financial decisions leading to personal godavalu - Serious replies only pls

[LadiesTailor]

10 minutes ago, nenesuperni said:

Adhe ela chepali 

Nuvvu financial matters lo involve ayuthe mee husband ela teesukuntadu ? I mean negative ga emanna teesukuntada ? First find this out.... 

Then plan on how to talk to him about your family monthly expenses and other stuff... Include your in laws expenses also there and show him how long it would take to clear off his debts... 

You need to work on how to cut down expenses so your husband can think about sending unnecessary money to India.

NOTE: don't ever say you are wasting money by sending it to your parents... Maaku aa maata ante kaalipoddi

[Maryadaramanna]

8 minutes ago, kasi said:

abbay once after marriage..should take of both families..His parents n His wife and Kid PERIOD

yevaraki thakkuva chey kudadhu....ekkuva chey kudadhu 

 

Ask him to take her for a dinner and talk about everything openly....let them have a discussion about the financials and their future plans...

and if they need money honestly, he should be able to convince her

If she thinks he is spending more, she should be able to convince him 

 

let them have a honest n open discussion   

 

 

baa cheppav baa...but idi kastam

[emmantav]

12 minutes ago, mybabyboy said:

seriously money machine ani ela annado emo bhayya TS....maa dad 60+ and still working...i send the money every month and sometimes they ask me to send extra any month since they have additional expenses like major repairs at home or other stuff neither me or my wife never felt like they are treating me like money machine....my mom and dad have sacrificed everything for me and my siblings and whatever i send them will never be enough compared to their sacrifice....i explained everything about my family to my wife while we were dating and how hard my parents struggled to make us reach this position and how big is my family and what responsibilities I have.  

nevus gelichevu bhayya

[Srimantudu]

1 minute ago, GunturGongura said:

I've seen worst in laws

alanti inlaws evarki rakudadu

they just ruined my life 

i ended up in divorce , vallu oka reason 

Before judging me , step into my situation and go through the pain I went and then salaha ivu

na exps toh Nenu cheppa, Nuvu wife n kid toh happyga unav, nikem telustadi Na badha

better u stop reading my posts if they r annoying antegani half knowledge toh judge cheyaku

see i am not judging you. nuvu face chesina situations neeku matrame telusu ..adi pattukuni nuvve generalize chesi salahalu istuntav ikkada...dani valla use enti? nuvu manchiga chuskune in laws ni okarini kuda chudaleda so far? 

[siru]

45 minutes ago, GunturGongura said:

Dangerous ilantollu 

worst parents and they encourage divorce kuda

     expected  

[Batman_fan]

5 minutes ago, nenesuperni said:

Regular is fine. Kani ee case lo more of dharja (luxury) unnecessary things 

koni numbers iste idea vastundi nada ma andariki

[emmantav]

13 minutes ago, nenesuperni said:

Regular is fine. Kani ee case lo more of dharja (luxury) unnecessary things 

idhi alochinchalsindhey

[emmantav]

9 minutes ago, Maryadaramanna said:

Kids..kids ani feel avvaku. parents ni manchiga chusinavadu thana kids ni chooskoda

Today's Job and salary is not static; he'll get a hike...in fact both of u will work good and earn good in the near future 

When you talk of money, it's not for ever; Satyam ramalinga raju who built an empire for 20+ Yrs lost everything in <3 weeks. Live life and be happy 

+1

[TheBrahmabull]

15 minutes ago, mybabyboy said:

seriously money machine ani ela annado emo bhayya TS....maa dad 60+ and still working...i send the money every month and sometimes they ask me to send extra any month since they have additional expenses like major repairs at home or other stuff neither me or my wife never felt like they are treating me like money machine....my mom and dad have sacrificed everything for me and my siblings and whatever i send them will never be enough compared to their sacrifice....i explained everything about my family to my wife while we were dating and how hard my parents struggled to make us reach this position and how big is my family and what responsibilities I have.  

manchiga cheppinav ... edhava -ve comments tho -vevity ekkuva ayipothundi...

[siru]

43 minutes ago, bharatheeyudu said:

GG gud pal10ge mogodu/mogudu leka samajam ila thayarrayyindhi....one shud know how to respect male species.

 

hu said women r equal to men...they r beyond but in different perspective

eloborate pls..i didnt understand

[emmantav]

6 minutes ago, Srimantudu said:

see i am not judging you. nuvu face chesina situations neeku matrame telusu ..adi pattukuni nuvve generalize chesi salahalu istuntav ikkada...dani valla use enti? nuvu manchiga chuskune in laws ni okarini kuda chudaleda so far? 

GG r u married?

[idibezwada]

52 minutes ago, GunturGongura said:

Dangerous ilantollu 

worst parents and they encourage divorce kuda

ohh yaa...

[Srimantudu]

Just now, emmantav said:

GG r u married?

quote GG and ask 

[siru]

Just now, emmantav said:

GG r u married?

 

[samaja_varagamana]

1 hour ago, nenesuperni said:

Abbai spends money on parents and sisters. Parents see him only like money machine and bitches about him outside. abbai has lots of debts and still spending foolishly on parents instead of saving. He also using her wife salary and taking loans on her name too. how should wife deal..

 

foolishly = spending on things which are not required or luxury. appulu unai ani ah abai chepaledu parents ki. 

baa ela unav..........idhi me freind chepidna I mean amai side issue la undi once try to find out form boys side. parents bitch cheyadam enti baa sontha koduku gurinchi . But anyways abai need to open up with parents and discuss the issue and should not bring wife in middle. Wife should deal in such a way that abai inka amai meeda depend avakunda cheyali and she should ask him to talk openly to parents..................inka parents ardam chesko kunte lyt........konni rojlu dabbulu papadam apeyadam better.