Ikkada unde desi kids andaru enduku late maatladataru..

[Srimantudu]

1 minute ago, chittimallu2 said:

ikkada pratheedi hadavidi chestharu... kontha mandi ki fast ga vasthai kontha mandi ki slow ga vasthai....  its alright dont worry.

oil posthe cheppinattu exact ga thiragadaniki ivi machines kaavu... 

spl needs required ani stamp estaru doctors..school lo admission ki doc cert kavalanukunta ikkada

[vijrmc]

1 minute ago, chittimallu2 said:

why does it matter if they start talking at 2 or 3 or 4 or 5?

We have a set of mile stones that were defined based on research studies. These are standardized guidelines which gives the doctors a caution/warning bell. But each kid is different in real world. We should not scare the parents. I try to educate them as much as I can.  4-5 years is definitely significant delay but 3 years, I would wait and suggest to spend much time with the kid and teach him slowly. My niece started talking sentences at the age of 5 years (born here in US), which is significant delay but she is absolutely fine now -10 year old and going to school and excels in education and extracurricular activities...as I said, if the rest of the things are looking good, I would wait...

[mastercheif]

13 minutes ago, vijrmc said:

why should I have to lie here? I am just an observer in this forum since 2008 and enjoy the postings and sometimes responded when people talk about USMLE exams, or anything related to my field etc

swathi reddy interview chusi cheppu man.. she is good or not 

[krishnote3]

23 minutes ago, vijrmc said:

I am a psychiatrist and my son is 2 y n 4 months old. He speaks small sentences. I found this topic interesting. The best explanation, I can give is because we speak telugu at home and everyone speaks English outside. Most of the things they see outside are different from the things they see at home. That creates a lot of confusion to them. We want our kids to know everything about Indian culture, while living here. I spend at least 1-2 hours with my son and teach him the words in both languages. Now he knows 1-20 numbers in telugu and English. He can tell body parts like face, nose, etc in both languages. He understands our instructions in telugu and at the same time, I did not get any remarks from his day care with his speech or communication. Me and my wife put the extra effort everyday to avoid the confusion. For 2 years age, he speaks (though not much but definitely remarkable- even he hums most of the telugu songs and English rhymes) and understands both languages. I think, the problem is with us, not with kids. We all are busy with work and will be tired by the end of the day but if you can put that small extra effort, that makes the things better.

With regard to labeling them with Autism, I totally agree with your sister. Lot of American doctors like to label kids with autism. I witnessed that so many times in my practice. I would says it's around 20-30%, based on my little experience in psychiatry.

Spend time with kids, they learn easily.

Good one ..what you have said is correct ..most of the families are facing this problem.I think the tips you gave are really helpful.

[Batman_fan]

39 minutes ago, Kalam_Youtheman said:

basically ninnu bakra chesthaadu anamataa.... u became bakra rey 

7-8 years old kids ki ilanti ideas ela vastunayi ani na doubt. nenu vadi parents ki chepte mala vaa parents ma vodki oka app konlekapoyadu ane rakam

manakenduku ani lite tesukoni veladam taginchesa

anyway, problem is US lo vunde kids ki garabam ekkuva chestunaru or work pressure lo proper care tesukodam marchipotunaru ani na feeling

[Batman_fan]

26 minutes ago, vijrmc said:

I am a psychiatrist and my son is 2 y n 4 months old. He speaks small sentences. I found this topic interesting. The best explanation, I can give is because we speak telugu at home and everyone speaks English outside. Most of the things they see outside are different from the things they see at home. That creates a lot of confusion to them. We want our kids to know everything about Indian culture, while living here. I spend at least 1-2 hours with my son and teach him the words in both languages. Now he knows 1-20 numbers in telugu and English. He can tell body parts like face, nose, etc in both languages. He understands our instructions in telugu and at the same time, I did not get any remarks from his day care with his speech or communication. Me and my wife put the extra effort everyday to avoid the confusion. For 2 years age, he speaks (though not much but definitely remarkable- even he hums most of the telugu songs and English rhymes) and understands both languages. I think, the problem is with us, not with kids. We all are busy with work and will be tired by the end of the day but if you can put that small extra effort, that makes the things better.

With regard to labeling them with Autism, I totally agree with your sister. Lot of American doctors like to label kids with autism. I witnessed that so many times in my practice. I would says it's around 20-30%, based on my little experience in psychiatry.

Spend time with kids, they learn easily.

[vijrmc]

2 minutes ago, mastercheif said:

swathi reddy interview chusi cheppu man.. she is good or not 

ha ha.. I read the news but never watched the videos on that news...will do ..

[mastercheif]

Just now, vijrmc said:

ha ha.. I read the news but never watched the videos on that news...will do ..

DB lo some people ki nijanga psychiatrist help awasaram. can you identify them?

[Kalam_Youtheman]

2 minutes ago, Batman_fan said:

7-8 years old kids ki ilanti ideas ela vastunayi ani na doubt. nenu vadi parents ki chepte mala vaa parents ma vodki oka app konlekapoyadu ane rakam

manakenduku ani lite tesukoni veladam taginchesa

anyway, problem is US lo vunde kids ki garabam ekkuva chestunaru ani na feeling

Yea garabam point correct also..... paina evvaro cheppinatttu india laaaga US undhaaadhu crowd thakkuva... mana vaaaly daycare lo veyyyaruu paisal waste endhuku ani though wife works they will hire master students oka $600 lo ayyopothundhi ani....sarigga thinaaaru sarigga matlaadaaaru....

[vijrmc]

Just now, mastercheif said:

DB lo some people ki nijanga psychiatrist help awasaram. can you identify them?

Please don't drag me into that.. I follow the forum almost everyday if I can but it's all for fun...I never took it serious (disco on politics and movies)..we all think and act based on our background/growing up...that's what I can say

[mastercheif]

6 minutes ago, vijrmc said:

Please don't drag me into that.. I follow the forum almost everyday if I can but it's all for fun...I never took it serious (disco on politics and movies)..we all think and act based on our background/growing up...that's what I can say

[Srimantudu]

11 minutes ago, mastercheif said:

DB lo some people ki nijanga psychiatrist help awasaram. can you identify them?

[Batman_fan]

9 minutes ago, vijrmc said:

Please don't drag me into that.. I follow the forum almost everyday if I can but it's all for fun...I never took it serious (disco on politics and movies)..we all think and act based on our background/growing up...that's what I can say

 

2 minutes ago, mastercheif said:

indirect ga DB oka comedy nuvu enduku seriou tesukuntunav ani Doctor garu anaru vuncle. Doctor chepindi vinu

[KATHRI]

1 hour ago, JambaKrantu said:

Ninna colleague intiki lunch ki vella.. 3 year old son just basic worlds like mummy daddy tappa em maatladatledu.. My sister's son in Chicago is also the same way. He is 3 years 3 months now. He can only say some basic things.. My sister is a little worried but other people are saying that almost all the desi kids in the US are like this. India lo maa brother's son he is 3 but he will tell me a whole story on phone. Enduku ikkada unde mana desi kids 4 varaku maatladaru.. Just wondering..

bayya how long your collegue and his wife spend time with kid? and how much time the kid spends time watching/playing on tablet.

 

Find out these two and you will have your answer

[k2s]

1 hour ago, Prabhas_Fan said:

house teesi @k2s thatha na 

Desis dont know how to extend talk man... so i aint that one