Thanks for your comments

[Raithu_bidda_]

Bagaindi ra neeku 

[mettastar]

2 minutes ago, KathiRamdaas said:

vaasi vaadi tathsa deeya...annitiki pillalu solution kaadu man...Planning kids is huge thing and Many don't like to plan early ...mana desis lo manufacturing common aa ley oka muddu undadu muchata undaadu anni pillal lone kanipistaayi  

manodi situation ki ade correct laaga undi .. pellam eppudu evaditho podho ane bayam 

[coolie]

1 minute ago, mettastar said:

manodi situation ki ade correct laaga undi .. pellam eppudu evaditho podho ane bayam 

Inko option undi.. Amway lo join cheyyi

[13vikram]

Nenu naa first job lo oka north indian ammayi naa colleague parichayam ayyindhi. With in few months we were in love and almost kalisi unnam for 2.5 years. She used to live alone, her sister used to work in same state, but different city vachi velthundedhi. I used to share accommodation with other telugu guy in another room. She was beautiful, smart and caring person. Oka roju friday office nundi friend ni pick chesukovali airport nundi ani vellipoyindhi sudden ga. She didn't call or answered any of my messages until monday evening. I asked her next day what happened, friend tho bayatiki vellanu ani cheppindhi. I asked if it was a male friend and she said yes, mari mundhu endhuku cheppa ledhu ani adiga. nuvvu adagaledhu andhi, friend or boy friend ani adiga. He is getting married, kalavadaniki vachadu annadhi...naaku appudu ardham ayyindhi nannu oka option la pettukundhi..ayithe vaadu lekapothe nenu ani. I checked her messenger, naa gurinchi vallu fight chesukunnaru. Nuvvu nannu chesukovu andhuke I moved on ani vadiki cheppindhi. dhaniki vaadu nannu vadhilesthe chesukunta ani cheppadu. nannu marriage chesuko anadam start chesindhi after few days, nenu annanu if you are upfront with your past and current status with people you may had relationships with I will think annanu. Appudu antha cheppindhi he was her senior in college and they loved and decided to get married, but his family didn't agree, he still has feelings and he can't decide to get married or not. Parallel ga matrimonial lo profile undhi valla parents maintain chestharu, first nundi thelusu naaku adhi undhi chusthunnaru ani. one day edho match set ayyi she disocnnected with everyone and came back after a week that she got engaged and getting married in 1 month and we said good  to each other. I was heart broken, cried my heart out and depressed, I changed my project and moved to another city. I literally disconnected from my past and everyone I know. Few months passed by and her sister called me one day and wanted to meet and took flight to my place. She said  for what her sister has done and she knew she would do something like this. She was aware of her past relations and she felt  that I'm being used. She said, she could see how much I loved her sister To cheer me up she took me to clubs, bars and travelled alot. With in few weeks we were best buddies and her sister came to know about this and she got upset. She called me one day while she and her husband are driving and introduced to him as her sisters's friend and I felt zero interest in their conversation and I got an impression they think that I'm her sister's boy friend, I told them we are just friends and I'm not ready for another break up nor I will let that happen. She got taken aback that I was going to talk about my past relationship and ended the call swiftly. Her sister's project ended and found a new one 1 hour from my place. We used to hangout every weekend. We never had a disagreement nor we had felt like we are bf and gf. We never had sexual feeling for each other. We have known each others life in and out, future plans and we came to a point where we could say anything to eachother without trouble. On one new year, me, her and friends went to party and she proposed me with a kiss. I was shocked and told her no, ippudu unna relation bagundhi ani cheppanu. She was so mature for her age and asked me the reason for denial, if it was her sister that made me take that decission. ayyi undochu ani cheppanu, she asked me to rethink if she was not related to her sister. I couldn't find a reason, as she was perfect in every way. life lo intha kante ardham chesukune and open ga matlade partner arranged marriage lo dhorakadhu  anipinchindhi. We got married with partial yes from both families. It has been best years of my life after marrige, we very happy as friends more than a couple. We have no jealousy, possesiveness or compulsion to live life as one of us dictates. Eveything was fine until one day, when we went to this get together north indian party of her friends.It was in one of their house, everone was looking forward for having good time that weekend. Everyone was drunk and dancing, having fun. Later in the night I noticed few of them getting intimate with others wife while dancing and their husbands couldn't care less. I was shocked and asked my wife what was going on. She said everything is fine, they are used to it. I was the only south indian guy in the party and couldn't see what I was seeing. Called my wife and went for sleep, asked her what was going on. She said some couples are ij open relationships and they don't mind having extra fun with a wink. I told her this is disgusting, how can do that with friends. I understand if it was dance club and with some unknown, but how with a person you see next day when you wake up. She replied it's common in parties, so does her sister and they know couples who actually share wives after parties. I thought it was disgusting and ended topic there, appudu annindhi evaru evarni force cheyyat ledhu valla life valla istam manaku endhuku ani. 

After few months, one of her friends husband called for drinks and we met at a bar. He brought the topic that I was disgusted with the topic. My wife told his wife and she told him. He said same thing  what my wife said and they are okay with it and they disucess this ahead and said I'm always invited witha big laughter. It felt uncomfortable and ended that topic and had few drinks and headed home. Asked my wife why she told them how I feel about their life, she said they asked if we would be interested and she told how I feel. I asked if she was interested and she laughed it off and said we can try if I want to. Now, I'm confused is it me that is only disgusted by this idea and they are just seeing if I would say yes. 

We love eachother too much, I don't want to loose her. Are we being manipulated into this? Am I outcasted? Am I not communicating right with her? Am I old fashioned? I couldn't sleep since last 2 days, she seems interested, am I married to right person? Did I make a right decision with my marriage? Even, if I say know, how could I forget this idea and still be friends with them? 

I feel terrible and I'm at a junction to make a decision without effecting anyone. Share your suggestions and thoughts, please

[13vikram]

akka ni goki sellini cheskunna story edaithe undho 

[Raithu_bidda_]

Suicide sesko ra panikimalins savata 

[no01]

kids planning is not a solution.....adds fuel to fire...mahaa ante first few months kid will keep her busy, but cannot put end to her mindset and thoughts (no guarantee). Last thing you dont want her is sleeping with other guys without your knowledge (extra marital affairs). Wife swapping gurinchi vinnamu kaani majority of western folks dont follow this....inka India culture nundi perigina manam, ilantivi vintunte shocking ga undi.  

Kids planning ki munde talk to her and take decision. Once you have kids and then you guys decide to part away.......it will be hell for life (and for your kids). 

[aryeman]

2 minutes ago, Raithu_bidda_ said:

Suicide sesko ra panikimalins savata 

Can you suggest any ideas who might have given a try?

[kingcasanova]

42 minutes ago, coolie said:

 

Piskology baaga telsinattundi @kingcasanova neeku

manodi confusion thattukoleka nijam cheppesaa man 

[Raithu_bidda_]

Nee pendlam notlo nunchi aa words ragane godda kesi kotali ra pichi pakodi nuvu better suicide seskoni savu ra useless fellow 

[coolie]

1 minute ago, Raithu_bidda_ said:

Nee pendlam notlo nunchi aa words ragane godda kesi kotali ra pichi pakodi nuvu better suicide seskoni savu ra useless fellow 

Nuvvu inka e kaalam lo unnavu brother ?...... Dint you see my choice by deepika padukone... valla ishtam...

[Raithu_bidda_]

1 minute ago, aryeman said:

Can you suggest any ideas who might have given a try?

Abn and tv9 news follow ka ra work place ninchi duki sachi po nee parents ni alimony ivandi ani selfie video tisko my wife is a gone case I am dying due to work pleassure ani video tisko 

[Raithu_bidda_]

1 minute ago, coolie said:

Nuvvu inka e kaalam lo unnavu brother ?... 

Crypto kaalam lo baa Black chain is future 

[hello987]

1 minute ago, coolie said:

Nuvvu inka e kaalam lo unnavu brother ?... 

Brother kadhu uncle ayyi untadu

[Raithu_bidda_]

4 minutes ago, no01 said:

kids planning is not a solution.....adds fuel to fire...mahaa ante first few months kid will keep her busy, but cannot put end to her mindset and thoughts (no guarantee). Last thing you dont want her is sleeping with other guys without your knowledge (extra marital affairs). Wife swapping gurinchi vinnamu kaani majority of western folks dont follow this....inka India culture nundi perigina manam, ilantivi vintunte shocking ga undi.  

Kids planning ki munde talk to her and take decision. Once you have kids and then you guys decide to part away.......it will be hell for life (and for your kids). 

Aa kids avariki putaro telavadu fake story from samajas fake account