rapchik Posted March 7, 2017 Report Share Posted March 7, 2017 Hello,I am 26 yrs old and got married 2 months back. I was in a relationship with a girl for 2 years. We lived together abroad as long as we were studying and it was perfect to me. Then the course finished and we had to return back to India (living in neighbouring cities thereon). We both got to working and soon my family found a match for me. Then started the emotional drama and all the pressurizing. My family was just not ready to take NO for an answer. I kept trying to avoid it. But i was pressured into getting engaged....to leave my job... to be married a year later. I still kept trying to break it off but my family just didnt care. For them the guy is a hero! They are totally in love with him. I felt so miserable. My girlfriend was devastated as well. The guy eventually understood that i didnt want to get married but he said he couldn't break it off either since the families are involved blah blah....I am married now, moved to a different country to live with my husband and I am still in love with my girl. She loves me too. I feel so depressed in this marriage. I've even told my husband that i am not happy at all about this marriage and i feel disgusted if he ever tries to come close to me. I keep thinking about leaving him and getting a good job as i am professionally qualified and live with my girlfriend. The friends who know about me and my girl keep saying that I should give this marriage a try and if still I am not happy then I can ofcourse walk out. Walking out is going to be another war with the families! I feel so miserable and can't focus on anything. The only thing which makes me feel better is my girlfriend and we just love each other so much. I don't feel attracted to my husband at all. He is a nice understanding guy but I can't come out to him and tell him the truth else he'll ofcourse use it against me. I dont know what to do! I'll die like this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Myth1 Posted March 7, 2017 Report Share Posted March 7, 2017 Vammo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mtkr Posted March 7, 2017 Report Share Posted March 7, 2017 idedo theda case laa undhee!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rapchik Posted March 7, 2017 Author Report Share Posted March 7, 2017 Just now, mtkr said: idedo theda case laa undhee!!! Just now, mtkr said: idedo theda case laa undhee!!! Theda ani payana Title lone vesina kada Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
4Vikram Posted March 7, 2017 Report Share Posted March 7, 2017 papam pilla Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TOM_BHAYYA Posted March 7, 2017 Report Share Posted March 7, 2017 21 minutes ago, rapchik said: Hello,I am 26 yrs old and got married 2 months back. I was in a relationship with a girl for 2 years. We lived together abroad as long as we were studying and it was perfect to me. Then the course finished and we had to return back to India (living in neighbouring cities thereon). We both got to working and soon my family found a match for me. Then started the emotional drama and all the pressurizing. My family was just not ready to take NO for an answer. I kept trying to avoid it. But i was pressured into getting engaged....to leave my job... to be married a year later. I still kept trying to break it off but my family just didnt care. For them the guy is a hero! They are totally in love with him. I felt so miserable. My girlfriend was devastated as well. The guy eventually understood that i didnt want to get married but he said he couldn't break it off either since the families are involved blah blah....I am married now, moved to a different country to live with my husband and I am still in love with my girl. She loves me too. I feel so depressed in this marriage. I've even told my husband that i am not happy at all about this marriage and i feel disgusted if he ever tries to come close to me. I keep thinking about leaving him and getting a good job as i am professionally qualified and live with my girlfriend. The friends who know about me and my girl keep saying that I should give this marriage a try and if still I am not happy then I can ofcourse walk out. Walking out is going to be another war with the families! I feel so miserable and can't focus on anything. The only thing which makes me feel better is my girlfriend and we just love each other so much. I don't feel attracted to my husband at all. He is a nice understanding guy but I can't come out to him and tell him the truth else he'll ofcourse use it against me. I dont know what to do! I'll die like this. FEMALE_SUFFERER Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rapchik Posted March 7, 2017 Author Report Share Posted March 7, 2017 Just now, TOM_BHAYYA said: FEMALE_SUFFERER U male innocent sufferer..idharu kalisthe racha racha auntadhi..help her man Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
4Vikram Posted March 7, 2017 Report Share Posted March 7, 2017 16 minutes ago, rapchik said: Theda ani payana Title lone vesina kada what is wrong in that ani adagadalchukuna adhyaksha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Myth1 Posted March 7, 2017 Report Share Posted March 7, 2017 Just now, 4Vikram said: what is wrong in that ani adagadalchukuna adhyaksha Thelsi kuda vere vallani pelli cheskotam Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rapchik Posted March 7, 2017 Author Report Share Posted March 7, 2017 Just now, 4Vikram said: what is wrong in that ani adagadalchukuna adhyaksha Wrong em ledhu....This is open world...Alanti open world lo u need to let the other person know wat u r feeling..instead of marrying and fooling him Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rapchik Posted March 7, 2017 Author Report Share Posted March 7, 2017 Just now, Myth1 said: Thelsi kuda vere vallani pelli cheskotam yep Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
4Vikram Posted March 7, 2017 Report Share Posted March 7, 2017 Just now, Myth1 said: Thelsi kuda vere vallani pelli cheskotam jabardasthi dided ani fafa telling no man Just now, rapchik said: Wrong em ledhu....This is open world...Alanti open world lo u need to let the other person know wat u r feeling..instead of marrying and fooling him she already tolded no and intlo pressure ani kuda telling no fafam filla Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TOM_BHAYYA Posted March 7, 2017 Report Share Posted March 7, 2017 1 minute ago, 4Vikram said: what is wrong in that ani adagadalchukuna adhyaksha Mee association lo idhantha common anukunta ga Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Myth1 Posted March 7, 2017 Report Share Posted March 7, 2017 1 minute ago, 4Vikram said: jabardasthi dided ani fafa telling no man she already tolded no and intlo pressure ani kuda telling no fafam filla So intlo vallu okavela vishayam thelsi... aa lover ni marchipomani force chesthe marchipodha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
4Vikram Posted March 7, 2017 Report Share Posted March 7, 2017 17 minutes ago, TOM_BHAYYA said: Mee association lo idhantha common anukunta ga ma association lo ledu kaani mem unde samajam lo common ani @ronitreddy vuncle chepamanad 14 minutes ago, Myth1 said: So intlo vallu okavela vishayam thelsi... aa lover ni marchipomani force chesthe marchipodha odhala nai ani bola naa man Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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