snake_ Posted March 20, 2017 Report Posted March 20, 2017 I met one girl for an arranged marriage through my family. I am 33+ and she is 25+. I understand this is a considerable age difference for marriage in modern age. But I will highlight the positive and negatives.PositiveWe both work in the same IT company. I am outside India from last four years and she is in India.We really like each other very much.We both are from same caste.We both understand each other very well.She is 5' 7" and I am 6 ft. Se we are compatible hereWe both are from the same background and same state, same language.We both have almost similar mind-set.I don't drink/smoke, even tea, coffee.We both are not that religious.I was not from good background but exceled in life by hard work.She is very sweet and caring person.NegativeBig Age differenceI am experiencing hair fall and it is visible that I will get bald in 5-10 years.Do you guys consider this relation should go ahead. What will be the impact post marriage for such big age difference? Quote
Android_Halwa Posted March 20, 2017 Report Posted March 20, 2017 Nah..no effect as long as you come down in in your mature behavior by 2-3 years and if she acts more maturely by 2-3 years... Quote
samprok Posted March 20, 2017 Report Posted March 20, 2017 3 minutes ago, snake_ said: I met one girl for an arranged marriage through my family. I am 33+ and she is 25+. I understand this is a considerable age difference for marriage in modern age. But I will highlight the positive and negatives.PositiveWe both work in the same IT company. I am outside India from last four years and she is in India.We really like each other very much.We both are from same caste.We both understand each other very well.She is 5' 7" and I am 6 ft. Se we are compatible hereWe both are from the same background and same state, same language.We both have almost similar mind-set.I don't drink/smoke, even tea, coffee.We both are not that religious.I was not from good background but exceled in life by hard work.She is very sweet and caring person.NegativeBig Age differenceI am experiencing hair fall and it is visible that I will get bald in 5-10 years.Do you guys consider this relation should go ahead. What will be the impact post marriage for such big age difference? she expects more and you can't deliver (harsh truth) however as long as she can't compare, you are safe.. Go for it.. it's her problem, nuvvu konchem aged ga kanipistav.. and 8 years is not that big of a difference Quote
snake_ Posted March 20, 2017 Author Report Posted March 20, 2017 16 minutes ago, samprok said: she expects more and you can't deliver (harsh truth) however as long as she can't compare, you are safe.. Go for it.. it's her problem, nuvvu konchem aged ga kanipistav.. and 8 years is not that big of a difference Make a recurring deposit for hair transplant.Get married to her. When the time comes,ask her if she likes your balding look.Who knows ,she could be the one who likes huge foreheads.If she says yes.....Buy the sweet woman a big diamond from the transplant money.If she says no,you have your back up transplant stash...Use it to get yourself some nice hair. Quote
samaja_varagamana Posted March 20, 2017 Report Posted March 20, 2017 25 minutes ago, samprok said: she expects more and you can't deliver (harsh truth) however as long as she can't compare, you are safe.. Go for it.. it's her problem, nuvvu konchem aged ga kanipistav.. and 8 years is not that big of a difference lol dhoni 33 yrs ki kuda captaincy cheyatleda Quote
Bangaruuu Posted March 20, 2017 Report Posted March 20, 2017 1 hour ago, snake_ said: I met one girl for an arranged marriage through my family. I am 33+ and she is 25+. I understand this is a considerable age difference for marriage in modern age. But I will highlight the positive and negatives.PositiveWe both work in the same IT company. I am outside India from last four years and she is in India.We really like each other very much.We both are from same caste.We both understand each other very well.She is 5' 7" and I am 6 ft. Se we are compatible hereWe both are from the same background and same state, same language.We both have almost similar mind-set.I don't drink/smoke, even tea, coffee.We both are not that religious.I was not from good background but exceled in life by hard work.She is very sweet and caring person.NegativeBig Age differenceI am experiencing hair fall and it is visible that I will get bald in 5-10 years.Do you guys consider this relation should go ahead. What will be the impact post marriage for such big age difference? Don't spoil Men value in the society and I don't know how you ppl are born afriading for a women. If this doesn't workout marrry second time .Life is short and don't think much what ever 4 hairs you present have will be lost even Quote
snake_ Posted March 20, 2017 Author Report Posted March 20, 2017 12 minutes ago, Bangaruuu said: Don't spoil Men value in the society and I don't know how you ppl are born afriading for a women. If this doesn't workout marrry second time .Life is short and don't think much what ever 4 hairs you present have will be lost even 1 hour ago, snake_ said: Make a recurring deposit for hair transplant.Get married to her. When the time comes,ask her if she likes your balding look.Who knows ,she could be the one who likes huge foreheads.If she says yes.....Buy the sweet woman a big diamond from the transplant money.If she says no,you have your back up transplant stash...Use it to get yourself some nice hair. Quote
Chaplin Posted July 6, 2017 Report Posted July 6, 2017 On 3/19/2017 at 8:48 PM, karthikn said: >5 years divorce chances very high Ok Quote
holycow205 Posted September 10, 2017 Report Posted September 10, 2017 @snake_ Neeku nachindi cheyyi bhaiya... ikkada adigi waste...andaru lavadalo suggestions istaru... when you both like each other, age shouldn't matter. Moreover, you need to remember one thing....Girls are more matured than men... 25 lone 28 or above laga alochistaru...yeah, konni differences untai but those are not your disadvatanges. you just need some time to adjust...that's it. Quote
Kalam_Youtheman Posted September 10, 2017 Report Posted September 10, 2017 On 3/19/2017 at 11:23 PM, snake_ said: I met one girl for an arranged marriage through my family. I am 33+ and she is 25+. I understand this is a considerable age difference for marriage in modern age. But I will highlight the positive and negatives. Positive We both work in the same IT company. I am outside India from last four years and she is in India. We really like each other very much. We both are from same caste. We both understand each other very well. She is 5' 7" and I am 6 ft. Se we are compatible here We both are from the same background and same state, same language. We both have almost similar mind-set. I don't drink/smoke, even tea, coffee. We both are not that religious. I was not from good background but exceled in life by hard work. She is very sweet and caring person. Negative Big Age difference I am experiencing hair fall and it is visible that I will get bald in 5-10 years. Do you guys consider this relation should go ahead. What will be the impact post marriage for such big age difference? height age weight guage doesnt matter.. all that matters is... relationship and trust Quote
rokalibanda Posted September 10, 2017 Report Posted September 10, 2017 On 19/03/2017 at 10:23 PM, snake_ said: I met one girl for an arranged marriage through my family. I am 33+ and she is 25+. I understand this is a considerable age difference for marriage in modern age. But I will highlight the positive and negatives. Positive We both work in the same IT company. I am outside India from last four years and she is in India. We really like each other very much. We both are from same caste. We both understand each other very well. She is 5' 7" and I am 6 ft. Se we are compatible here We both are from the same background and same state, same language. We both have almost similar mind-set. I don't drink/smoke, even tea, coffee. We both are not that religious. I was not from good background but exceled in life by hard work. She is very sweet and caring person. Negative Big Age difference I am experiencing hair fall and it is visible that I will get bald in 5-10 years. Do you guys consider this relation should go ahead. What will be the impact post marriage for such big age difference? Kastam vidili 10gu battataloda Quote
iddaritho Posted September 10, 2017 Report Posted September 10, 2017 if ur in doubt dont get married future , you will get full batta than you will think ur wife doesnt love u due to batta and than start doubting ur wife and finally she will leave u for some pne who has hair Quote
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