WHY NRI's Not willing to comeback to INDIA WHY? India or USA Best

[musicbuff789]

[b]Only India is better for relatives and family relationships .. that too if we born in India... Other than that... eveything  USA is better....


USA----->System, respect, money, security etc....    If u born in USA.... USA is 100% better than India..... 

India----> corruption, caste, system, Example For example If you need a birth certificate even though u born in same town and grown up for 25 years u have to pay 6K to 10K rs  as a bribe... even, they ask u to come 4 to 8 days... every day.... (happen to my brother for birth certificate) 

many more examples... caste----->  If u r not belong to particular caste... they will treat u disrespect many times happened to many people ...  and caste politics  in government , friends, corporate culture...(Reddy , chowdary, Kapu, vysaa, dalit , madhighaa.)    If congress comes to power, every where u see reddy people in every sector even they r dum as asses.... same as with TDP... 

India-----> Different rules and different benfits based on caste and religion not based on how poor he was....

India------->Education looo reservcation..., Governments jobs looo reservation.........

India-------> If you born in High level caste even though u r poor... u wont get government benefits only ur caste people has to takecare of u...


India---->  Different laws will applied to different kind of people based on his wealth and relationships with political leaders

India------> Politics (coming to politics) only for few people... Who has money ( People dont considered he is murderer , does he involved in any murders before , illegal money, whether he is well educated or not doest nt matter)  Only money plays major role  Example: (Current and Ex-minister both congress and TDP) Misnisters of andhra, Gali Brothers of Karnataka, and Jagan (illegal money))


India----> Difference between states,  They wont treat u has an Indian if u go to other states... unless u know there language.... wars between states due to water(Karanataka and tamilnadu,  karnataka and AP , AP and Maharastra)

India------> Fights and disrespect among people even in one state based on region also...

Many more.... Issues in India... which not resolving from 60 years after Independence.... 

Finally ........................

But still India is growing by its own way (B'coz of youth.... education) Only education is powerful weapon of india...
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[mba]

Unity in diversity annaru..

kaani unity levels thaggipothunnayi..

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[quote author=musicbuff789 link=topic=82487.msg870895#msg870895 date=1279469134]
[b]Only India is better for relatives and family relationships .. that too if we born in India... Other than that... eveything  USA is better....


USA----->System, respect, money, security etc....    If u born in USA.... USA is 100% better than India..... 

India----> corruption, caste, system, Example For example If you need a birth certificate even though u born in same town and grown up for 25 years u have to pay 6K to 10K rs  as a bribe... even, they ask u to come 4 to 8 days... every day.... (happen to my brother for birth certificate) 

many more examples... caste----->  If u r not belong to particular caste... they will treat u disrespect many times happened to many people ...  and caste politics  in government , friends, corporate culture...(Reddy , chowdary, Kapu, vysaa, dalit , madhighaa.)    If congress comes to power, every where u see reddy people in every sector even they r dum as asses.... same as with TDP... 

India-----> Different rules and different benfits based on caste and religion not based on how poor he was....

India------->Education looo reservcation..., Governments jobs looo reservation.........

India-------> If you born in High level caste even though u r poor... u wont get government benefits only ur caste people has to takecare of u...


India---->  Different laws will applied to different kind of people based on his wealth and relationships with political leaders

India------> Politics (coming to politics) only for few people... Who has money ( People dont considered he is murderer , does he involved in any murders before , illegal money, whether he is well educated or not doest nt matter)  Only money plays major role  Example: (Current and Ex-minister both congress and TDP) Misnisters of andhra, Gali Brothers of Karnataka, and Jagan (illegal money))


India----> Difference between states,  They wont treat u has an Indian if u go to other states... unless u know there language.... wars between states due to water(Karanataka and tamilnadu,  karnataka and AP , AP and Maharastra)

India------> Fights and disrespect among people even in one state based on region also...

Many more.... Issues in India... which not resolving from 60 years after Independence.... 

Finally ........................

But still India is growing by its own way (B'coz of youth.... education) Only education is powerful weapon of india...
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Thomas freidman di oka video untundi baa India gurinchi youtube lo....vadu ade cheppadu

" India is making so much of progress while the government is sleeping....Imagine if the government wakes up"

[kingmakers]

&J& &J&

[kick-ass]

Music buff..u r right USA is the best... kani chala factors ni consider cheyali nuvu.. but mana genearation ki US is the best place to live..but manam kuda konchem aged ayithe might b undalemu anukuntaa ikadaa..

[gulananda swami]

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&J& &J&
[/quote] *=: *=: you rock you rock you rock

[gulananda swami]

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Music buff..u r right USA is the best... kani chala factors ni consider cheyali nuvu.. but mana genearation ki US is the best place to live..but manam kuda konchem aged ayithe might b undalemu anukuntaa ikadaa..
[/quote] you rock you rock you rock

[kick-ass]

USA----->System, respect, money, security etc....    If u born in USA.... USA is 100% better than India..... 

system: laws perfect ga untayi ikada
Respect: bongemi kadu notlo ammana boothulu titukuntaru.. but bayata thidithe abuse kinda sue chestharani bayam
money: gud point
Security: antha ledu nuv cchachakla technology use chesi evdu champado ventane kanukuntadu kani..ninnu chamapdam evdu aapaledu..

neeku edo ikada konni beneifts undatam valla ala matladuthunav

[musicbuff789]

[b]I met many green card holders and read many articles about NRI's and mainly Indians who born in USA... not willing to live in India...  Some profesionals tried but they were not able to adjust to there environments... and came back and wrote letters to government to change the work culture in India...


I met many who got green cards and who became citizens went and tried to live for an year... finally they cameback to USA... In my place they are many citizens... who wants to live in USA only... few family went to India and came back....[/b]

[Nellore Pedda reddy]

[quote author=mba link=topic=82487.msg870899#msg870899 date=1279469366]
Unity in diversity annaru..

kaani unity levels thaggipothunnayi..
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Nenaithe India lo ekkada 'Unity in Diversity' choodaledu....Choosindi only 'Diversity' based on Caste, Religion, State etc

[musicbuff789]

[b]Security ----> USA best compared to India... But our Indian media make lot of noise if an single Indian died in USA... promotes that its threat  to Indians.... But the fact is many 1000's of people die in India by robbery , thefts and many more causes....

one person died in USA... all Indian orginsations in USA forward mails to every person 3 or 5 times in USA says robbery happened in gas station ....  a Indian person shot.... need help....  Thats doesnt mean that security is worst in USA...

Rascism......  Everywhere in the world has rascism.... but USA is less compared to other countries...  In different countries they give different names....    In India  they called caste differences ( rich and poor difference also)  region differences and State differences also....







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[Kirak Brats]

mama's meru enta aiyana chepandi .... INDIA IS THE BEST.... &J& &J&

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In a world where all actions have to be justified by hard logical reasoning, there is little room left for ambivalence or dilemma. This is especially true when it comes to NRIs wanting to return to India. The issue of whether to return has been debated and re-debated for years and very few, if any, have really found a general compelling reason one way or the other. This is because it is an extremely complex topic involving economical, cultural and emotional issues. By sharing my personal experience I hope to share some insights in to this complex issue.
There was a time when I, like all my friends in IIT, dreamt of going to the States for higher education, getting a lucrative job and eventually living the so-called American dream. This was 1988. The way to go was to apply to a university. I got in and by August '88 was ready to leave. Very few asked why I was going. The reasons to go were considered perfectly rational - good education, good jobs and a good standard of living - so obvious that they were not even worth asking. No dilemmas.

Like all first generation immigrants, I encountered the usual roadblocks to adjusting in a new country - financial, emotional and cultural. A meager scholarship had to be used for tuition, rent, food as well as once-a-year trip back home. It was hard but there were several people like me and somehow, we all managed to survive. And eventually thrive as we all ended up with good jobs. The emotional adjustment was relatively easier as we got over the initial homesickness. However, the cultural adjustment was a much longer one and ultimately there were very few who was truly at ease with the American culture. The cultural gap is far bigger than what Indians expect before they arrive. For example, our food habits, topics of conversation, ways of recreation were all quite different. But these were all considered the usual hurdles for a first generation immigrant and therefore never questioned.

Time always seems to fly for everyone, but when living a fast-paced American lifestyle this cliché couldn't be truer. With work, home, spouse and kids with no relatives or domestic help, you tend to live Friday to Friday. And before I knew it, I had already lived in America for over a decade. Like all the Indians I knew, except for very few exceptions, I went on to get a green card - a signal that I have finally 'settled down'. Again, this remained largely unquestioned, unchallenged. When asked on rare occasions, I parroted the usual reasons: poor career prospects and living standards in India. Returning was left more as a vague option - to soothe parents and elders in the family - that would be considered if somehow things changed dramatically. No dilemmas.

But like several others, I nurtured a hidden - almost secret - desire to be able to return one day. This was kept close to my heart but whenever I disclosed this to others I ended up getting really confused. What is the rationale behind this, some would ask. Is it to renew family ties or bring up children in an Indian culture? Is it some vague longing for a past that was left long behind? Or worse, is it some far fetched ambition to serve your country and make a positive change? The very idea was often ridiculed. Horror stories of people suffering after moving back were told as proof of this fallacy. Then there were others who were more ambivalent. Their hearts longed to return but they hadn't figured out how. Some of them planned to work for a few more years and then decide - maybe after completing a new degree; maybe after saving a few more dollars; maybe after having kids. It was popularly known as the'X+1 syndrome'. It was so confusing that I would keep debating with myself but rarely bring it up with others.

And yet, the desire to return seemed to grow stronger everyday. It seemed to grow in some irrational corner of my mind which I knew could never be touched by reason. The only way to deal with it, I thought, is to experience it. So one day, I decided to talk to my boss about the possibility of moving to India and setting up a local branch of the US-based company I worked for. He ignored it initially thinking that it was a passing phase. But when I persisted, he listened. I began to plan a business trip to India to assess the best location, the potential risks and rewards and cost of setting up an operation in India. This was December 2001. By April the next year I had already submitted a business plan to my CEO and got it approved. I had to move back to India by June 2002 on a 2-year assignment. We had less than 6 weeks to pack and leave!

Those 6 weeks were one of the most interesting moments in my life. Having endured the 'X+1' syndrome for years, I felt almost shocked to have to move back so suddenly. On one hand I felt like sitting back and contemplating on the huge change that was about to happen. And on the other, I had almost an endless list of things to do - closing accounts, selling cars and furniture, making travel arrangements, getting kids vaccinated and completing all remaining projects at work. And last but not the least, attending farewell parties. There were so many people who came to visit us during these few weeks, it was unbelievable. There were a wide range of reactions - from sadness that we were leaving to rejoicing in the fact that we were returning to India. Many of them mentioned that I was really lucky and given a similar opportunity they would do the same.

But without exception they all asked the big question, WHY. Is it because of family reasons? Or, is it because of the bad job situation in the States? Or, is it because of September 11? It was as if the catastrophic terrorist attacks could be used to justify almost anything. Now, I was in a big dilemma. What if I said I had no hard reasons? What if I said that I was returning to a place where I felt I belonged? What if I said that I was following my heart - for a change? Would that be too vague, I thought. Finally, I decided to dodge the question. I told them it was a unique career opportunity with an option to come back in case things did not work out well. They all nodded. It was the most rational reason I could come up with. It was best to avoid any debates at this stage, I thought. Besides, I knew no hard reasons existed. May be I'll figure it out one day after settling down in India.

Avijit Goswami in Pune

[Sri Krishna]

[quote author=kick-ass link=topic=82487.msg870917#msg870917 date=1279470312]
USA----->System, respect, money, security etc....    If u born in USA.... USA is 100% better than India..... 

system: laws perfect ga untayi ikada
Respect: bongemi kadu notlo ammana boothulu titukuntaru.. but bayata thidithe abuse kinda sue chestharani bayam
money: gud point
Security: antha ledu nuv cchachakla technology use chesi evdu champado ventane kanukuntadu kani..ninnu chamapdam evdu aapaledu..

neeku edo ikada konni beneifts undatam valla ala matladuthunav
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I agree with you

you have to remember one thing that USA got independence in 1776 which means 174 years before indian independence day and moreover no way to say USA is secure ...you are watching lot of killings for just 10 dollars in the streets ....see there good things in usa and also bad things in usa same like india ...you cant compare india with USA ...but india is progressing in its own way ...probably in coming years we will see the developed INDIA ...

I knew lot of people who went INDIA and settled over there and living happily ....

[k2s]

india lo &.,? &.,? &.,?    adey USA lo :finger: :finger: