frustrated due to family

[Akkumm_Bakkumm]

51 minutes ago, iddaritho said:

JUST VENTING OUT 

 

India trip is full of frustration , fights between my parents and my in laws resulting in fight between me and my wife 

my fil is farmer but has some good lands around hyderabad where he does farming , he has only two daughters , he is supposed to divide the property and register it to daughters , but he has been postponing it , recently he brought a  very luxurious car , lots of gold to my MiL and my wife's sister . He decided to do pooja this year for 5 days spending in lakhs , since we are in India , they have called me to attend , but it was very informal. 

but my wife sister husband , that guy is managing every thing for pooja and he is very close to my FIL , I am not that close with my FIL or MIL as i come to India every 1 or 2 years and spend most of time at my parents house rather than in village. 

some one in my Fil family has spoken to my parents and told them that my co brother is trying to take advantage and get good lands and leave the less valuable lands to me , as i am in US and earning more than them. 

Now my parents wanted me to not attend  Pooja and ask for settlement of land when i am in India  my wife is very upset about it , she says settle your property first , my parents re middle class and have only one house .

I can't hurt my parents saying that this is not right time , and can't hurt my wife saying that i can't attend the pooja. 

my parents keep complaining that my in laws don't respect them , and my FIL did not attend my Grand mother death ceremony , so my dad is very angry on him and keeps fighting with me about not getting  close to them. 

 

Chiraku denguthundi , enduku India ke vachana ani e godavala tho , happy ga US lo e godava lekunda untunde 

 

 

 

 

Money or lands vati gurinchi vellakudadu ante adi correct kadu. Favouratism chupistunnaru ante adi ni control lo ledu. It is to be dealt by your wife. But mi grand ma chanipothe kuda raledu ante its not good man. Pelliki pilavakapothe tappu kani chavulaki pilavakunna vellali adi samskaram. 

[kiladi bullodu]

10 minutes ago, Quickgun_murugan said:

Nee yavva...

Super post @kiladi bullodu ROFL 

edo pedollam alludu

[Quickgun_murugan]

Just now, kiladi bullodu said:

edo pedollam alludu

[Quickgun_murugan]

2 minutes ago, Akkumm_Bakkumm said:

Money or lands vati gurinchi vellakudadu ante adi correct kadu. Favouratism chupistunnaru ante adi ni control lo ledu. It is to be dealt by your wife. But mi grand ma chanipothe kuda raledu ante its not good man. Pelliki pilavakapothe tappu kani chavulaki pilavakunna vellali adi samskaram. 

veella side kanapadinappudalla aasthulu panchaali antey evadu pothadu man.. Moreover hatred penchadaaniki chaala cheptaru... proofs em undavu ilaanti allegations ki..

[Crazy_Robert]

1 hour ago, iddaritho said:

JUST VENTING OUT 

 

India trip is full of frustration , fights between my parents and my in laws resulting in fight between me and my wife 

my fil is farmer but has some good lands around hyderabad where he does farming , he has only two daughters , he is supposed to divide the property and register it to daughters , but he has been postponing it , recently he brought a  very luxurious car , lots of gold to my MiL and my wife's sister . He decided to do pooja this year for 5 days spending in lakhs , since we are in India , they have called me to attend , but it was very informal. 

but my wife sister husband , that guy is managing every thing for pooja and he is very close to my FIL , I am not that close with my FIL or MIL as i come to India every 1 or 2 years and spend most of time at my parents house rather than in village. 

some one in my Fil family has spoken to my parents and told them that my co brother is trying to take advantage and get good lands and leave the less valuable lands to me , as i am in US and earning more than them. 

Now my parents wanted me to not attend  Pooja and ask for settlement of land when i am in India  my wife is very upset about it , she says settle your property first , my parents re middle class and have only one house .

I can't hurt my parents saying that this is not right time , and can't hurt my wife saying that i can't attend the pooja. 

my parents keep complaining that my in laws don't respect them , and my FIL did not attend my Grand mother death ceremony , so my dad is very angry on him and keeps fighting with me about not getting  close to them. 

 

Chiraku denguthundi , enduku India ke vachana ani e godavala tho , happy ga US lo e godava lekunda untunde 

 

 

 

 

1st thing ammai nunchi vocche money kosam manam ashalu pettukunna galeez untadhi bro...vallu fight cheskovali..manam entha invlove kakunte antha manchidhi.

ammailu fickle minded untaru..konchem theda kodthe mana paina ne case lu pedtharu.. maa family middle class, okkate illu undhi..vallaki asthulu unnayi..silly ga anipinchatle..evadivi vallaki untayi. manaki unna dhantlo manam happy ga undali..manaki kavali anukunte manam sampadhinchukovali. until and unless mee wife meeku support ga undi..thane asthi panchali ani vallaki cheppanantha varaki meeru assal aa topic kuda involve avvodhu..498 A gurthundhi kadha...

vallu adhe chestharu theda kodthe 

[vikuba]

mee grandmother chanipotey mee FIL endhuku velaali? how is tht justifying for this argument.

if u have no expectation from FIL..then everything is cool. but if you are expecting somethin from him then talk to them thru ur wife..else lite

[Akkumm_Bakkumm]

7 minutes ago, Quickgun_murugan said:

veella side kanapadinappudalla aasthulu panchaali antey evadu pothadu man.. Moreover hatred penchadaaniki chaala cheptaru... proofs em undavu ilaanti allegations ki..

Manam kashtapadi sampadinchani dani pina aasha padakudadu in the first place. Vella co brother India lo undi valla manchi chedulu chustunnadu kabatti koncham advantage tiskuntaru and vallu kuda evvataniki interest chupistaru. Ina valla atha mamalu brathiki undagane asthulu panchamani adagadam so cheap and mean man. Unna dantlo happy ga undaka ye anavasaramina tensions enduku and relation padu cheskodam enduku. 

[i_sudigadu]

1 hour ago, iddaritho said:

JUST VENTING OUT 

 

India trip is full of frustration , fights between my parents and my in laws resulting in fight between me and my wife 

my fil is farmer but has some good lands around hyderabad where he does farming , he has only two daughters , he is supposed to divide the property and register it to daughters , but he has been postponing it , recently he brought a  very luxurious car , lots of gold to my MiL and my wife's sister . He decided to do pooja this year for 5 days spending in lakhs , since we are in India , they have called me to attend , but it was very informal. 

but my wife sister husband , that guy is managing every thing for pooja and he is very close to my FIL , I am not that close with my FIL or MIL as i come to India every 1 or 2 years and spend most of time at my parents house rather than in village. 

some one in my Fil family has spoken to my parents and told them that my co brother is trying to take advantage and get good lands and leave the less valuable lands to me , as i am in US and earning more than them. 

Now my parents wanted me to not attend  Pooja and ask for settlement of land when i am in India  my wife is very upset about it , she says settle your property first , my parents re middle class and have only one house .

I can't hurt my parents saying that this is not right time , and can't hurt my wife saying that i can't attend the pooja. 

my parents keep complaining that my in laws don't respect them , and my FIL did not attend my Grand mother death ceremony , so my dad is very angry on him and keeps fighting with me about not getting  close to them. 

 

Chiraku denguthundi , enduku India ke vachana ani e godavala tho , happy ga US lo e godava lekunda untunde 

 

 

 

 

Bhayya update us the end result... what you did and consequences 

[vikuba]

4 minutes ago, Akkumm_Bakkumm said:

Manam kashtapadi sampadinchani dani pina aasha padakudadu in the first place. Vella co brother India lo undi valla manchi chedulu chustunnadu kabatti koncham advantage tiskuntaru and vallu kuda evvataniki interest chupistaru. Ina valla atha mamalu brathiki undagane asthulu panchamani adagadam so cheap and mean man. Unna dantlo happy ga undaka ye anavasaramina tensions enduku and relation padu cheskodam enduku. 

sachinaaka motham 10engipotey em chesthaam. bathki unappdey ..endhi sangathi ani decide chestey better kadha

[Quickgun_murugan]

6 minutes ago, Akkumm_Bakkumm said:

Manam kashtapadi sampadinchani dani pina aasha padakudadu in the first place. Vella co brother India lo undi valla manchi chedulu chustunnadu kabatti koncham advantage tiskuntaru and vallu kuda evvataniki interest chupistaru. Ina valla atha mamalu brathiki undagane asthulu panchamani adagadam so cheap and mean man. Unna dantlo happy ga undaka ye anavasaramina tensions enduku and relation padu cheskodam enduku. 

unnecessary issues ni thala ki ekkichukoni ... unna manchi ni marchipothunnaru.... 

[Quickgun_murugan]

4 minutes ago, vikuba said:

sachinaaka motham 10engipotey em chesthaam. bathki unappdey ..endhi sangathi ani decide chestey better kadha

vallaki old age lo evaru sahayam ga untaru anipisthey vallaki panchestaru... 

america la koosoni eppudo ayidu padi years ki oka sari visit chesi..malli village ante maaku padadu ani buildups ichetollaki ivvaru asthulu.... 

 

aasthi ivvandi ani adiginappuday telusthundi veellu entha help avutharo vallaki old age lo... FIL vallu cant trust them. they have to earn the trust first... 

[Quickgun_murugan]

39 minutes ago, Crazy_Robert said:

1st thing ammai nunchi vocche money kosam manam ashalu pettukunna galeez untadhi bro...vallu fight cheskovali..manam entha invlove kakunte antha manchidhi.

ammailu fickle minded untaru..konchem theda kodthe mana paina ne case lu pedtharu.. maa family middle class, okkate illu undhi..vallaki asthulu unnayi..silly ga anipinchatle..evadivi vallaki untayi. manaki unna dhantlo manam happy ga undali..manaki kavali anukunte manam sampadhinchukovali. until and unless mee wife meeku support ga undi..thane asthi panchali ani vallaki cheppanantha varaki meeru assal aa topic kuda involve avvodhu..498 A gurthundhi kadha...

vallu adhe chestharu theda kodthe 

[samaja_varagamana]

Narudi brathuku natana...
Eeswarudi thalapu ghatana..
Aa renti natta naduma neekendukintha thapana..

[Bhai]

41 minutes ago, i_sudigadu said:

Bhayya update us the end result... what you did and consequences 

[Henley]

2 minutes ago, Bhai said: