frustrated due to family

[TKWQ]

1 hour ago, iddaritho said:

situation exact ga ardham chesukunnavu 

mundu nuyyi venaka goyyi anna type na situation 

nenu atu itu cheppukoleka chiraku tho friend valla intlo untunna 2 days nunchi

Ikkada chala mandi denguthunnatu unnaru but 99% hypocrites , andaru edo oka rakanga meru kaka pothe me parents marriage appudu thesukoni untaru 

na situation we did not know what my wife property are or their worth until they told us after engagement

Marriage before my FIl asked if he should write the property in my Name but i said no need so he said he will write the propety between both daughters after marriage and he told to my parents when they came to give patrika 

After marriage he ignored , we did not ask , now my co brother is planning to start a factory and trying to finance by mortgaging this lands which my FIL brother told my parents

so my parents are pushing very hard to have it written on my wife name before everything goes under loan 

my wife doesnt want to ask her parents and is giving push back.

 

So i am the person who is in the center and a situation now where i cant hurt either party 

My First goal is taking my parents to pooja second talk to my inlaws in front of my parents 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

You will be surprised at the number of people who don't expect anything from their parents or in laws.

You have indicated you did not know of their wealth till you got engaged. So no problem there.Tell your parents ,you and your wife will work things out on your own with her parents. 

Your father in law did offer to write the property for you before marriage, meaning he did not have any ulterior motives. But life has it's own weird ways. Your co-brother is closer to him, and your father in law will naturally feel inclined to give him more. And think of it, her parents also need to look after themselves. Retirement costs are rising everywhere.

Just because you are under pressure from your parents, don't pressurize your wife to get property from her parents.It may not be good for your relationship in the long term. 

Wish you luck!

 

[BaabuBangaram]

andhuke cheppedhi pelli ayina ventane registration cheyinchukovali pasupu kumkam kindha apppudu registration fees thagguthayi....

[sandie]

55 minutes ago, Unityunity said:

Aunty nuvvu super.  Nuvu chala planned ga vunnatuvunnavu..

Antee both sides issues undavv gaa.

parents ki aa age lo insecure feeling untundhemo.. ekkade unna ammai ki ekkuva property evvakapothee manalni sariggaa chudaru ani. Vaalla point of view kuda correct ee ga.. aaa registration pelli time lo anukunna property ee echesthee malli question chese scope undedhi kaadhu  ani naa opinion

[Damon]

4 minutes ago, sandie said:

Antee both sides issues undavv gaa.

parents ki aa age lo insecure feeling untundhemo.. ekkade unna ammai ki ekkuva property evvakapothee manalni sariggaa chudaru ani. Vaalla point of view kuda correct ee ga.. aaa registration pelli time lo anukunna property ee echesthee malli question chese scope undedhi kaadhu  ani naa opinion

Hi aunty 

[sandie]

1 minute ago, Damon said:

Hi aunty 

Hi grany

[Damon]

2 minutes ago, sandie said:

Hi grany

Hi grandmaa ke maa

[sandie]

Just now, Damon said:

Hi grandmaa ke maa

Hi jeji

[Damon]

1 minute ago, sandie said:

Hi jeji

Hi kaji

 

[Quickgun_murugan]

15 hours ago, k2s said:

 

[Quickgun_murugan]

11 hours ago, BaabuBangaram said:

andhuke cheppedhi pelli ayina ventane registration cheyinchukovali pasupu kumkam kindha apppudu registration fees thagguthayi....

mari nuvvu ammayiki molthadu medalo chain kinda emi rashivvavaa?

[former]

16 hours ago, k2s said:

your wife should talk to her father and settle... not you... that property belongs to your wife... so you be out of this as much as possible. dont expect wife's property. 

if your co-brother is very close to FIL, let him be.. why you listen to 4 ppl words ? you are a guest to their house visiting once a year and will be a guest for ever. dont expect a son treatment. 

Gp