Men and cheating

[Chandralekha]

The other day we had a discussion abt married men and cheating in our break room .  Would like  to know your thoughts . In below scenarios which ones do u consider as cheating 

1. This guy always watches porn like everyday but nothing else , he doesn’t involve in flirting or anything with other women 

2. Flirty msgs , flirty conversations but nothing physical and emotionally  disconnected to wife 

3. Occasionally has sex with strangers, kind of one night stands 

4. Visits SC 

Na colleague lo oka ammey she said she is ok if her husband has one night stand ( because she thinks it’s nothing but women using a dildo wen husband is away , she said she will be totally mad if her husband is emotionally connected to some other women and totally be soulless with her ) inkoka ammey she said even the thought of her husband watching porn will cripple her , she thinks that she is not satisfying her husband ( ento ee addolla picchi ) and that would be her fault that he watches porn or visits SC . 

 

[LordOfMud]

    DKC

[Gains]

7 minutes ago, Chandralekha said:

The other day we had a discussion abt married men and cheating in our break room .  Would like  to know your thoughts . In below scenarios which ones do u consider as cheating 

1. This guy always watches porn like everyday but nothing else , he doesn’t involve in flirting or anything with other women 

2. Flirty msgs , flirty conversations but nothing physical and emotionally  disconnected to wife 

3. Occasionally has sex with strangers, kind of one night stands 

4. Visits SC 

Na colleague lo oka ammey she said she is ok if her husband has one night stand ( because she thinks it’s nothing but women using a dildo wen husband is away , she said she will be totally mad if her husband is emotionally connected to some other women and totally be soulless with her ) inkoka ammey she said even the thought of her husband watching porn will cripple her , she thinks that she is not satisfying her husband ( ento ee addolla picchi ) and that would be her fault that he watches porn or visits SC . 

 

baga acting chesthunnav ada pilla la 

[Babunuvbtechah]

2 minutes ago, Gains said:

baga acting chesthunnav ada pilla la 

Nijanga abbaye antava anna 

[Babunuvbtechah]

Neynu ayitey anne cases lo mogallu cheated aney snta 

[Chandralekha]

11 minutes ago, Babunuvbtechah said:

Nijanga abbaye antava anna 

 

12 minutes ago, Gains said:

baga acting chesthunnav ada pilla la 

Lol .. edho okati anukondee ... asal questionnaires ki answer cheyande ,I am keen to know what men think wen they cheat and how do they justify 

[Chandralekha]

9 minutes ago, Babunuvbtechah said:

Neynu ayitey anne cases lo mogallu cheated aney snta 

So , depending on ur posts and flirting , u cheated ?? 

[Moon_Walker]

2 minutes ago, Chandralekha said:

 

Lol .. edho okati anukondee ... asal questionnaires ki answer cheyande ,I am keen to know what men thinks wen they cheat and how do they justify 

That is in mens genes. No matter what u do planting as many seeds as possible is what men has been doing traditionally from ages. If women think that will change then i can only say they are living in fantasy land.

[Chandralekha]

2 minutes ago, Moon_Walker said:

That is in mens genes. No matter what u do planting as many seeds as possible is what men has been doing traditionally from ages. If women think that will change then i can only say they are living in fantasy land.

What drives you to cheat ? Is it the situation ? Or just like that u do the thing ? 

[Babunuvbtechah]

16 minutes ago, Chandralekha said:

So , depending on ur posts and flirting , u cheated ?? 

Yep , even though it’s not physical , occasional flirting is also cheating . I still regret abt it 

[Babunuvbtechah]

In some survey , if they don’t get caught almost 89% of men cheats , aadavalu kuda eam takkuva tinnala 43% women does the same antha . 

[LordOfMud]

1 minute ago, Babunuvbtechah said:

In some survey , if they don’t get caught almost 89% of men cheats , aadavalu kuda eam takkuva tinnala 43% women does the same antha . 

[Babunuvbtechah]

1 minute ago, LordOfMud said:

Ende dance estunnav , lokam antha dongalley Ana 

[LordOfMud]

3 minutes ago, Babunuvbtechah said:

Ende dance estunnav , lokam antha dongalley Ana 

[Babunuvbtechah]

6 minutes ago, LordOfMud said:

Happy Washington day Anna !