Married uncles & Aunties - advise

[Bestguy]

Hi,

 

we have 2 kids now.First one around 3.5 years and second one 1.5 years..Exact ga 2 years differnce iddariki..Second one unexpected..Life is very hectic for both of us.2 kids especially in US chala akstam mange cheytam..Me family or inlaws 6 months ki ala support vunte ok..Lekapothee koncham kastam..

[ronitreddy]

5 hours ago, JANASENA said:

ikkada DB lo janalu 2nd baby kanamantey kantava ? 

ledu vaddu antey manesthava ?

idi DB lo valla tho discuss cheyyalsina vishyam kaadu nee wife tho discuss cheyyalsina vishayam.  My Opinion 2nd baby is a must. okadey aithey vadiki bore kottesthundi. 

Nu ala chebithe narsi tatha ochi..1st lone discussion enduku cut chesthavu ani ninnu eskuntadu..

[mastercheif]

6 hours ago, Pichekkistha said:

I have 3 year old boy. Is sibling needed for him ? Too many people advising for 2nd baby. 

Generation has changed a lot. Who plays with siblings these days? only ipads and phones. After 7-8 they are needing need privacy. !st kid was a lot of stress for both of us. I can't imagine to go through that crap again. 

More over, i hate kids. especially while weeping and doing tantrum.s Sorry, i know its rude but i am what i am... 

for me 2nd kid is not becuase 1st needed company its because i like being around kids. Chill and take vacation uncle .

anni life lo serious tisukoku, flow lo flow ayepodame 

 

[samaja_varagamana]

I am the only child to my parents intial ga loniliness untadi but being only child you develop so many qualities..............which are good infact nenu okkadine kabati naku two kids anukuntunna...................i told this from your child perspective.............kottu kodaniki ayna thittu kodaniki ayna okalu unte baguntadi anipisthadi...due to our financial conditions in those days my dad didnt go for it and that too i used have a sister she died in one week so konni complications valla ma parents didnt go for other child after me.......ask your wife and see her health condition and proceed................ne mental tension kadu imp amey health imp neeku em undi edisthe cotton petkochu chevilo amey kani penchali ga  go ask her

[psycopk]

18 hours ago, Pichekkistha said:

I have 3 year old boy. Is sibling needed for him ? Too many people advising for 2nd baby. 

Generation has changed a lot. Who plays with siblings these days? only ipads and phones. After 7-8 they are needing need privacy. !st kid was a lot of stress for both of us. I can't imagine to go through that crap again. 

More over, i hate kids. especially while weeping and doing tantrum.s Sorry, i know its rude but i am what i am... 

lol.. looks like the decision is already made...

 

aaina adigav kabati chepuna.. i would recommend going for 3kids..

[Rendu]

18 hours ago, Spartan said:

repodduna..when they are in their 30's or so...iddaru parents lekapote..

they need some one blood related person whom they can share their happiness or sorrows. Siblings anduke kavali.. they should not feel they are Lonely..

we never know whom they will end up with and share future with..some may have a good understanding partner but still cannot beat the closeness of blood-relation..

[Tywin_Lannister]

18 hours ago, Pichekkistha said:

I have 3 year old boy. Is sibling needed for him ? Too many people advising for 2nd baby. 

Generation has changed a lot. Who plays with siblings these days? only ipads and phones. After 7-8 they are needing need privacy. !st kid was a lot of stress for both of us. I can't imagine to go through that crap again. 

More over, i hate kids. especially while weeping and doing tantrum.s Sorry, i know its rude but i am what i am... 

You should go for 4 kids or atleast 3 kids minimum.

siblings always protect each other more than the life partners.

[Rendu]

3 minutes ago, Tywin_Lannister said:

You should go for 4 kids or atleast 3 kids minimum.

siblings always protect each other more than the life partners.

4 ante mari..... manam 24/7 coolie pani chesukovali inka  

[Tywin_Lannister]

2 minutes ago, Rendu said:

4 ante mari..... manam 24/7 coolie pani chesukovali inka  

atleast 10Crore property unte parledhu bro. we can go with it.

[krishna0125]

19 hours ago, Pichekkistha said:

I have 3 year old boy. Is sibling needed for him ? Too many people advising for 2nd baby. 

Generation has changed a lot. Who plays with siblings these days? only ipads and phones. After 7-8 they are needing need privacy. !st kid was a lot of stress for both of us. I can't imagine to go through that crap again. 

More over, i hate kids. especially while weeping and doing tantrum.s Sorry, i know its rude but i am what i am... 

you need second kid for two reasons.

to support each other when grown up.

no to loose everything in life if any unexpected accidents happens in future. if you loose one kid at-least you have another one.

aina america vachi kuda economical ga settle ayyi kuda pillani baram anukunta enka endhuku mana brathukulu. India lo roju kuli chesukunavallu alochincha kunda 2 or more ni kantaru. Manam unnecessary thinking chesi bhayapadatam.

many people will think about gold,marriage, dowry etc..all i can say next generation 20years taravatha full independent, no kg's of gold requirement and no dowry in marriages and no cast feelings, I dont know even if they show interest in our properties..

so have the kids and enjoy the life with them..

[Kalam_Youtheman]

19 hours ago, Pichekkistha said:

I have 3 year old boy. Is sibling needed for him ? Too many people advising for 2nd baby. 

Generation has changed a lot. Who plays with siblings these days? only ipads and phones. After 7-8 they are needing need privacy. !st kid was a lot of stress for both of us. I can't imagine to go through that crap again. 

More over, i hate kids. especially while weeping and doing tantrum.s Sorry, i know its rude but i am what i am... 

1st kid already sukkal soopettadu antunnav kadha...next kid will be completely opposite...maintenance free untaaaru...

 

aina weping appudu chiraaku endhi vayyaa..nuvvu yedavaaaledhaa chinnnappudu..neeee edhava veshaaaluu veyyakandiii...G lo D unte pillalni kani possinchuuu aa experiencve a veru...neeeku 60-70 vachaaaka 200% nuvvu regret avthaaav evvaru leru ani...kukka saaavu ante telsu ga...

Be positive and have kid...neee frstn mee wife paina sssopiyyaaaaku...be a man

[Kalam_Youtheman]

17 minutes ago, krishna0125 said:

you need second kid for two reasons.

to support each other when grown up.

no to loose everything in life if any unexpected accidents happens in future. if you loose one kid at-least you have another one.

aina america vachi kuda economical ga settle ayyi kuda pillani baram anukunta enka endhuku mana brathukulu. India lo roju kuli chesukunavallu alochincha kunda 2 or more ni kantaru. Manam unnecessary thinking chesi bhayapadatam.

many people will think about gold,marriage, dowry etc..all i can say next generation 20years taravatha full independent, no kg's of gold requirement and no dowry in marriages and no cast feelings, I dont know even if they show interest in our properties..

so have the kids and enjoy the life with them..

same answer but naaaku intha cool ga cheppatam raaaadhuuu

[Maryadaramanna]

Go for a second one; your kids will know the value of relation, sharing and caring

okkade aithe vaadu maree selfish ayye problem vundi

[Maryadaramanna]

1 hour ago, krishna0125 said:

you need second kid for two reasons.

to support each other when grown up.

no to loose everything in life if any unexpected accidents happens in future. if you loose one kid at-least you have another one.

aina america vachi kuda economical ga settle ayyi kuda pillani baram anukunta enka endhuku mana brathukulu. India lo roju kuli chesukunavallu alochincha kunda 2 or more ni kantaru. Manam unnecessary thinking chesi bhayapadatam.

many people will think about gold,marriage, dowry etc..all i can say next generation 20years taravatha full independent, no kg's of gold requirement and no dowry in marriages and no cast feelings, I dont know even if they show interest in our properties..

so have the kids and enjoy the life with them..

well said

[idibezwada]

tittlelo advise ani undi...kani advise istunnado ..adugutunnado ardam kaala...can some one plz throw laser light on this