Depression

[argadorn]

4 yrs ga job chesthunna.savings emo emi levvu.intlo vallu marriage ani force chesthunnaru.expectations ekkuva ipoinai and ippati varaku parents kosam em chayyaledhu goppaga.edho brathikesthunna.assala ardham avvadam ledhu ela manage cheyyalo.india vellipodham permanent ga anipisthadi but akkada ventane job rakapothe torture malli.depression valla suicidal thoughts kooda vasthunnai.

 

 

Mayya same neenu bhi vunna ippatiki naya pasa saving ledu.. kiran kottu

nenu bachelor ga cheyalenidhi chepthuna...car ki 600 emi kattadam waste ...until india lo me family status baguntay tappa...go with cheap car 5 to 6 k honda car...already car untay refinance or something 300 kattali antay ....room share chesko...1k lo ayipodhi antha...migathadhi antha jil jil jiga jiga ney...you will see the change for sure..

[SeemaLekka]

3 yrs 2 ms lu.. Dhayiryama aa loudaa.. Naa employer gaadu chala money dengesaadu oka 60

enti man 60k na? how?

[Roger_that]

enti man 60k na? how?

he is including 30% share also in 70-30 

[SeemaLekka]

he is including 30% share also in 70-30 

aina sare 42k kuda too much know

[Roger_that]

aina sare 42k kuda too much know

lekka correct ga ledu edo urike veste nuvvu mari cbi laxminarayana laaga asking 

[mybabyboy]

4 yrs ga job chesthunna.savings emo emi levvu.intlo vallu marriage ani force chesthunnaru.expectations ekkuva ipoinai and ippati varaku parents kosam em chayyaledhu goppaga.edho brathikesthunna.assala ardham avvadam ledhu ela manage cheyyalo.india vellipodham permanent ga anipisthadi but akkada ventane job rakapothe torture malli.depression valla suicidal thoughts kooda vasthunnai.

 

Naadhi kuda almost similar situation bhayya...nenu 5 yrs ga job chesthunna without any savings because of educational loan in india, car payment here and I only send 20K rupees to my parents every month.  Luckily you are single but for me I'm married and have a kid.  My wife is a stay-at-home mom.  Naa pay less than $30/hr but FT.

 

Naku suicide chesukovali ani thoughts inka raledhu but oka vela ochina, naa wife n kid will be at risk.

 

So the only suggestion I can give you is there are many people in similar or worse situation but leading their life strong.

 

Be positive bhayya...

[KOOL_KITTU]

successful ga PP renewal process completed.

[Spartan]

successful ga PP renewal process completed.

 

congrats man.

[khiraak]

Bro,

 

dont feel sad. depression anedi prathi okkari life lo yedo oka stage lo vasthadi bro...   danni confidence tho face cheyali kani, suicide enti bro. mee parents ki emi cheyaledu antunnav.. mari nuvvu suicide chesukuntey valla situation enti?

 

neeku mari anthaga US lo undatam ishtam lekapothey parents tho discuss chesi india vellipo. parents neekanna verevemi yekkuva kadu.. for sure they will understand ur situation. inka konni months chudu , tarvatha kuda alaney untey india ki vellipo. parents tho unntey chaala happy ga untav bro. neeku chala confidence vastadi, dhairyam peruguddi. 

 

marriage proposal unchukuni US or india antey pedda problem ayipoddi.. neeku marriage cheseppudu ammayi parents nuvvu US lo unanvani ninnu prefer chesi teera pelli ayyaka nuvvu india kio vachestha antey, total situation worst ga ayipoddi..  so marriage ki mundey better decission teesko.

 

India kanna better place emi ledu. Inka job antava dorukutundi but wait cheyali. kani US lo laga antha salaries ikkada ivvaru, but nee experience batti neeku manchi salary aa vastadi and danitho nuvvu happy ga undachu even after marriage. 

 

[samajaaragamana]

intlo parents ki idi na paristhithi ani chappalekapothunna.roju bagunna bagunna ani abhadham cheppi brathikesthunna.ee roju afternoon kooda evo chala bad thoughts vachai.ventane intiki call chesi amma tho matladina.better life kosam vasthae.USA eating up my life.

+101029048425

[samajaaragamana]

3 yrs 2 ms lu.. Dhayiryama aa loudaa.. Naa employer gaadu chala money dengesaadu oka 60

wtf man nee emp story enti cheppu

[samajaaragamana]

movies chudu bhayya konchem relax ka

 

friends tho ekkuva time spend cheyi

 

edaina kothadi nerchko u will feel something diff 

 

savings gurinchi alochinchaku bhayya dabbu epudu sashwatham kadhu (niku time vasthadi ani wait cheyi and try cheyi)

 

Last but not least ::::  DB lo ekkuva time spend cheyyi

this helps

[samajaaragamana]

Suicidal thoughts enduku kittu Bhai.. Mummy daddy em kavaley? Be responsible please.. Menu idey situation lo undey kani suicide ankoley.. How to change it ani alochinchi I took appropriate actions.. Naak almost 25k debt undey.. I cleared out in a year and started saving.. Still I haven't reached my goals.. But at least I donn have debt right now..paisal tension manishi ni pagal chestadi..atla kaku.. Young unnav keep calm njoy everyday and be a bit responsible..

I feel terrible man when ppl talk about suicides.. Gatlaithey EE patiki menu oka 1000 sarlu cheskovali..

first time cheskunappudu chachipothe 1000 times etla cheskuntav myaaan

[samajaaragamana]

Naadhi kuda almost similar situation bhayya...nenu 5 yrs ga job chesthunna without any savings because of educational loan in india, car payment here and I only send 20K rupees to my parents every month.  Luckily you are single but for me I'm married and have a kid.  My wife is a stay-at-home mom.  Naa pay less than $30/hr but FT.

 

Naku suicide chesukovali ani thoughts inka raledhu but oka vela ochina, naa wife n kid will be at risk.

 

So the only suggestion I can give you is there are many people in similar or worse situation but leading their life strong.

 

Be positive bhayya...

enni kastalayya neeku

[Enjoy99]

first time cheskunappudu chachipothe 1000 times etla cheskuntav myaaan

Thamari logic :giggle:

1000 times chesukoledu kabatte he is here