****Why Ganesha?-Old RGV blogpost****

[krldr871]

[quote author=Duvva Abbulu link=topic=82763.msg873882#msg873882 date=1279578004]
sSa_j@il sSa_j@il sSa_j@il sSa_j@il
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manadi jailu jeevitam ani symbolic ga answr sestunava  @3$% @3$%

[Jeffa]

[quote author=krldr871 link=topic=82763.msg873858#msg873858 date=1279577292]
with all due respect, ne decisions ni inkevaro maarustunte ne decision ela avtundi baa..idhi nt for the sake of argument..oka dantlo compromise ayina relationship kosam kabatti happies antava..
for example ne lanti vaade okadu unnadu..assume, okanoka time lo kathi job vachindi US lo..and avg job india lo vachindi..u love the work in the first case and u wanna go to US..and u wont get this opportunity ever again in ur life..u gf vaddu annadi..undu, ikada untene mana pelli annadi..ok ani manesav..finally she ditched u..so ipudu nuvvu job vadileyadam thappa, ammayini nammadam thappa, ammayi kosam ne decision marchukodam thappa..
[/quote]bayya...inkoncham clarity istanu nenu anukunna daniloo..relationships loo priorities untay and vallu eppudu naa manchi kore valle untaru...sare ippudu aa palana gf no antee....aakkada unna vaadu explain chestadu....which is gud and which is bad...and then go with priority...appatiki aa gf noo antee....then comes priority check of relationship....nee reltionships lo enta mandi nee decision correct antaru and vallevaruu and nxt enta mandi tappu antaru and y and who r they.....ippudu inka valla amma ayyya frnds kuda noo annaru anukoo appudu vaadu nijamgaane aagipothadu...and aa ammay ditch chesina pedda pattinchukodu naalanti vaadu aithe...

[Sneha Chowdary]

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manadi jailu jeevitam ani symbolic ga answr sestunava  @3$% @3$%
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[krldr871]

[quote author=RODEO link=topic=82763.msg873890#msg873890 date=1279578219]
bayya...inkoncham clarity istanu nenu anukunna daniloo..relationships loo priorities untay and vallu eppudu naa manchi kore valle untaru...sare ippudu aa palana gf no antee....aakkada unna vaadu explain chestadu....which is gud and which is bad...and then go with priority...appatiki aa gf noo antee....then comes priority check of relationship....nee reltionships lo enta mandi nee decision correct antaru and vallevaruu and nxt enta mandi tappu antaru and y and who r they.....ippudu inka valla amma ayyya frnds kuda noo annaru anukoo appudu vaadu nijamgaane aagipothadu...and aa ammay ditch chesina pedda pattinchukodu naalanti vaadu aithe...
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Of late, i'm trying to take decisions without considering ANY external factors..purely based on my intuition and based on what i want..and then i'm trying to convince people around me tht it is the right decision..that way, decisions are purely my choices with 0 influence..so even if some thing goes wrong or if i fail in what i do, i would have enjoyed the whole process and at least my choice, my work, my failure..my life..i wanna do this all my life  Dr@w@ Dr@w@ 

[krldr871]

Mamalu u all missed one point..idhi kuda okasari alochinchandi..may be i have a point
fear of failure primarily comes from the thought of not being successful. more than not being successful in ur own terms, it is dependent on how others perceive ur success/failure..because most times we are conscious about what others think about our decisions/opinions etc etc..so i think it stems from what if others mock at me for not passing the course..it is an insult etc etc..i think this plays a bigger role than what we truly feel inside..oka exam rasi andaru fail ayite manam parledu le ankuntam..manam okkate fail ayite thuu na batuku ankuntam..idhi enduku ante, vaallu mana gurinchi emankuntunnaro ane baadha kaadha..
ilantivi fear of failure undi naku..em cheyala ani alochistunnaa..