Everything is fine ☹️

[reddyeee]

46 minutes ago, Chandralekha said:

Doorakarruu, karma kaalii ookalluu abuse gallu ayitey , inkokkalluu soft untaruu. Men too face domestic abuse , yep that’s correct papam wallaki asal cheppukovataniki kuda leydhu ( boys don’t cry type lo , chetikkii gajulluu toddukunava anee andaru bully chestaruu papam aala cheppukuntey ) 

ala dorakaru ante ela Lekha. Pillalaki hopes vundaali gaa marriage ante

[uttermost]

some part of the blame is on consumerist culture too. people expect more from everything, than they can give back.

everybody wants to become a billionaire. i.e. a lifestyle where you can pretend that your ability to buy stuff is actually contributing back to the place from where you take.

as for your friend, no one can help her. you can, if you consider her a friend. looks like you look down on her. poor woman. Hope she makes better friends.

[uttermost]

50 minutes ago, Chandralekha said:

Doorakarruu, karma kaalii ookalluu abuse gallu ayitey , inkokkalluu soft untaruu. Men too face domestic abuse , yep that’s correct papam wallaki asal cheppukovataniki kuda leydhu ( boys don’t cry type lo , chetikkii gajulluu toddukunava anee andaru bully chestaruu papam aala cheppukuntey ) 

lol. idhi avasarama?

 

[Rushabhi]

19 minutes ago, Chandralekha said:

Maybe she should ,one day she was so frustrated, he took her car and drove away , and called him that she is never coming back unless he apologize and stop humiliating her , u know wat happened ?? He called her mom and used disgusting words “ Emmey l@n*a , so u a have a family bussiness of prostitution?? I think ur daughter is keeping up ur values , she ran away somewhere with some guy , I’m filing divorce do whatever  u want to do , poor mom she cried and called her daughter begged her to go back , ughh this women had no choice except to go back , girl’s mom haven’t revealed all these bullshit to her husband or son , she thought I ka penta avvudhe 😡😡😡😡😡

I would not give a  to that guy. I would start by separating finances and not giving a dime to him. And then stopping doing any work from him like cooking cleaning. I would probably record evidence and if in the melee he raises his hand very good I would threaten to call 911

[uttermost]

2 minutes ago, Rushabhi said:

I would not give a  to that guy. I would start by separating finances and not giving a dime to him. And then stopping doing any work from him like cooking cleaning. I would probably record evidence and if in the melee he raises his hand very good I would threaten to call 911

Absolutely.

or simple thing to do is just walk away, and stop taking calls from people who can potentially blackmail you into going back to him.

its better to not involve govts and courts. ofcourse evidence gathering is important in case, he involves courts. 

just for our sanity, its better to simply walk away.

[uttermost]

13 minutes ago, reddyeee said:

ala dorakaru ante ela Lekha. Pillalaki hopes vundaali gaa marriage ante

hmmm.. traditional marriages annitlo ee problem unnayi.

konni extreme ki velthaai, konni iddaru sarduku potharu. but issues remain. well adjusted couples ani evaru undaru. very very rare.

 marriage meedha obssessive ga untey, kastamey aa abbayi ni nammatam. 

idhi nijam. why not just casual friendship? 

[MagaMaharaju]

6 minutes ago, uttermost said:

hmmm.. traditional marriages annitlo ee problem unnayi.

konni extreme ki velthaai, konni iddaru sarduku potharu. but issues remain. well adjusted couples ani evaru undaru. very very rare.

 marriage meedha obssessive ga untey, kastamey aa abbayi ni nammatam. 

idhi nijam. why not just casual friendship? 

casual friendship tho pillalni kanocha

[reddyeee]

15 minutes ago, uttermost said:

Absolutely.

or simple thing to do is just walk away, and stop taking calls from people who can potentially blackmail you into going back to him.

its better to not involve govts and courts. ofcourse evidence gathering is important in case, he involves courts. 

just for our sanity, its better to simply walk away.

[uttermost]

34 minutes ago, MagaMaharaju said:

casual friendship tho pillalni kanocha

hmm.. antey if you believe you can raise the child on your own, elagaina kanochu. ofcourse society will say this and that. who cares.

always have friends. not virtual friends, but actual friends. and you can do most things.

don't be like RGV  

[Rushabhi]

2 hours ago, uttermost said:

Absolutely.

or simple thing to do is just walk away, and stop taking calls from people who can potentially blackmail you into going back to him.

its better to not involve govts and courts. ofcourse evidence gathering is important in case, he involves courts. 

just for our sanity, its better to simply walk away.

You will never have sanity with such kind. He and his folks malign the girl's character. They may say she had an affair or she is very greedy or something else. They may also come into virtual world and malign the wife saying she is so and so. You keep hearing about yourself even after your divorce.That is why having evidence is crucial.That guy doesn't seem to possess basic decency.

[Kate]

No one cares about her situation even parents...it’s she who needs to take action since it’s her life

[kittaya]

6 hours ago, Chandralekha said:

Women often trap themselves in abusive relationship and think this is just normal in any married life ( especially Indian women ) Some women are manipulated in  such a way by her family ( yes , parents ey ) and community around her , even she is going through abusive relationship that it is so normal in any married life and dismiss her ☹️

H1 gada...

[Chandralekha]

33 minutes ago, kittaya said:

H1 gada...

Bhaley cheppeysaru mastaruu.... h1 .. monney green card ochindee 

[vendettaa]

1 hour ago, Kate said:

No one cares about her situation even parents...it’s she who needs to take action since it’s her life

With parents support 

tough to get their support too but pray that they realize soon and get their daughter out of this 

[Chandralekha]

5 hours ago, hotmaddy said:

Nuvvu only aavida story vini conclusion ki vasthunnav. Naaku thelisina cases lo husband konchem baaga chusukunte wife rechipoyina stories vinna. Inka veedu vere dikku leka complete control chesevaadu nuvvu cheppina aa husband laaga.

Totally wrong .. ekkada husband baga chuskunttey eyy wife ala cheyyaduu, neynu bet koddtunnaa!!! Complete control chesthey emmaindee story maree wallaadhee naaku telesee divorce ayyuntundee