H1b returned to India and wife commits suicide.

[tennisluvr]

1 minute ago, Android_Halwa said:

Yeah, Thats the problem. last few years lo chala ekuvaindi India la ie social stigmata.

Recently, My aunt asked me if I had already bought the house in US. The first question should be asked is to whether I have plans to stay here or go back.

another family friend asked me what will I do after going back to India ? As if I cannot do anything in India//

another cousin when I said i'm planning to head back, then he assumed I'm going back as I have troubles with visa here..

O ochi social media lo share chestha untaru Modi gaaru idannaru vaallu adannaru make in India blah blah blah. They complain about "brain drain" but if you are interested in going back, they look at you as if you were a loser that couldn't make it big in the West. 

Mari intha BC mentality pettukuni why do you expect anything else apart from brain drain ante no answer. Malli US lo unnollu India pothe matram camera lu, Ipad lu ivanni kavali. LOL. I guess the hypocrisy of Indians is not something they can even attempt to see through. 

[tables]

1 hour ago, dasara_bullodu said:

US ravatanike minimum 2 yrs solid ga prepare ayyi untam... ippudu vere country ki malli entha prepare avvali ? daniki time unda ? family unna valla situation enti ?

vaadu 8 years US lo unnadu ante mari tinataniki lekunda aithe undadu kada..... might be koncham simple life untadi.... oka 3,4 years adjust avute anta set right aipotadi. adedo US lo untene life inka ekkada brathakelm annattu suicide endi ??

[dasara_bullodu]

8 minutes ago, tables said:

vaadu 8 years US lo unnadu ante mari tinataniki lekunda aithe undadu kada..... might be koncham simple life untadi.... oka 3,4 years adjust avute anta set right aipotadi. adedo US lo untene life inka ekkada brathakelm annattu suicide endi ??

I think children would be prime reason, they don't look like toddlers and are entering competitive age group.

India lo manchi education ante prices rod digutayi... US lo enni savings chesina investments lekapothe chukkale... at the same time vere countries lo jobs ravalante kooda easy kadu. Thokkalo vere city lo job ravatledu because of internal reference, vere country lo antha easy ga em vastundi

[lazybugger]

6 hours ago, ravana said:

"It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent that survives. It is the one that is most adaptable to change". 

hmm... it may sound profound/intelligent, but this has nothing to do with the current topic in the thread.

 

[ICANWIN]

8 minutes ago, dasara_bullodu said:

I think children would be prime reason, they don't look like toddlers and are entering competitive age group.

India lo manchi education ante prices rod digutayi... US lo enni savings chesina investments lekapothe chukkale... at the same time vere countries lo jobs ravalante kooda easy kadu. Thokkalo vere city lo job ravatledu because of internal reference, vere country lo antha easy ga em vastundi

I think he meant suicide is too much. At least i feel so. Edi emaina inta chinna daniki chachipovadam doesn't sound right if that is real reason

[Merabharathmahan]

2 hours ago, tennisluvr said:

India is heavily dependent on Western nations for projects. Once they start becoming more conservative, end of progress there. Our belief in XYZ god won't guarantee any progress. 

Service based employment kakunda product based companies india lo start ayinappude india vere desham IT jobs meeda aadharapadadu. India lo money chala undi but people business petti risk cheyaru, they just put in banks or buy lands n homes. Money invest chesi business lu petti inko 10 ppl ki employment isthe then our own jobs untay. Eppudu chusina job ela kottali ane but job ela create cheyali anedi alochincharu even rich kids. 

[yaman]

On 5/5/2017 at 4:42 PM, princeofheaven said:

22 yrs akkade unnam kada kaka, worst case i think we will be fine if we go to India

Financial freedom, multiple options, independent living, affordability, quality of life, self satisfaction.. ila enno  manam vuhinchukunnavi , konni konnavi ikkada vuntai. avi India lo andariki dorakaka povahchu.

[desiboys]

1 hour ago, Merabharathmahan said:

Service based employment kakunda product based companies india lo start ayinappude india vere desham IT jobs meeda aadharapadadu. India lo money chala undi but people business petti risk cheyaru, they just put in banks or buy lands n homes. Money invest chesi business lu petti inko 10 ppl ki employment isthe then our own jobs untay. Eppudu chusina job ela kottali ane but job ela create cheyali anedi alochincharu even rich kids. 

India kooda brazil, mexico laga authundi future lo...kontha mandi rich people untaru chala mandi poor people and crime ekkuva authundi

oka saari ga unemployed population perigithe future lo  ee lands, properties save cheyyalevu. 

[lazybugger]

2 minutes ago, desiboys said:

India kooda brazil, mexico laga authundi future lo...kontha mandi rich people untaru chala mandi poor people and crime ekkuva authundi

oka saari ga unemployed population perigithe future lo  ee lands, properties save cheyyalevu. 

absolutely.

padithey gaani telidu. starbucks lo koorchoni sollu cheppey vaallantha middle class ani cheppukuntunnaru India lo. actual middle class ki mandipothundi.

vaallakey kashtaalu unnattu, cutting. India is poised for a very horrible future.

[lazybugger]

denikaina politicians unnaru ga blame esesi, chethulu dhulupu koni ellipovachu.

actual problems ni solve cheyyaru. actual problems ni acknowledge kooda cheyyaru.

[desiboys]

1 minute ago, lazybugger said:

absolutely.

padithey gaani telidu. starbucks lo koorchoni sollu cheppey vaallantha middle class ani cheppukuntunnaru India lo. actual middle class ki mandipothundi.

vaallakey kashtaalu unnattu, cutting. India is poised for a very horrible future.

India luck emiti ante usa,europe offshore chese jobs vere low cost countries lo cheyyadaniki skills, english antha ga levu. philippines, ukraine competition isthunnayi slow ga. kani avi entha varaku success authayi anedi chudali

[dasara_bullodu]

2 hours ago, Merabharathmahan said:

Service based employment kakunda product based companies india lo start ayinappude india vere desham IT jobs meeda aadharapadadu. India lo money chala undi but people business petti risk cheyaru, they just put in banks or buy lands n homes. Money invest chesi business lu petti inko 10 ppl ki employment isthe then our own jobs untay. Eppudu chusina job ela kottali ane but job ela create cheyali anedi alochincharu even rich kids. 

Rich kids India lone undaru asalu

[dasara_bullodu]

50 minutes ago, desiboys said:

India luck emiti ante usa,europe offshore chese jobs vere low cost countries lo cheyyadaniki skills, english antha ga levu. philippines, ukraine competition isthunnayi slow ga. kani avi entha varaku success authayi anedi chudali

Plates are changing English meeda dependency antha ga ledu ani naaku anipistondi. But Ukraine is giving  heavy competition to s/w industry ... asalke naatu Russian gallu manam tattukolem valla mundu.. best path is to heavily invest in startups and create jobs in India. Tie ups with East instead of West ... West vallu 5 yrs poyaka malli mana daggarake vastaru endukante vere countries mana range chakiri cheyyav ganuka appati daka gammuga undali

 

Biggest bokka is our sub standard universities ... either sold for money or stuck in reservations and red tape

[dasara_bullodu]

 

1 hour ago, yaman said:

Financial freedom, multiple options, independent living, affordability, quality of life, self satisfaction.. ila enno  manam vuhinchukunnavi , konni konnavi ikkada vuntai. avi India lo andariki dorakaka povahchu.

 

Quality of life tappiste migitavi anni India lo bhesugga dorukutayi ...US lo pettina effort India lo pedithe

[desiboys]

6 minutes ago, dasara_bullodu said:

Plates are changing English meeda dependency antha ga ledu ani naaku anipistondi. But Ukraine is giving  heavy competition to s/w industry ... asalke naatu Russian gallu manam tattukolem valla mundu.. best path is to heavily invest in startups and create jobs in India. Tie ups with East instead of West ... West vallu 5 yrs poyaka malli mana daggarake vastaru endukante vere countries mana range chakiri cheyyav ganuka appati daka gammuga undali

 

Biggest bokka is our sub standard universities ... either sold for money or stuck in reservations and red tape

India lo andaru savings and pillalu valla manavallu ki entha dabbu sampadinchi pettali ane alonchane thappa start up's, ivy leagues ilanti alonchanalu undavu.

oka vela startup's pettina dani success rate antha ga ledu India lo