 

 

GENERAL TEXTING ACRONYMS

 

143          I love you

1432        I love you too

ATM        At The moment

gerd          Abbreviation for ermagerd (Oh my God)

GR8          Great

CMB         call me Back

CUNS       See You In School

F2F          Face to Face

FOAF       Friend Of A Friend

FML          F*** My Life

FTW          For The Win

GTG           Got to Go

GTFO       Get the F* Out

HAK        Hugs and Kisses

HMU       Hit Me Up

IKR         I Know, Right?

IDC          I Don’t Care

IDK         I don’t Know

ITA/D     I Totally Agree/Disagree

IRL         In real life

J/K         Just Kidding

KK          Okay

KWIM    Know what I mean?

L&R        Love and respect

mmk       Mmm…okay

MEGO     My Eyes are Glazing Over

MYT        Meet You There

NAGI       Not A Good Idea

NBD        No Big Deal

NGH       Not Gonna Happen

NMP        Not My Problem

NSFW      Not Safe for Work

NSFL       Not Safe for Life

NTIM       Not That It Matters

N00B      Newbie

OATUS   On a totally unrelated subject

O RLY    Oh, really?

P&C         Private and Confidential

PITA        Pain in the A**

REHI       Hi, again

RUOK      Are You OK?

QQ            Crying (often humorously)

SFSG       So Far So Good

SLT         Something Like That

SOL         Sh** Out of Luck

SUP        What’s up?

UOK        Are you okay?

4Q             F*** You

VCDA      Vaya Con Dios, Amigo

VSF         Very Sad Face

WDYM  What Do You Mean?

WFM     Works For Me

WRUD    What Are You Doing?

WTG        Way To Go!

W00T      Hooray!

WTH        What The Hell?

XOXOZZZ Hugs, kisses, sweet dreams

ZOMG       Oh my God

[kiladi bullodu]

ACRONYMS

 

                                 +_(

http://www.cnn.com/2014/12/08/living/internet-acronyms-every-parent-should-know/

 

53X          Sex

?^              Want to Hook Up?

ASLP       (What is your) Age/Sex/Location/Picture? (Also ASL)

CU46         See You For Sex

DYHAB/G    Do You Have A Boyfriend/Girlfriend?

DTH          Down To Hang (I’m up for getting together)

FWB           Friends With Benefits

GNOC         Get Naked on Camera

I&I              Intercourse & Inebriation

IPN            I’m Posting Naked

LH6           Let’s Have Sex

LJBF        Let’s just be friends

LMIRL    Let’s Meet In Real Life

LYLAB/S Love You Like A Brother/Sister

NSA        No Strings Attached

RU/18      Are You Over 18?

WTTP      Want To Trade Pictures?

 

TEXTING ACRONYMS ABOUT THOSE PESKY PARENTS

AITR       Adult in the Room

303          Mom

M/POS    Mom/Parents over shoulder

PIR          Parent in Room

PAL         Parents are Listening

PAW       Parents are Watching

CD9         Parents around/Code 9

PA / PA911    Parent Alert

9                Parent Watching

99             Parent Gone

 

 

GENERAL TEXTING ACRONYMS

 

143          I love you

1432        I love you too

ATM        At The moment

gerd          Abbreviation for ermagerd (Oh my God)

GR8          Great

CMB         call me Back

CUNS       See You In School

F2F          Face to Face

FOAF       Friend Of A Friend

FML          F*** My Life

FTW          For The Win

GTG           Got to Go

GTFO       Get the F* Out

HAK        Hugs and Kisses

HMU       Hit Me Up

IKR         I Know, Right?

IDC          I Don’t Care

IDK         I don’t Know

ITA/D     I Totally Agree/Disagree

IRL         In real life

J/K         Just Kidding

KK          Okay

KWIM    Know what I mean?

L&R        Love and respect

mmk       Mmm…okay

MEGO     My Eyes are Glazing Over

MYT        Meet You There

NAGI       Not A Good Idea

NBD        No Big Deal

NGH       Not Gonna Happen

NMP        Not My Problem

NSFW      Not Safe for Work

NSFL       Not Safe for Life

NTIM       Not That It Matters

N00B      Newbie

OATUS   On a totally unrelated subject

O RLY    Oh, really?

P&C         Private and Confidential

PITA        Pain in the A**

REHI       Hi, again

RUOK      Are You OK?

QQ            Crying (often humorously)

SFSG       So Far So Good

SLT         Something Like That

SOL         Sh** Out of Luck

SUP        What’s up?

UOK        Are you okay?

4Q             F*** You

VCDA      Vaya Con Dios, Amigo

VSF         Very Sad Face

WDYM  What Do You Mean?

WFM     Works For Me

WRUD    What Are You Doing?

WTG        Way To Go!

W00T      Hooray!

WTH        What The Hell?

XOXOZZZ Hugs, kisses, sweet dreams

ZOMG       Oh my God

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vvLBXO94EfA

[LordOfMud]

FYI

 

Diana Graber, who teaches "cybercivics" to middle schoolers in Aliso Viejo, California, was blown away by the response she got recently from eighth graders when she, for the first time, included a session on sexting.

When she asked her students if they knew what a sext was, everyone in the class said they did, but what they didn't know was what the penalties for sending a sext could be, including how it could be prosecuted as a felony under child pornography laws in some states.

"They had no idea what the consequences were," said Graber, a digital literacy site for parents, educators, and tweens and teens. "I mean that was a complete surprise to literally all 28 kids, so it occurred to me that no one's ever bothered to tell these kids they couldn't do that."

Graber said she experienced another first that day. A few students wanted to hang around after the class, which is held at the end of the school day, to talk more about sexting and related things.

"That's never happened to me before with this class ... and I realized that I had created a safe space for them to talk about something that was super relevant to their lives."

She now plans to make it part of her "cybercivics" curriculum, and believes parents and educators need to be talking to kids at even younger ages about sexting. It should be part of sex education, she said.

"We know that throwing the book at them, it's too much too late, so that's not working," said Graber,

"It's very normal teenage behavior ... and we need to get with the times and get ahead of the problem, and just have these very easy to have discussions."

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