Being with someone because she loves you a lot

[Ustaad]

My ex loves me a lot. I can always see it. She was willing to sacrifice everything for me. I loved her too. But her long-term health issues, financial burden on me and the fear that I have to compromise a lot, if I want to be with her made me move away from her. 

I realized that I love myself the most. I can't change that. But I fear now that I will never find someone who would love me like how my ex did. 

Should I be selfish and care only about my happiness? Or should I have had compromised and committed myself to help her with her health issues and be by her?

I don't think I can go back to her now. I have burned that bridge may be. I don't want to cause her anymore pain. She just now learning to live without me.

Ippudu, I understand finally what love is and enduku love songs anta hurting aa untayo konta mandiki...

[uttermost]

love is ephemeral. what you feel is a need for companion. you can find another companion if you try.

if you are fixated on one person, you are naive.

[Ustaad]

Just now, uttermost said:

love is ephemeral. what you feel is a need for companion. you can find another companion if you try.

if you are fixated on one person, you are naive.

I understand. May be I just feel alone now. But, I was honestly thinking we were soulmates. Only issue was about how practical our relationship was..

[Bitcoin_Baba]

2 minutes ago, Ustaad said:

My ex loves me a lot. I can always see it. She was willing to sacrifice everything for me. I loved her too. But her long-term health issues, financial burden on me and the fear that I have to compromise a lot, if I want to be with her made me move away from her. 

I realized that I love myself the most. I can't change that. But I fear now that I will never find someone who would love me like how my ex did. 

Should I be selfish and care only about my happiness? Or should I have had compromised and committed myself to help her with her health issues and be by her?

I don't think I can go back to her now. I have burned that bridge may be. I don't want to cause her anymore pain. She just now learning to live without me.

Ippudu, I understand finally what love is and enduku love songs anta hurting aa untayo konta mandiki...

You would have done that if you really loved her. Time will heal everything and anything, melliga time passes by anni set avuthai ekkuva upset avvaku

[uttermost]

Just now, Ustaad said:

I understand. May be I just feel alone now. But, I was honestly thinking we were soulmates. Only issue was about how practical our relationship was..

dude, are you expecting someone to chastise you for leaving a girl, or justify your choice? 

stop talking about in such materialist terms, and then feeling bad for your choice. it doesn't sit right with what you are asking for, pls.

relationships can be based on practicality, or entirely based on hope.

[Ustaad]

3 minutes ago, Bitcoin_Baba said:

You would have done that if you really loved her. Time will heal everything and anything, melliga time passes by anni set avuthai ekkuva upset avvaku

Thanks. That really helps

[uttermost]

Just now, Ustaad said:

Thanks. That really helps

there's no such thing as real love.

[Ustaad]

1 minute ago, uttermost said:

dude, are you expecting someone to chastise you for leaving a girl, or justify your choice? 

stop talking about in such materialist terms, and then feeling bad for your choice. it doesn't sit right with what you are asking for, pls.

relationships can be based on practicality, or entirely based on hope.

No I am not trying to get any kind of response for or against what I did. I just felt like I needed to vent out my thoughts. 

I am not asking for any justification

[Pitta]

1 minute ago, uttermost said:

there's no such thing as real love.

[samaja_varagamana]

1 minute ago, Pitta said:

ochinava love ante egeskuni osthav

[cactus]

17 minutes ago, Ustaad said:

My ex loves me a lot. I can always see it. She was willing to sacrifice everything for me. I loved her too. But her long-term health issues, financial burden on me and the fear that I have to compromise a lot, if I want to be with her made me move away from her. 

I realized that I love myself the most. I can't change that. But I fear now that I will never find someone who would love me like how my ex did. 

Should I be selfish and care only about my happiness? Or should I have had compromised and committed myself to help her with her health issues and be by her?

I don't think I can go back to her now. I have burned that bridge may be. I don't want to cause her anymore pain. She just now learning to live without me.

Ippudu, I understand finally what love is and enduku love songs anta hurting aa untayo konta mandiki...

[KathiRamdaas]

what matters you the most is present. if you love her companion be with her and fcuk the future

[Pitta]

4 minutes ago, samaja_varagamana said:

ochinava love ante egeskuni osthav

[Variety_Pullayya]

emundi keep trying , sync ayyevallu evaroookaru dhorakakunda undaru. dont waste time and dont commit too easily too.

naku bhane ex gfs unnaru...i think i never thot of settling with any of them. kani naa last one , i married her within an year. kontha mandi bhaga sync avtharu ante.

[Ustaad]

5 minutes ago, Variety_Pullayya said:

emundi keep trying , sync ayyevallu evaroookaru dhorakakunda undaru. dont waste time and dont commit too easily too.

naku bhane ex gfs unnaru...i think i never thot of settling with any of them. kani naa last one , i married her within an year. kontha mandi bhaga sync avtharu ante.

Haha, I guess she is my first ex. But this lasted for almost 4 years. Anduke baa disturbed ga undi. Lets hope I find someone special soon