financial decisions leading to personal godavalu - Serious replies only pls

[LadiesTailor]

3 minutes ago, pahelwan said:

Asalu working chese pellalu chala feel aitaru they will be like they can spend money on her parents and if we spend on our parents they will cry. Telikunda parents ki sisters ki istaru papam husbands. Akka chellela pillalaki em konna wife will cry. Malli wife brother or sister US vachinde anuko na sami ranga Motham anta valla midane pedtaru wife

True bhayya... Life ni namilesav ??

[shankibhai]

4 minutes ago, nenesuperni said:

Adhe ela chepali 

I think you have decided and you have decision already, just ask here how to convince your husband ani, dont ask for solution.

[kasi]

abbay once after marriage..should take of both families..His parents n His wife and Kid PERIOD

yevaraki thakkuva chey kudadhu....ekkuva chey kudadhu 

 

Ask him to take her for a dinner and talk about everything openly....let them have a discussion about the financials and their future plans...

and if they need money honestly, he should be able to convince her

If she thinks he is spending more, she should be able to convince him 

 

let them have a honest n open discussion   

 

 

[Maryadaramanna]

2 minutes ago, Srimantudu said:

nuv definite ga psychiatrist degaraku vellali.. ur mind is completely filled with HATRED. nannu tittaku ippudu..i am seeing your replies since an year or more.,eppudu one sided untai..not even once u try to think out of it... its my sincere advice to you to see a doctor. 

Nee panaipoyindi 

[LadiesTailor]

1 minute ago, Maryadaramanna said:

pls don't ask logics

Then how to decide anta... Aha how we decide anta ??

[shankibhai]

Just now, kasi said:

abbay once after marriage..should take of both families..His parents n His wife and Kid PERIOD

yevaraki thakkuva chey kudadhu....ekkuva chey kudadhu 

 

Ask him to take her for a dinner and talk about everything openly....let them have a discussion about the financials and their future plans...

and if they need money honestly, he should be able to convince her

If she thinks he is spending more, she should be able to convince him 

 

let them have a honest n open discussion   

 

 

Chala baga cheppav bayya

[emmantav]

11 minutes ago, GunturGongura said:

There are families divorce encourage chestay , Ekda pellayyaka son dabbulu pampado ani

ala think chesty em cheppalem ika.........

[Maryadaramanna]

4 minutes ago, nenesuperni said:

Kids ki undali ga. Already in lots of debt and now trying to do more. Parents seeing him as money machine. Daughters midha more love. Vala kosam kuda babu money ni Gattiga using 

Kids..kids ani feel avvaku. parents ni manchiga chusinavadu thana kids ni chooskoda

Today's Job and salary is not static; he'll get a hike...in fact both of u will work good and earn good in the near future 

When you talk of money, it's not for ever; Satyam ramalinga raju who built an empire for 20+ Yrs lost everything in <3 weeks. Live life and be happy 

[Batman_fan]

3 minutes ago, kasi said:

abbay once after marriage..should take of both families..His parents n His wife and Kid PERIOD

yevaraki thakkuva chey kudadhu....ekkuva chey kudadhu 

 

Ask him to take her for a dinner and talk about everything openly....let them have a discussion about the financials and their future plans...

and if they need money honestly, he should be able to convince her

If she thinks he is spending more, she should be able to convince him 

 

let them have a honest n open discussion   

 

 

agreed.....open discussion always helps.....issue always starts when people start assuming things

[TheBrahmabull]

TS.... konchem care ful vayya.. kontamandi misleading sestunnaru ikkada.. dabbulu karchupedithey divroce tesukomantaru anta .. asalu ela sir itlanti ideas vosthay ... amma babulu bagupada mani septharu ekkadanna vidipoyi thatakullaga vundamanaru... vedava sodi... chesssssss

[emmantav]

9 minutes ago, nenesuperni said:

Kids ki undali ga. Already in lots of debt and now trying to do more. Parents seeing him as money machine. Daughters midha more love. Vala kosam kuda babu money ni Gattiga using 

ok fine.....entha pamputhunnadu every month india ki ?

[nenesuperni]

41 minutes ago, rrc_2015 said:

I know a reverse story .... Abbai only spends for Mother regular expenses and well being. Nothing on sister.

Father expired 10 yrs ago. this guy 1 year marraige completed recently .

From last 6 months,  wife and in-laws started crying on this guy saying ... you are not saving anything ... spending too much on ur family.

Regular is fine. Kani ee case lo more of dharja (luxury) unnecessary things 

[Srimantudu]

7 minutes ago, Maryadaramanna said:

Nee panaipoyindi 

[Maryadaramanna]

5 minutes ago, LadiesTailor said:

Then how to decide anta... Aha how we decide anta ??

pellanni anduke chevilo joreega annaru

adi bharinchagaligithe; u can take your own decisions...lekapothe do what she says 

[GunturGongura]

6 minutes ago, Srimantudu said:

nuv definite ga psychiatrist degaraku vellali.. ur mind is completely filled with HATRED. nannu tittaku ippudu..i am seeing your replies since an year or more.,eppudu one sided untai..not even once u try to think out of it... its my sincere advice to you to see a doctor. 

I've seen worst in laws

alanti inlaws evarki rakudadu

they just ruined my life 

i ended up in divorce , vallu oka reason 

Before judging me , step into my situation and go through the pain I went and then salaha ivu

na exps toh Nenu cheppa, Nuvu wife n kid toh happyga unav, nikem telustadi Na badha

better u stop reading my posts if they r annoying antegani half knowledge toh judge cheyaku