meeting an old friend isn't always nice.

[uttermost]

okay okay. we're focusing on the wrong part of the story here. lets not talk about addiction and overdose.

[siru]

3 minutes ago, tennisluvr said:

So it's okay for that person to take their life if needed, and we should just accept it. Instead of trying to influence their decision by mentioning irrelevant examples of others to let them live longer and prolong their suffering. That's what I believe. 

the point ur making is valid only if u actually know that person is going to take the xtreme step..

after he comitted suicide she is telling taht he is a coward for doing that..but why didnt she talk him out of it? because we cant read others minds..we can only go so far as the person let us.

 

[siru]

8 minutes ago, uttermost said:

he was my closest friend. and his struggle changed me from a libertarian (american version) to someone not an asshole. still it wasn't enough for me to convince him to go for rehabilitation regularly.

so at any point in ur interactions with him, did it occur to u that he might take take his life?

[4Vikram]

2 hours ago, psycopk said:

then i woke up

19 minutes ago, siru said:

hmmm.. based on what u told about her..she seems to be nice person living the life the way she wants to.

I agree with her opinion on ur deceased friend. Every one has a tragedy..we cant feel  for ourselves

agreed 

[4Vikram]

3 minutes ago, siru said:

the point ur making is valid only if u actually know that person is going to take the xtreme step..

after he comitted suicide she is telling taht he is a coward for doing that..but why didnt she talk him out of it? because we cant read others minds..we can only go so far as the person let us.

 

may be she might not expected something like this from him. 

[Quickgun_murugan]

23 minutes ago, uttermost said:

sex was awesome. there's no story.

[uttermost]

5 minutes ago, siru said:

the point ur making is valid only if u actually know that person is going to take the xtreme step..

after he comitted suicide she is telling taht he is a coward for doing that..but why didnt she talk him out of it? because we cant read others minds..we can only go so far as the person let us.

 

she didn't know that he died until I told her.

[4Vikram]

Just now, uttermost said:

she didn't know that he died until I told her.

Sad man

[Vishwaksena]

2 minutes ago, uttermost said:

she didn't know that he died until I told her.

That kind of detachment make people indifferent. No wonder she wasn't compassionate towards him

[Vishwaksena]

9 minutes ago, siru said:

the point ur making is valid only if u actually know that person is going to take the xtreme step..

after he comitted suicide she is telling taht he is a coward for doing that..but why didnt she talk him out of it? because we cant read others minds..we can only go so far as the person let us.

 

But OD is not suicide. Its not that people want to die

[uttermost]

Just now, Vishwaksena said:

But OD is not suicide. Its not that people want to die

I didn't say suicide. lets not talk about this.

[uttermost]

The crux of the story is - how far apart friends have traveled, even though both of you end up with almost the same ideology, but with completely opposite ways of looking at it.

the difference is so stark, that she left me feeling mad about showing my excitement for even meeting her.

[Thillana]

38 minutes ago, uttermost said:

not overcoming it doesn't diminish a person.

Absolutely but she just presented her perspective . I still dont understand why you got ticked off so much. Was it because of the way she presented her view about the frnd or because she thrashed ur beliefs about society? 

[uttermost]

6 minutes ago, Thillana said:

Absolutely but she just presented her perspective . I still dont understand why you got ticked off so much. Was it because of the way she presented her view about the frnd or because she thrashed ur beliefs about society? 

she basically destroyed me.

[uttermost]

6 minutes ago, Thillana said:

Absolutely but she just presented her perspective . I still dont understand why you got ticked off so much. Was it because of the way she presented her view about the frnd or because she thrashed ur beliefs about society? 

I got ticked off because we were all friends. friends enough to remember names and instances after almost 20yrs.